LR: HB:exotic; day2; guess its possible to get out of LJBF
Posted: Tue Oct 23, 2007 6:12 pmHey guys, I thought I'd through out an LR from a few weeks back. I'm still rusty and new so I'm getting there. Hopefully I can look back at this post in a few years and see how much I've developed.
EDIT:
Wow, I hadn't realized how much I'd typed. This is like a book. I have cliff notes at the end though. Also I have an FR about some solo sarging night game I did last week. But I'll write it better than this and keep it shorter. 
So I went to a local college to sign up for classes. When I was standing in line, I decided to do a little sarging.
First was HB:asian. I opened with "which piercing would look good on me: eyebrow or ear?" She surveyed my face and told me that an eyebrow piercing would look great. I started fluffing with her for a bit and commented on her piercings and tattoos. I didn't know if I should neg her or not but I did anyway saying something along the lines of "yeah my cousin got a tattoo like that for her 15th birthday, she got in big trouble with her parents". She raised both her eyebrows and although I thought it would get uncomfortable, it actually got pretty cool after that. We started joking around about the classes she's taking and about me getting a prince john. By this time we'd left the line and been sitting down for a while. I think I was a surprised at how well this was going so I ejected early saying "hey this was pretty cool, but I have to head out in a bit.. are you free this friday?" and she said “no, but saturday yes”, so I said cool and took the number.
Now to HB:exotic. I was pretty stoked about the number and I was on my way out. Then, in front of me walking up the stairs was HB:exotic wearing all white and holding a registration paper. I figured why not try for 2? I opened situationally with "Hey what classes did you sign up for?" she said swimming and I started busting her for not knowing how to swim. She was laughing a lot and I felt a pretty cool connection. By the time I realized that I needed to move to A3, I realized that we were out in the parking lot and I said "Well, it was nice seeing you, my car's that way, but let's hang out soon" and she said "hm... well only as friends". I was a bit blown away and made a mental note not to # close so quickly in the future. I said “Sure“, and we exchanged numbers. After we did, I said, “well this conversation was pretty good and I still have 15 minutes before I have to leave, let's talk for a little bit more". She agreed.
We went into the science building, and I started running some DHV material for practice, (since I'm already in friend’s zone). I told her a few cool and funny stories, one about my roommate burning down our apartment by forgetting to put water in ramen noodles and how I had to save the apartment from destruction. I then did the ring finger routine so I could kino escalate. Soon after, I jumped into comfort, turns out that we had a lot in common including places we've traveled and a few other things...
I figure we'd change location, so I said "I know where the swimming pool you'll be in for your class is. Do you?" she said no but she wanted to see it. So I said I’ll take you. I told her it was a bit far and she suggested her car. We got in and she was playing around pretending she didn't know how to drive. It almost gave me a heart attack. She also mentioned that she saw me talking to HB:Asian and asked if i usually go to colleges to pick up chicks. I thought about it and said "well if i wanted to pick up chicks, i'd go to a farm". she laughed, i guess i passed.
Got to the swimming pool, gave her a funny tour. Then i suggested coffee. We went to Starbucks and had a good time there that included meeting a cool european guy who entertained us with stories and kept saying we looked like the most comfortable couple he's ever seen. I still kept busting on her though. Somehow, after the european guy left, we got to talking about apartments and how different types of people have their things all over the place, some messy and some neat. I was still busting on her and I think she couldn't take it and said "listen I have a really clean apartment, I can prove it!" I took her up on her bet
Got to her apartment, it was one of those really small studio flats and it was decent. I surveyed the place and I said "not bad hm..." and sat on the bed, she sat down too next to me. I started deep rapport with good amounts of kino. I went for the kiss close and..
got the cheek instead.
It's all good though. I made sure to get the comfort back and get rid of any of that uncomfortable atmosphere. We started busting on each other again like we'd been "friends" for a long time. After half an hour, I said I had to go and she dropped me back to the college. On the way there, we saw this turtle on the side of the road and picked it up and put it near a small lake place that was nearby.
She called me the next day and we started talking again. It was going on for half an hour and I said I don't have any minutes, why don't i come over and finish the conversation. she said sure. i went over, i'd bought a dvd but we didn't really watch the dvd. I started throwing out some story i found on craigslist and she was laughing her ass off. Comfort after that. I tried for the kiss and this time got it.
We fucked twice but she was really tight. and she gives shitty bj's but i can try to get her to work on that. I've been with her 3 times since, and things have been much better. only one problem though... i think she's trying to get it out of fuckbuddy to bf/gf...
Interesting huh? from "only as a friend" -> fb -> bf/gf. Also HB:asian flaked on me and I deleted her number since it would be no use anyway.
Cliff notes:
HBAsian: opinion opener, fluff, bust/neg, fluff, bust, #close
HBExotic: opened, busting, fluff, #close (friends only), venue change, DHV, kino esc., comfort, venue change, busting, comfort, venue change, kiss (rejected), bust. day2, bust, comfort (long time) kiss, F CLOSE!
