FR Sarging at Stonebriar Mall

[playercool]

Went to the mall this afternoon to do some Christmas shopping. Ended up going into Dick's Sporting Goods. As I was walking around I noticed a girl sitting in the camping chairs. Hrmm nice body ok I will go have a seat as well. I open with hey I am thinking of buying a white belt do you think that would look emo(I had white Steve Maddens on). I told her I wanted to have a belt to match my shoes but my friends all said it was gay and would make me look emo(belt is white with chrome/silver metal thingies on it). She was like nah I think it would make sense since it would match your shoes. I told her she is my new fashion consultant and I will need her number so I can call her later.(This was way too early in the convo to ask for her number. She didn't give it.) No big deal I somehow kept the convo alive for another 10 minutes or so and never mentioned the number again. She was vibing it but then all of the sudden she got a phone call. Someone was meeting her at the mall which she pointed out in the convo earlier so she had to take the call.

What would guys do here? I ejected as I didn't want to look like a dusche sitting there waiting for her phone call to end. I almost thought about grabbing the phone and start talking to the other person but chickened out on that.

As I met up with my friends she was talking to one people she knew that worked at the store. My friend said hey did you get her number in a tone that everyone could hear. She was still on the phone but said not yet but I will be back in a minute. I didn't feel like waiting there so I bounced. Just didn't want to take the chance of looking like a tool incase she was bullshitting.

Lesson learned: Build rapport before you ask for the digits...

[Gunner22]

Hey man, where do you live...im looking for some guys to sarge with sometime...I live in Allen man...hit me up katsevs@msn.com or just give me a call 619-838-8507

[EL CHUPACABRA]

If you were going to just haul ass you should have at least wrote down your number and placed it in her lap, after maybe coming to her from behind and placing your hand softly on her shoulder..

An idea anyhow....

[coolguy]

Good thing you didn't wait along. What I have learned to tell her you be back in a minute or two, open up other set for no more then 2-3 minutes and come back to her. Psychologically to them, your now not a stranger but a guy she knows..(i know its funny, been there done that). But you did the right thing for not waiting for her. I agree with you about not giving the number, it was in style life that you need to build attraction with her b4 asking for number. Usually I say wait till near the end.
Although I would have not leave my number either when splitting. My bro is alpha male by nature so I know how alpha act a lot (too bad i didnt get his genes!). But by giving her your number like that when she hadnt give you any, you would have make you value look lower...lot more chicks in the field so forget her!