FR: I'M THE ASS THAT BREAKS UP RELATIONSHIPS NOW
Posted: Wed Jan 30, 2008 2:02 amSo i have become that, which i always told myself i wouldn't become! you guys can decide from my report.
FYI: I believe some other ass was the reason my last relationship ended. oh well, I'm in the community now, and LOVE IT.
ANYWAYS... Yeah, a relationship has ended because of me.
Here's the story:
Well lately i been kinda relaxed with the whole sarging thing. I kinda fell of the band wagon and just want to concentrate on school. I know there will always be hot chicks, and when im making the money i'll be all the better at picking up chicks.
So now i kinda go now to practice and keep my game at a descent level, and to help a friend out thats just now getting into the community. VERY SHY, NEVER HAD A GF. So i been pushing him into sets and stuff, kinda showing him how its done. I enjoy sarging, and find it to be very entertaining, but after that night of surging i usually don't take it any farther then that night. No interest in another relationship till im graduated college. (3 years)
OK, well 3 weeks ago, me and my friend I'm helping are walking around the club looking for different sets i can get him into. He really doesn't have much luck so i though i show him some dance floor game. Well i go around and kinda show him how i get into sets on the dance floor and stuff. Well i see this really hot HB9 on the floor dancing. So i come up to her, get her to start dancing with me and we get it ON. I love it! Not more then 5 minutes later this dude comes up and tries to take her away from me. I LOVE A CHALLENGE!!!! so i start talking with the dude.
me: hey hey! wuz up man, are you her bf or something, cause if you are i'll back off right now.
(i got my arms around both the chick and the cblock and pull them closer so the chick can hear everything the cblock says. VERY IMPORTANT so if he lies and try to say he's her bf she would conform or deny it. If i believe the answer i would have just backed off)
Cblock: Oh no, yeah we're just friends
me: dang man, you go out to the club with her and she never gets you hooked up with no other girls. MAN THATS MESSED UP! When i go with my girl friends they alway get me hooked up some how.
CBLOCK: Naw man its cool, i just like chilling around.
Me: aww man, you can't just hang around her all nite, you got to go out there and pick up some chicks!!!!!
CBLOCK: haha, yeah i know, but i just really like hanging out.
so i try to pull her away from this Cblock. Try to get her to dance mostly with me. But i notice this guys keep trying to pull her away. I get kinda away, but the cblock would step around and try to drag her off again. I was getting pissed off at this motherfucker. So i pretended to try and say something in her ear, then said it was too freaken loud. Follow me so we can talk and hear each other talk. Which then i lead her off (by her hand). i just about to get her off the dance floor when that CBLOCK grabs her again and starts talking to her. I turn around and say "hey im leaving. I'll talk to you later." She stops me and said to give her a minute.
After that we went outside and sat and talked. Not more then 2 minutes later her phones starts going off. She picks up the phone and starts talking back in another language. She hangs up.
me: DANG! your friends are really protective. But i understand, when i go out with my girlfriends i'm really protective of them too.
HB: oh so you have alot of girlfriends. Your a player aren't you!!!
Me: No, i ment girls that are my friends, your silly. I'm no player.
HB: whatever i see you at the club all the time.
(I was really surprised!)
Me: REALLY!! you notice me!!
blah blah blah, i don't really remember what else we talked about cuz i was kinda buzzing at the time.
So we talked for about 4-5 minutes and the club was closing so i asked for her phone number, which then she took out her phone and asked for mine. I took her phone, typed my #, and called my phone so i could get her number. I asked her what name i could put her under so i could remember her. (this whole time i didn't even ask her name) She said just put jess, and asked for my name. I been doing this thing lately where i give out fake names. IONO why i do it, but i told her my name was Victor.
So we go back to the club and we meet up with with my friends. Turns out she friends with another of my friend's EX's. And my friend actually know OF her. Ok, i give her a big hug and tell her to have a safe trip home.
BAD ASS NITE FOR ME, PULLED A hb9 and with a CBLOCK there.
Ok a week passes and i don't call her or anything. Like i said i don't really care for any relationship till i graduate.
FYI: I don't work, and basically i just go to school. My parents pay for school, but they pretty much don't pay for anything else. So no money for dating anyways.
But i found out that that HB9 was a big clubber so i texted her on saturday night.
me: hey, you remember me? i heard you go to the club alot. Is it going to be the same story tonight.
hb: yeah. What story?
(did i mention she a chinese international student)
me: Are you bring your sexy self back to the club again story?
HB: Sorry but i am not interested.
