2nd field report

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2nd field report

Postby coolguy » Mon Jan 07, 2008 2:44 pm

Thursday jan 3

Ok the problem here first, I call the hb7 melissa twice but she did not returned my call. Now that I think about it, even though, she gave me the number, I kinda messed up with rapport building and attraction phase....
she got bored, but then again its because I did not want it to go that far, she came to me and I mess it up. It is ok, it was first night anyways

So I went and sarge the downtown. My goals for this weekend (for 3 next 3 nights also) would be
1) do opener as soon as I see a set....using 3 seconds rule
2) successfully learn to merge different groups and then eject
3) do not try to escalate game unless babe is hb8 and above, cause right now I am NOT good at it (hb8 and above are worth the chance od ruining it)

B4 I go into detail let me say something. I was feeling really really depress. Cause I got chicken out from opening up sets at kmart yesterday. I went their to buy jewelry, but I was unshaven and my hair was messy.
But I did try to run the game on some Hipanic girl look wise just 2. She claimed she dunno English..blah! I was more depress cause I let 1 hb8 getaway, but now I think about it, it was ok cause I was unshaven, messy
hair and needed haircut (which I did 1 hour later). But still I was depress cause I chickened out on her. And after that, there was no one available to run the game on...no young females at the store.

So tonight, I was planning not to sarge, but was so depress, I decided to do it anyways. I went to downtown, however, it was a freaking dead place! I guess it cause of just coming right after new year and shit.
But I did not give up. I mean I did get ready and stuff, so I did not wanna feel like chicken. First bar I saw was a cowboy bar, so I ejected. 2nd bar I saw was name lodus or something. I went in and even though the
place was dead, i saw 4 easy target sets with no males in it!!!! Hell tonight I got more potential target in 2 minutes than an entire night on new year eve!
Unfortunately AA set in, I just couldn't do 3 second rule like I am suppose to. But I forced myself, just b4 I ejected to open the set near the door. I did the sister tattoo routine, but performed it little
differently:

AFC: Hey, I need quick advice from you all....Do you all have any tattoos?
Babes (hb7 and hb7.5): nope
AFC:well the reason I ask.....(ran the little sister routine but this time told them she was FRIEND of mine, hehe)

Their other female friends came near the end of routine to grab them away, it was ok, I was gonna eject anyways....(did not have wingman, but in future I would engage the other friends to stop them also)

Went outside the bar, saw this couple, guy and a drunk girl (i don't think she was his wife/gf/or whatever...see the reason below)
I open the set by asking if there are any crowded bar, this this one is dead. They turned around and said something, I don't remember.
She start talking to me, hell touching me here and there and was drunk. It did nothing for me, cause she was drunk, so her kino was meaningless. Besides, her guy friend was there, I could have done nothing.
He did not object at all when she was touching me lightly, my arms and shit. Well I say thanks and split.

Well on my way trying to find another bar, I saw this girl sitting alone across the street, she looked at me and did not turn away immediately. From my peripheral vision I could tell that she kinda checked me
out more than necessary. So that was my sign. However, she was alone and I was not in mood to open up one babe. She was like hb6.5 or hb7 you can say. Well I crossed the street, and went towards her. Acting like
I was gonna pass her, but when I came near. I did over the shoulder open routine.

AFC: Hey can you recommend any bars here.......tonight sucks
HB7: (she got kinda excited and faced me) yea..blah blah
1) sister got tattoo routine
2) friend cheated on gf but gotta wear her underwear routine

Well I did not get the as exciting response from that or anything that look promising (from the underwear story) as I was hoping. It was gold mine in the club just 2 days ago, but wasn't that good tonight...hmmm...
I decided, time to split and said thanks I gotta split bailed out.

