The 90 day freeze out
Posted: Sat Feb 02, 2008 8:13 pmI met a chick in a bar back in September. We went out four times. Each time we went out, I'd encounter major LMR with this girl. With me, if a girl says "No" I stop. I don't want to be accused of date rape.
Anyway, after the fourth time, it just so happened my that my number 1 girlfriend at the time busted out the tears on me, and guilted me into an exclusive relationship. So I called this girl with the major LMR and told her I was not going to be able to see her again because me and another girl were going to try an exclusive relationship. I could tell it hurt her feelings. So I called her right back, got screened to VM and I left her a message: "Hey, I just want you to understand, it's not you. It's just a matter of bad timing. I think you're great. It's just bat timing and if it weren't for this timing thing, things probably would have worked out for us."
So anyway, 90 days later, I decided to break things off with my exclusive girlfriend. I loved her but I wanted my freedom. (Sometimes I think this was a huge mistake...she was great!) Anyway, a few weeks later I called the chick with the major LMR. She agreed to go out with me.
So anyway, this morning we're laying there in bed and I start kissing her stomache, and start going down to pleasure her. "No." Ok, so I go back up and kiss her face and neck and I tell her "Hey, if you say no, that's the serious word. If you say anything else, I'm gonna do what you really want me to do. But if you say the serious word, I have to stop." So we went through this a few times.
Then, I finally told her, I'm gonna give you a good massage. Here, take this towel, lay it out on the bed. Take your shirt off and lay face down on the towel. I'll be back in a second with the massage oil." I came back in and sure enough, she had done as instructed. I ended up seducing her for a F-closer after a 90 day freeze out!
We talked about the break-up 90 days ago a little last night after a few drinks. She said she appreciated the honesty. Any other move and she wouldn't have answered my calls. Like, if I would have just stopped calling her or if I would have lied to her, she wouldn't have seen me again.
Anyway, after the fourth time, it just so happened my that my number 1 girlfriend at the time busted out the tears on me, and guilted me into an exclusive relationship. So I called this girl with the major LMR and told her I was not going to be able to see her again because me and another girl were going to try an exclusive relationship. I could tell it hurt her feelings. So I called her right back, got screened to VM and I left her a message: "Hey, I just want you to understand, it's not you. It's just a matter of bad timing. I think you're great. It's just bat timing and if it weren't for this timing thing, things probably would have worked out for us."
So anyway, 90 days later, I decided to break things off with my exclusive girlfriend. I loved her but I wanted my freedom. (Sometimes I think this was a huge mistake...she was great!) Anyway, a few weeks later I called the chick with the major LMR. She agreed to go out with me.
So anyway, this morning we're laying there in bed and I start kissing her stomache, and start going down to pleasure her. "No." Ok, so I go back up and kiss her face and neck and I tell her "Hey, if you say no, that's the serious word. If you say anything else, I'm gonna do what you really want me to do. But if you say the serious word, I have to stop." So we went through this a few times.
Then, I finally told her, I'm gonna give you a good massage. Here, take this towel, lay it out on the bed. Take your shirt off and lay face down on the towel. I'll be back in a second with the massage oil." I came back in and sure enough, she had done as instructed. I ended up seducing her for a F-closer after a 90 day freeze out!
We talked about the break-up 90 days ago a little last night after a few drinks. She said she appreciated the honesty. Any other move and she wouldn't have answered my calls. Like, if I would have just stopped calling her or if I would have lied to her, she wouldn't have seen me again.