5th field freport, jan 8

[coolguy]

5th field report jan 8

Ok me and KhakiDisaster decided to sarge. Vinyl was closed (suppose to open for lady's night!). So we went to another club, whose name I do not remember right now. The place was like dead
and we were going to split but suddenly I saw a set of 2 girls hb6(more like 5.5) and hb6.5(will call HB7
from now to save typing). There names were Natasha and something (ask khakidisaster what was his girls name)

I was not gonna loose my $5 for nothing, so I went for the group anyways. I went and open up the set
PUA: hey, How ya all doing tonight? (AFC open, but I did not wanna run canned routine tonight)
Hb6: I am doing fine
Hb7: Its her birthday tonight!
PUA: Really, lets high 5!!! (high 5 routine)
then KhakiDisaster joined in and they asked for our name.
PUA: Well how about you make a guess, if your right you get $5 (next time I will say kiss)
Hb6: ahhh really, come on it could be anything!!!
PUA: Make a guess, it doesn't hurt anyone!
HB6: It could be john, Shawn...
PUA: You got it, its both our names
HB6: really, oh wow...

PUA: yea, you all so fucking great, are you like esp and shit???
Hb7: no way...we just guessed, although I did made this one girl believe I know esp ....blah blah
PUA: Damn, ok how about I run shit, lets guess a number 1 - 10
HB6: 7
PUA: Damn, you are not suppose to tell me! (ok next fucking time I will tell bitches to keep their mouth shut!!!)
hb7: What games are you playing on us? Are you into game?
PUA : (start sweating like in anime)no no no babes, we are just trying to have fun you know.....

Luckily for me khakidisaster decided to butt in and took Hb7's attention away, at that moment I decided to slow my game down, in case they know game stuff, don't wanna run in on them. I told them we know each(me and KhakiDisaster) other for a while now, so the Hb6 asked us what do we do, we both blurted out different things!
I think after that the girls just had their damn guards up all night or something, but I did quick recovery and said yea yea. Hb6 asked me ok what do I do??? I told her I am a butt double for Johnny Depps(thanks Josh).
She giggled and and pressed me to tell the real shit.

So we talked about personal life, really wanted to do palm routine shit, but turned out she was in spirituality (both of them), Islam, and stuff. Told me she went to morocco and knows Arabic.

PUA: Oh wow, ok how do you say I Love you in Arabic???
Hb6: blah blah in Arabic I have no idea about (should have learned it to run on some hot Arabian chic in future, like if there are any Lebanese bar here and stuff)

I decided not to do palm and other esp stuff, too bad I did not know thumb wrestling game else that would have done some good stuff. We talked about general shit.

PUA: (ran gay cat and routine and how i was a player since birth routine). Lots of kino going on, hugging, feeling her hair, etc

HB6: so tell me are you happy? Are you not sad and don't think about your past relation and you know how it never leaves you and you never forget about it?
PUA: (damn, love story shit)I believe that living in past is bad, if you keep other happy around you, leave other better than you found them. Why cry over the spill milk?
HB6: yea, it is such a right cliche...blah blah

I realize she was hurt, and gaming shit ain't working on her, at least the fun type of way I was playing. I had no idea what to do, usually if I was in AFC mode, this is exactly what we are looking for, but part of me refuse to switch to AFC mode. I decided to recalibrate and become *little* AFC.
But b4 I could recalibrate her third friend joined in but I did not have third wingman.. and she was a bitch....
She start insisting I should buy HB6 drink cause its her birthday, told me like 4 times, so I tried to tell her that how it is sexist and all that shit(I think I should have bought at least 1 drink?), but that just ended anything
I had built with Hb6.

Hb6 said she would be back and took her friend with her. Since I wasn't finding any more targets, I decided not to give up and keep gaming and sticking around. I went to the DJ and asked him if he could make
quick happy birthday announcement for my friend, but dumb ass said he couldn't! I think it would have been huge points for me if he had done it! Also KhakiDisaster's girl left with them. We talked how it was going and I asked him
if he had tried to number close. He said no, I said, fuck it, just do it, who the hell cares since it seems like we can't loose much. (I dunno how he did it, but I hope he used the old method of going to be a party or going to sky and stuff)
Well there were no other target sets in the bar, so I went back to them.