DANG! that would hurt, but i really didn't care what she said SOOO to fix this i just call her on the phone and talk to her.
me: ummm, im kinda confused. What are you not interested in. I don't know what your talking about.
HB: Oh...... um iono. Though you wanted to start something
Me: oh no, i just like to meet new people and though you where pretty cool, and wanted to get to know you better and be friends and stuff.
hb: oh, yeah. thats cool, we can go hang out and stuff
Me: oh, first you said you wasn't interested and now you want to hang out wit me. Iono.............sound fishy.
hb: its just i don't like guys that are to flurty.
Me: oh, dang! was i being to flurty. I'm kinda always like that. i'll try and tone it down.
blah blah blah, eventually i get it all straightened out and find out she going to the same club i meet her at last weekend.
So me and my friends head out the same club, and i help my new friend ( the one new to the community) enter some sets. Just like the week before.
Well i notice the HB9 again and i come up to her and take her hand and tell her to come and say hello to me.
Well the same CBLOCK from last weekend was there again and forcibly grab her by the wrist this time and pull her away from me. (stupid chod, now he'slost)
No big deal, i spent the rest of the night TRYING to get my friend into sets.
when we leave the club i started texting her
me: hey i wanted to say hello to you, but it seem like your friend keep you very protected. Hope you had fun nite, even with that
hb:where are you?
didn't anwer
hb: i am so drunk. Sorry. i saw you
me: its ok! you can always make it up to me then!! hope you get home safe. You know we need to have a real conversation some times!!
hb: You are going back? awww....
(no idea what she means by that)
me: That makes no sense. I will talk to you tomorrow
hb: you didn't even say hi to me, you are so mean?
me: to tired to text! call me up
(at this time i was freaken tired and just laying in bed)
she doesn't call, oh well i passed out anyways. Didn't talk to her till i found out from a friend that she had giving me a fake name also. LOL so i text her
me: so it seems like we have something in common already. We both like to give out bullshit names when we meet people, we're perfect for each other!! lol j/k
hb: ..What did you find out?
i didn't want to answer, want to keep it a mystery to her
well she texted me the next day.
hb: you didn't answer the question yesterday, David!!! (she used my real name)
me: lol!!! i guess that's just something your going to have to figure out! cindy (i used her real name)
hb: i see. But i don't like to play games, MR. Tran. What is this all about? (used my last name)
me: "mr. tran" WOW!!! so serious ms. cheng! are you always like this? What's this about? Ummm........... (so i used hers)
HB: How much do you know about me? Do you have some sercret investigators?
me: LOL! heck no, your not that special what about you stalker, you seem to have alot of info on me for just a weekend.
Hb: I don't have a stalkers. I just know your name. Don't think your special either.
i didn't answer after that till friday. Me and my friends was going to have a karaoke night. The thing is most of my friends have gf now and i was going to try and the that HB9 over. i texted, asking her what she was doing that night. She answered with " why do you want to know." She is friends with an ex of my friend. So i tried to call him if it was ok if i invited the HB, and his ex over. i didn't know if it would be acquired or not. But didn't reach him, so i never texted the hb back. We just proceed to get drunk and have a good time.
Later that night i get a text from her asking where i was. around the time the club closed. So what the heck, i try to get her over to join our party. I was really drunk that night and don't remember everything i said, but i remember tell her she was too much of a party girl. That we needed to hang out some times. She said that i wouldn't call her tomorrow, so i doesn't matter if i asked. So i said if i called her the next day, she would have to go hang out with me.
Next day i give her a call. Turns out she left her car at a friends house and she waiting for another friend to pick it up. I asked her if she remember the conversation we had last nite. she did, but she needed to get her car. so i TOLD HER
me: Go and get your car, and call me. Then well go hangout!
HB: WOW, your so controlling.
me: you want me to be nicer. OK. PLease get your car, please give me a call, please hang out with me. (sarcasticly)
HB: No, No.
Me: fine then, get your car, give me a call we'ill hang out.
hb: fine
Later on she gives me a call and we meet up for dinner.
This is what i found out:
1. That CBLOCK was a guy she had been dating, but there relationship was going bad.
(which i found out a couple days before so i didn't seem all surprised)
2. That she saw me at the club alot and wondered why i didn't talk to her.
my response was, sorry i never really noticed you.
3. That she came to dinner with me to let me know about the guys she been dating, and wanted me to know that i wasn't so kinda rebound guy. which i responded with, " you can rebound of me any time."
