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FR - Social Proof on a grand scale...step 1

PostPosted: Tue Feb 12, 2008 6:44 pm
by AFC AdamLondon
heya guys,

I'm slapping this up on a few forums, to show the world something I've wondered If I could do, and thought I'd document from the beginging.

So today I hit Mahiki nightclub in Central London,

After a particularly traumatic evening involving me fracturing my hand I decided the only fix is to remember who I am and get back to game.

I hit the club with my Wing MrM, with a view to slowely build up some social weight for future visits.

The night started slow but I made sure to introduce myself to the bouncer and the head girl at the door. We waited in line...a first for me in a long time, but worth it, Mahiki is part of my grand plan.

We hit the club early and move into the club area. They're premiering a new night called art art art. We vybed with the room using the name of the head girl upstairs to grab a bit of social weight. Then moved to the bar.

I opened the barmaid by hitting on her accent.


AFC Adam: Can we get some drinks?
HB: nah it's too early for drinks yet.
AFC Adam: Heya you're an ozzie right?
HB: Nah I'm a Kiwi, so now you definately aint getting them
AFC Adam: Thats not nice.
HB: Yeah well you should see how nice I am when I kick you out of the club for giving me back chat
AFC Adam: Hahaha, Whether I get a drink or thrown out it'd still be considered an eventful night. It's win win for me.
HB: I love the response, very good attitude, what do you want to drink?

Seriously do I have to game people just to get served nowadays? What's happened in this world?

I then move onto an opinion opener as it's a good way to build up the conversation.

I'm not going to share that with you as it's to do with some current events in my life.

However, the best form of opinion openers are always based on current events, she got incredibly into it, and also gave some pretty well honestly it was crap advice, but whatever she's hot and I got a load of comfort.

MrM then vybes with a small group of guys giving us access to a group of girls who we continue to chat to.

(mental note, girls in mahiki are not as hot as I'd first thought)

We moved to the VIP section, where MrM opened a three set seated at a private table, I move in after 5 mins and DHV him, we hook and get to share their table.

The conversation is ok, 1 girl is hot the others really aren't so I get lost in my head for a while.

HB: Hey I'm sorry I don't mean to exclude you from the conversation, let me explain it to you.
AFC Adam: hahaha, nah it's cool I'm sorry just drifted off.

Just hold the frame and they really will reignite conversation. Try it.

So then We moved back to the main bar, Opened a couple of dudes, and got access to a pair of what I thought where initially the hottest girls in the bar.

Points to note, cool hair, good figure, and tits on display do not make up for acne, or a big ass, no matter how hard you try.

Anyway she truly is the hottest girl in the room, turns out she organisies the parties on a wednesday, with free entry and drinks. (hey sounds familiar) I get my invite, get my number close, sort my social proof and then me and MrM leave the club.

Naturally number closing the HB on the door for future reference.

Guys I'm on a new mission and you're all invited to come and watch the ride.

Tell your friends, this is going to be a massive year for all of us.

I'm going to break down rising the social ladder of HB's in a single venue for ya'll.

Why Mahiki?

One word.

Celebrities.....

AFC Adam

PostPosted: Tue Feb 12, 2008 7:47 pm
by Blue
hey adam, why did you fracture your hand?

PostPosted: Tue Feb 12, 2008 9:09 pm
by Welsh_Dragon
Adam it is spooky to read this post as our methods are so similar apparently. Particularly rung a chord with vibing guys.

PostPosted: Wed Feb 13, 2008 2:50 am
by AFC AdamLondon
Cheers man,

means alot to hear that. This really is a massive project, by going into my own game again from cold I'm hoping to acheive something pretty decent.

If you guys don't have action plans it's soemthing that really could elevate your personal game by giving you set targets to acheive.

I'll explain more as it goes on.

Yah the hand was done as part of an experiment, it turns out walls really are tougher than bone...who'lld have thought?

AFC Adam

PostPosted: Thu Feb 14, 2008 11:37 am
by Solace
So now, girls are luring in the guys with promises of candy and nintendo games?? That's absolutely crazy... Oh well, I guess it helps my cause, or does it!? See you here in a few weeks, bro. Welsh we needa catch up soon..

PostPosted: Thu Feb 14, 2008 2:21 pm
by AFC AdamLondon
Yeah man,

I'm really looking forward to it.

PostPosted: Thu Feb 14, 2008 5:32 pm
by Dragon
AFC AdamLondon wrote:means alot to hear that. This really is a massive project, by going into my own game again from cold I'm hoping to acheive something pretty decent.

If you guys don't have action plans it's soemthing that really could elevate your personal game by giving you set targets to acheive.



AFC Adam



The massive project, action plan... That is an advance lesson???
Like something I cannot read in any of the books.

PostPosted: Thu Feb 14, 2008 7:03 pm
by AFC AdamLondon
Yeah I'm trying something new.

:D

PostPosted: Thu Feb 14, 2008 7:41 pm
by Tribulus1000
Awesome Adam!

Really fantastic. Nice the way you open with "Are we getting a drink?" which I'll test out this weekend and then you very effectively reframe a "shit test" to a win-win situation.

I also really like your "Master Plan" idea. I'm guessing you are thinking networking and have something like a "Six Degrees of Kevin Bacon" schematic in your head? Am I right?

Maybe not that but at least some kinda plan?

...like a who knows who so I can see all the players on the chess board and plan my moves to get the queen?

At what point do you go for it? Do you just wait it out and take the best option?


-T

PostPosted: Fri Feb 15, 2008 3:42 am
by AFC AdamLondon
Tribulus,

That is exactly the plan.

Just working out where all the pieces sit. Then deciding which move to take next.

But it's interesting seeing just how big you can take things. It's like my Metagame idea only bigger.