EDIT:
Wow, I hadn't realized how much I'd typed. This is like a book. I have cliff notes at the end though. Also I have an FR about some solo sarging night game I did last week. But I'll write it better than this and keep it shorter.
So I went to a local college to sign up for classes. When I was standing in line, I decided to do a little sarging.
First was HB:asian. I opened with "which piercing would look good on me: eyebrow or ear?" She surveyed my face and told me that an eyebrow piercing would look great. I started fluffing with her for a bit and commented on her piercings and tattoos. I didn't know if I should neg her or not but I did anyway saying something along the lines of "yeah my cousin got a tattoo like that for her 15th birthday, she got in big trouble with her parents". She raised both her eyebrows and although I thought it would get uncomfortable, it actually got pretty cool after that. We started joking around about the classes she's taking and about me getting a prince john. By this time we'd left the line and been sitting down for a while. I think I was a surprised at how well this was going so I ejected early saying "hey this was pretty cool, but I have to head out in a bit.. are you free this friday?" and she said “no, but saturday yes”, so I said cool and took the number.
Now to HB:exotic. I was pretty stoked about the number and I was on my way out. Then, in front of me walking up the stairs was HB:exotic wearing all white and holding a registration paper. I figured why not try for 2? I opened situationally with "Hey what classes did you sign up for?" she said swimming and I started busting her for not knowing how to swim. She was laughing a lot and I felt a pretty cool connection. By the time I realized that I needed to move to A3, I realized that we were out in the parking lot and I said "Well, it was nice seeing you, my car's that way, but let's hang out soon" and she said "hm... well only as friends". I was a bit blown away and made a mental note not to # close so quickly in the future. I said “Sure“, and we exchanged numbers. After we did, I said, “well this conversation was pretty good and I still have 15 minutes before I have to leave, let's talk for a little bit more". She agreed.
We went into the science building, and I started running some DHV material for practice, (since I'm already in friend’s zone). I told her a few cool and funny stories, one about my roommate burning down our apartment by forgetting to put water in ramen noodles and how I had to save the apartment from destruction. I then did the ring finger routine so I could kino escalate. Soon after, I jumped into comfort, turns out that we had a lot in common including places we've traveled and a few other things...
I figure we'd change location, so I said "I know where the swimming pool you'll be in for your class is. Do you?" she said no but she wanted to see it. So I said I’ll take you. I told her it was a bit far and she suggested her car. We got in and she was playing around pretending she didn't know how to drive. It almost gave me a heart attack. She also mentioned that she saw me talking to HB:Asian and asked if i usually go to colleges to pick up chicks. I thought about it and said "well if i wanted to pick up chicks, i'd go to a farm". she laughed, i guess i passed.
Got to the swimming pool, gave her a funny tour. Then i suggested coffee. We went to Starbucks and had a good time there that included meeting a cool european guy who entertained us with stories and kept saying we looked like the most comfortable couple he's ever seen. I still kept busting on her though. Somehow, after the european guy left, we got to talking about apartments and how different types of people have their things all over the place, some messy and some neat. I was still busting on her and I think she couldn't take it and said "listen I have a really clean apartment, I can prove it!" I took her up on her bet
Got to her apartment, it was one of those really small studio flats and it was decent. I surveyed the place and I said "not bad hm..." and sat on the bed, she sat down too next to me. I started deep rapport with good amounts of kino. I went for the kiss close and..
got the cheek instead.
It's all good though. I made sure to get the comfort back and get rid of any of that uncomfortable atmosphere. We started busting on each other again like we'd been "friends" for a long time. After half an hour, I said I had to go and she dropped me back to the college. On the way there, we saw this turtle on the side of the road and picked it up and put it near a small lake place that was nearby.
She called me the next day and we started talking again. It was going on for half an hour and I said I don't have any minutes, why don't i come over and finish the conversation. she said sure. i went over, i'd bought a dvd but we didn't really watch the dvd. I started throwing out some story i found on craigslist and she was laughing her ass off. Comfort after that. I tried for the kiss and this time got it.
We fucked twice but she was really tight. and she gives shitty bj's but i can try to get her to work on that. I've been with her 3 times since, and things have been much better. only one problem though... i think she's trying to get it out of fuckbuddy to bf/gf...
Interesting huh? from "only as a friend" -> fb -> bf/gf. Also HB:asian flaked on me and I deleted her number since it would be no use anyway.
Cliff notes:
HBAsian: opinion opener, fluff, bust/neg, fluff, bust, #close
HBExotic: opened, busting, fluff, #close (friends only), venue change, DHV, kino esc., comfort, venue change, busting, comfort, venue change, kiss (rejected), bust. day2, bust, comfort (long time) kiss, F CLOSE!