So I isolated the HB6 again, but this time she told me that she would not sleep with me, no matter what I do. She would talk and all but she would not sleep with me!!! I was like oh come on, do you think I am that kinda guy, I am nice guy (my brain was telling me to play player routine, but I decided to AFC, however I later realized that I should have keep the player routine)

HB6: I don't know anything about you, all I know is that your a programmer, bhuddist, and blah blah
PUA: Oh let me tell you, I am not bisexual and gay either.
HB6: Ok, I guess it is good to know (she ain't laughing and that sucks! I need to learn how to attract serious kinda girls)
PUA: I am not trying to sleep with ya, do ya think I would do this to you on your own birthday?
HB6: I dunno, I would like to have sex on my birthday (ok now I am getting 2 signals!!!! I wanted to ask her what does she really wants?? Wants me to sleep with her or not??? Beside she was not hb7 and above, last thing one need is STD from HB6 and below looking cute chic! If you gonna risk it, do it with one which you can say was hot)
PUA: (rest of conversation don't remember, but it didn't go anywhere, maybe thats why it is not worth remembering, but I basically went AFC)

Later I realized, after introduction with Khakisdisaster, my eye game was gone. I should have keep eye fucking her. Still in AFC mode
where one forgets about body language and hope talking and stuff works. I came up with different scenarios on how I could have done better
(don't ya hate it when really good ideas come AFTER the suff and not during, we really need Ground Hog days going on here). For example, keep telling in my mind to use my eyes, body language, and keep bringing her in my frame!

Well I asked her to split to some other place, like restaurant outside, where we can know each other better (nothing to loose). She said she needs to
ask her friends b4 she made this decision. When she left again, I went to another set (wish they had come earlier, hb8, 8, 7.5) and asked them
if they can surprise my girl and sing happy birthday song. They said ok. I went to another set(guy and a girl) and asked them for the same favor.
Well when she came back, I dragged her to the other 2 sets and tried to sing happy birthday song. However, HB6 eye coded the 3 hot girl sets that
she is not interested and ran the finger across her neck and they didn't sing anymore. I looked like a fool alone singing the song, so I killed it
too. She also merged with the set, and turned her back to me and closing me out. I could have ran the mystery's routine that this is rude, but I
finally decided to forget it. I have tried to open them 3 times (and only cause I couldn't find any target). But I am not gonna be seen needy and
split. At least, in my own way, I merged 3 sets who would not have done it otherwise.

So finally, I met with khakidisaster, we exchange some pointers. We both agreed we need to sarge with experience guys more who would have give us
better pointers. Oh well, we tried to find other places but downtown was dead. After that, we call in the night....

lessons
1) again, need to pay more attention to body language and eye coding, maybe do 10 minutes of meditation just b4 sarging of forcing myself to never remember it during the gaming, since I am paying a lot of attention on AA.
2) need to sit with wingman and come up with few background and game plan b4 going in (it was my first time so it is forgivable)
3) Use your eyes to force the bitch to stay in your frame control.

Questions to you all
1) If things not working out, should me and wingman trying switching targets in the set? See if vibes is better that way?

2) Also how to handle when girls given you 2 contradicting messages? (clear messages, not subtle, maybe they are damn drunk)

[Westfall]

So I isolated the HB6 again, but this time she told me that she would not sleep with me, no matter what I do. She would talk and all but she would not sleep with me!!! I was like oh come on, do you think I am that kinda guy, I am nice guy (my brain was telling me to play player routine, but I decided to AFC, however I later realized that I should have keep the player routine)

I always like it when a girl tells me she is not going to have sex with me no matter what because it means later I'll be having sex with her no matter what.

Why would she tell you this if she weren't thinking about it?

This is just my opinion, but I think you fucked up there. She was saying she didn't want to sleep with with you...she put out this little mold of "I want a nice guy" and you jumped into it dishonestly.

A better way, IMO, would be to disqualify and continue to be sexual.

WF: I have a rule, I don't sleep with girls on the first date.

or, WF: I perfer tall blondes (if she is a brunette).

2) Also how to handle when girls given you 2 contradicting messages?

Learn to read what they are subcommunicating.

Westfall