4. she wanted to be friends. but i told her that can't happen. I never wanted to be a guy that breakes up relationships. So she need to find out what she was going to do with that guy and then let me know.
i also did some cold readings on her and found out alot about her. I tried to relate on several thing she said. SO I DIDN'T PLAY COCKY THE WHOLE DINNER. It was actually nice. so 3 hours later she needed to meet up friends, and i need to meet up mine. IT WAS CLUBBIN NIGHT RIGHT. She was going to the same club again.
I tried to find another place to go, cuz i know mr.CBLOCK was going to be out and didn't want to start anything. BUt my friend told me that he knows for sure he wasn't going to be there. SO we went anyways.
When i saw her there, we talked for a little bit and i pulled her away so we could talk. we started making out for a while till and i took her back to her friends. I found out that one of the guys that was in her group was the guy's she dating friend. SO I TRIED TO STAY AWAY!!! but later in the nite she texted me asking where i was, and that she wanted to leave. I meet her up again, which was close to her friend. (once again she was wasted, thats 3 weekend in a row). She said she needed to get away, cuz everyone was bugging her to much about me, and the guys she dating was also at the club.
Well i sneak her out the back door, and she keep telling me she doesn't want me to get into a fight or anything. I take her to my car where i meet up my friends, and her friend. (which was the EX i been talked about.) OK, both girls a drunk, and can't drive. So we went to pick up the HB car and i was going to take her back home, and let my friends pick me up from there.
Well when i went to pick up her car there was a guy staring at me, so i kept an eye out for him. When i reversed the HB car, he stepped infront of the car and i just drove around him and speed off. I don't need to get into no fights. So little later i get the HB in the car and start driving her home. Thats when we started making out. Then i just dropped her off and went home with my friends.
next couple of day, the HB asked if i had "PLAYED" her that nite. Which i told her no, and that she need to figure out what she was going to do with that guy before anything else could happen.
Well yesterday i found out that she had told that guy what had happened that night, and the guy flipped out. SHE COULDN't JUST HAVE just LIED. omg. So i'm pretty sure there broken up. All because of me. FUCK!! i would have been fine if he never knew and they just broke up and i started to date her. But now he knows. I actually feel bad about that CHOD.
Sorry so long, but this was a span of 3 weeks. Plus i thought how i dealt with cblocks, my club game, text game, and other cockyness i used would help others.
so what do you guys think about everything after reading. PLEASE RESPOND. I would love any comments you guys have. What should i do now? I don't think i'll be clubbin for a while now, cuz i probably got some small triad after me
FYI: I believe some other ass was the reason my last relationship ended. oh well, I'm in the community now, and LOVE IT.
ANYWAYS... Yeah, a relationship has ended because of me.
Here's the story:
Well lately i been kinda relaxed with the whole sarging thing. I kinda fell of the band wagon and just want to concentrate on school. I know there will always be hot chicks, and when im making the money i'll be all the better at picking up chicks.
So now i kinda go now to practice and keep my game at a descent level, and to help a friend out thats just now getting into the community. VERY SHY, NEVER HAD A GF. So i been pushing him into sets and stuff, kinda showing him how its done. I enjoy sarging, and find it to be very entertaining, but after that night of surging i usually don't take it any farther then that night. No interest in another relationship till im graduated college. (3 years)
OK, well 3 weeks ago, me and my friend I'm helping are walking around the club looking for different sets i can get him into. He really doesn't have much luck so i though i show him some dance floor game. Well i go around and kinda show him how i get into sets on the dance floor and stuff. Well i see this really hot HB9 on the floor dancing. So i come up to her, get her to start dancing with me and we get it ON. I love it! Not more then 5 minutes later this dude comes up and tries to take her away from me. I LOVE A CHALLENGE!!!! so i start talking with the dude.
me: hey hey! wuz up man, are you her bf or something, cause if you are i'll back off right now.
(i got my arms around both the chick and the cblock and pull them closer so the chick can hear everything the cblock says. VERY IMPORTANT so if he lies and try to say he's her bf she would conform or deny it. If i believe the answer i would have just backed off)
Cblock: Oh no, yeah we're just friends
me: dang man, you go out to the club with her and she never gets you hooked up with no other girls. MAN THATS MESSED UP! When i go with my girl friends they alway get me hooked up some how.
CBLOCK: Naw man its cool, i just like chilling around.
Me: aww man, you can't just hang around her all nite, you got to go out there and pick up some chicks!!!!!