I found this bar (don't remember the name), had 3 babes outside (like Hb6-hb7) in one set and another set of two (hb8-hb9 blondes!) Now I think about it, this Hb9 actually gimme that look like she is checking
out more than necessary. I should have smiled and eyed fucked her, but did not think that HB9 would be interested in me. I could be wrong, maybe she wasn't interested, but hey I should have run the game. However
I got intimidated by her looking at me and was unable to game any of the set and just went inside the bar. There I saw 4 different sets I could have run the game on, but AA was still very very strong and no
matter HOW HARD I tried, I couldn't do 3 seconds rule. I know the kind of person I am. If I had wingman, and pointed me to any set I mean ANY SET, fuck AA, I would be there in like fucking 2 seconds (cause now I
have to prove myself to him, which is far more harder for me to back down and look like wimp then any AA). Since I didn't have wingman, I couldn't muster the courage. I went real quick around the bar, acting like
I am looking for someone, but in reality I was actually trying to muster courage. I finally did and approach this set HB7 and HB7.5 (or 8).
AFC: Hey I need to get your point of view on the problem I have
HB8: What, can you repeat it again?
AFC: I need to.....(got cut off by her friend)
HB7: Sorry, I DO NOT WANNA TALK TO YOU....
AFC: (ah...fuck)

Well after that my game was fucked. And I just couldnt gather enough courage to do any more opening on other sets. I feel like shit and bailed out. I should not have ejected the set though. Now I think about
it, it was great opportunity to start shit test or something on her. Like "I cant hear you...can you repeat it again???" And after she did...I would have turned to her friend and say "is she always this
hard all the time? How do put up with that? My little sister is just like her. You know the type..totally crazy and needy and all!" I dunno what would have happened, but I would try it again next time! I
let a great opportunity slip away, but hey this is what the game is all about you know!

SO after bailing out, I tried to look for another bar. Went to 2-3 of them, but didn't find any sets or target to sarge, also downtown was dead so it was waiting time and tomorrow was workday.
Now the funny thing is

1) I learn few things (like next time if bitch says she don't wanna talk). Always try to stay longer in the set when it seems like it has shut you out. At least try 1-2 routines to open them again b4
bailing out.
2) I still am kinda wimpy cause I am letting my AA getting to me. Part of the reason I found every set to be HB7.5 and above so was intimidated. On my first night, the most was HB7 and only one target set!
3) And best, no longer feel as depress since I started. It would have been great night if I hadn't got chicken out on few occasions, but better than yesterday.
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Re: 2nd field report

Postby Westfall » Mon Jan 07, 2008 3:03 pm

AFC: Hey I need to get your point of view on the problem I have
HB8: What, can you repeat it again?
AFC: I need to.....(got cut off by her friend)
HB7: Sorry, I DO NOT WANNA TALK TO YOU....
AFC: (ah...fuck)


Acknowledge her objection, then continue.

WF: I know don't want to talk to me (unphased by her rudeness), but I need your opinion.

...or Absurdify her objection, then continue

WF: I know you don't want to talk to me, in fact I'm the last person on the earth you want to talk to but what do you think about?

...or call out the obsticale for being rude & violating social norms

WF: Well I didn't ask you because I don't like rude people.
WF: (Smile) Just kidding, I want your opinion too.

If they're still being bitches eject, but you can use any of these 3 lines and still remain in the bounds of what is socially acceptable.

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Re: 2nd field report

Postby Kraven » Wed Jan 09, 2008 2:14 am

coolguy wrote: Their other female friends came near the end of routine to grab them away, it was ok, I was gonna eject anyways....


"Oh, introduce me to your friends..."... get the names, then (this is the cool part) eject before they do "Pleasure meeting you". This improves your perception to anyone else in the venue observing (who you're about to go open anyway)

Also coolguy I don't know if you are using false time constraints - on lots of cold approaches like this they help. In a scenario like this I would use "I was just about to drink with my ex and her friend over at X bar but I was wondering if I could get your opinion on something before I leave... <opener>". Open the next set in the venue similarly "Hey guys, the girls over at that table say <opener>". You kind of make your opinion openers situtational this way. Later you can get into forward or backward merging sets you open

All the little things added up (Body Language, FTCs, tiny amounts of percieved social proof) are what make solo night game cold approaches & opens work

Also, if you sarge solo - OPEN GUYS (in groups or mixed sets). Just being seen talking and shooting the shit with guys makes any women in the venue more accessible. Later, your new buddies might become your instant wingman

Choosing to sarge is always better than sitting alone depressed, and don't worry about not having a wing. You are taking the lumps you need to generate your own social proof in the future, and to be able to do anything you need solo as well as with a wing
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Postby El Fenix » Wed Jan 09, 2008 8:14 am

ya, what he said. I agree
"Ask what makes you come alive and do it, because what the world needs is people who have come alive."
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