CBLOCK: haha, yeah i know, but i just really like hanging out.
so i try to pull her away from this Cblock. Try to get her to dance mostly with me. But i notice this guys keep trying to pull her away. I get kinda away, but the cblock would step around and try to drag her off again. I was getting pissed off at this motherfucker. So i pretended to try and say something in her ear, then said it was too freaken loud. Follow me so we can talk and hear each other talk. Which then i lead her off (by her hand). i just about to get her off the dance floor when that CBLOCK grabs her again and starts talking to her. I turn around and say "hey im leaving. I'll talk to you later." She stops me and said to give her a minute.
After that we went outside and sat and talked. Not more then 2 minutes later her phones starts going off. She picks up the phone and starts talking back in another language. She hangs up.
me: DANG! your friends are really protective. But i understand, when i go out with my girlfriends i'm really protective of them too.
HB: oh so you have alot of girlfriends. Your a player aren't you!!!
Me: No, i ment girls that are my friends, your silly. I'm no player.
HB: whatever i see you at the club all the time.
(I was really surprised!)
Me: REALLY!! you notice me!!
blah blah blah, i don't really remember what else we talked about cuz i was kinda buzzing at the time.
So we talked for about 4-5 minutes and the club was closing so i asked for her phone number, which then she took out her phone and asked for mine. I took her phone, typed my #, and called my phone so i could get her number. I asked her what name i could put her under so i could remember her. (this whole time i didn't even ask her name) She said just put jess, and asked for my name. I been doing this thing lately where i give out fake names. IONO why i do it, but i told her my name was Victor.
So we go back to the club and we meet up with with my friends. Turns out she friends with another of my friend's EX's. And my friend actually know OF her. Ok, i give her a big hug and tell her to have a safe trip home.
BAD ASS NITE FOR ME, PULLED A hb9 and with a CBLOCK there.
Ok a week passes and i don't call her or anything. Like i said i don't really care for any relationship till i graduate.
FYI: I don't work, and basically i just go to school. My parents pay for school, but they pretty much don't pay for anything else. So no money for dating anyways.
But i found out that that HB9 was a big clubber so i texted her on saturday night.
me: hey, you remember me? i heard you go to the club alot. Is it going to be the same story tonight.
hb: yeah. What story?
(did i mention she a chinese international student)
me: Are you bring your sexy self back to the club again story?
HB: Sorry but i am not interested.
DANG! that would hurt, but i really didn't care what she said SOOO to fix this i just call her on the phone and talk to her.
me: ummm, im kinda confused. What are you not interested in. I don't know what your talking about.
HB: Oh...... um iono. Though you wanted to start something
Me: oh no, i just like to meet new people and though you where pretty cool, and wanted to get to know you better and be friends and stuff.
hb: oh, yeah. thats cool, we can go hang out and stuff
Me: oh, first you said you wasn't interested and now you want to hang out wit me. Iono.............sound fishy.
hb: its just i don't like guys that are to flurty.
Me: oh, dang! was i being to flurty. I'm kinda always like that. i'll try and tone it down.
blah blah blah, eventually i get it all straightened out and find out she going to the same club i meet her at last weekend.
So me and my friends head out the same club, and i help my new friend ( the one new to the community) enter some sets. Just like the week before.
Well i notice the HB9 again and i come up to her and take her hand and tell her to come and say hello to me.
Well the same CBLOCK from last weekend was there again and forcibly grab her by the wrist this time and pull her away from me. (stupid chod, now he'slost)
No big deal, i spent the rest of the night TRYING to get my friend into sets.
when we leave the club i started texting her
me: hey i wanted to say hello to you, but it seem like your friend keep you very protected. Hope you had fun nite, even with that
hb:where are you?
didn't anwer
hb: i am so drunk. Sorry. i saw you
me: its ok! you can always make it up to me then!! hope you get home safe. You know we need to have a real conversation some times!!
hb: You are going back? awww....
(no idea what she means by that)
me: That makes no sense. I will talk to you tomorrow
hb: you didn't even say hi to me, you are so mean?
me: to tired to text! call me up
(at this time i was freaken tired and just laying in bed)
she doesn't call, oh well i passed out anyways. Didn't talk to her till i found out from a friend that she had giving me a fake name also. LOL so i text her
me: so it seems like we have something in common already. We both like to give out bullshit names when we meet people, we're perfect for each other!! lol j/k
hb: ..What did you find out?
i didn't want to answer, want to keep it a mystery to her
well she texted me the next day.
hb: you didn't answer the question yesterday, David!!! (she used my real name)
me: lol!!! i guess that's just something your going to have to figure out! cindy (i used her real name)
hb: i see. But i don't like to play games, MR. Tran. What is this all about? (used my last name)
me: "mr. tran" WOW!!! so serious ms. cheng! are you always like this? What's this about? Ummm........... (so i used hers)
HB: How much do you know about me? Do you have some sercret investigators?
me: LOL! heck no, your not that special what about you stalker, you seem to have alot of info on me for just a weekend.
Hb: I don't have a stalkers. I just know your name. Don't think your special either.
i didn't answer after that till friday. Me and my friends was going to have a karaoke night. The thing is most of my friends have gf now and i was going to try and the that HB9 over. i texted, asking her what she was doing that night. She answered with " why do you want to know." She is friends with an ex of my friend. So i tried to call him if it was ok if i invited the HB, and his ex over. i didn't know if it would be acquired or not. But didn't reach him, so i never texted the hb back. We just proceed to get drunk and have a good time.
Later that night i get a text from her asking where i was. around the time the club closed. So what the heck, i try to get her over to join our party. I was really drunk that night and don't remember everything i said, but i remember tell her she was too much of a party girl. That we needed to hang out some times. She said that i wouldn't call her tomorrow, so i doesn't matter if i asked. So i said if i called her the next day, she would have to go hang out with me.
Next day i give her a call. Turns out she left her car at a friends house and she waiting for another friend to pick it up. I asked her if she remember the conversation we had last nite. she did, but she needed to get her car. so i TOLD HER
me: Go and get your car, and call me. Then well go hangout!
HB: WOW, your so controlling.
me: you want me to be nicer. OK. PLease get your car, please give me a call, please hang out with me. (sarcasticly)
HB: No, No.
Me: fine then, get your car, give me a call we'ill hang out.
hb: fine
Later on she gives me a call and we meet up for dinner.
This is what i found out:
1. That CBLOCK was a guy she had been dating, but there relationship was going bad.
(which i found out a couple days before so i didn't seem all surprised)
2. That she saw me at the club alot and wondered why i didn't talk to her.
my response was, sorry i never really noticed you.
3. That she came to dinner with me to let me know about the guys she been dating, and wanted me to know that i wasn't so kinda rebound guy. which i responded with, " you can rebound of me any time."
4. she wanted to be friends. but i told her that can't happen. I never wanted to be a guy that breakes up relationships. So she need to find out what she was going to do with that guy and then let me know.
i also did some cold readings on her and found out alot about her. I tried to relate on several thing she said. SO I DIDN'T PLAY COCKY THE WHOLE DINNER. It was actually nice. so 3 hours later she needed to meet up friends, and i need to meet up mine. IT WAS CLUBBIN NIGHT RIGHT. She was going to the same club again.
I tried to find another place to go, cuz i know mr.CBLOCK was going to be out and didn't want to start anything. BUt my friend told me that he knows for sure he wasn't going to be there. SO we went anyways.
When i saw her there, we talked for a little bit and i pulled her away so we could talk. we started making out for a while till and i took her back to her friends. I found out that one of the guys that was in her group was the guy's she dating friend. SO I TRIED TO STAY AWAY!!! but later in the nite she texted me asking where i was, and that she wanted to leave. I meet her up again, which was close to her friend. (once again she was wasted, thats 3 weekend in a row). She said she needed to get away, cuz everyone was bugging her to much about me, and the guys she dating was also at the club.
Well i sneak her out the back door, and she keep telling me she doesn't want me to get into a fight or anything. I take her to my car where i meet up my friends, and her friend. (which was the EX i been talked about.) OK, both girls a drunk, and can't drive. So we went to pick up the HB car and i was going to take her back home, and let my friends pick me up from there.
Well when i went to pick up her car there was a guy staring at me, so i kept an eye out for him. When i reversed the HB car, he stepped infront of the car and i just drove around him and speed off. I don't need to get into no fights. So little later i get the HB in the car and start driving her home. Thats when we started making out. Then i just dropped her off and went home with my friends.
next couple of day, the HB asked if i had "PLAYED" her that nite. Which i told her no, and that she need to figure out what she was going to do with that guy before anything else could happen.
Well yesterday i found out that she had told that guy what had happened that night, and the guy flipped out. SHE COULDN't JUST HAVE just LIED. omg. So i'm pretty sure there broken up. All because of me. FUCK!! i would have been fine if he never knew and they just broke up and i started to date her. But now he knows. I actually feel bad about that CHOD.
Sorry so long, but this was a span of 3 weeks. Plus i thought how i dealt with cblocks, my club game, text game, and other cockyness i used would help others.
so what do you guys think about everything after reading. PLEASE RESPOND. I would love any comments you guys have. What should i do now? I don't think i'll be clubbin for a while now, cuz i probably got some small triad after me