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Networking Events

PostPosted: Sat Oct 20, 2007 10:58 pm
by foresight
The Event
I went to this Dallas Junior of Commerce event on Wednesday and tried to work the whole room, guys included, for practice. There was a girl there that I had kiss closed a few months before, and I wanted to appear social and not linger by her. I had expected her to be there, so I was prepared. Something might still happen in the future with her.

Two Emails
That night I ended up getting two email addresses. I should have asked for their numbers, but I didn't feel like it was a natural enough interaction or enough rapport was built. From what Mystery would say, I establish comfort too fast, without enough attraction building. I am really good at questions and a good conversationalist, but what I have learned and observed is doing that too early on can DLV yourself. Plus you never really know if she is attracted or just interested in her favorite subject...her. I question now how attracted I was, since I had had a few drinks.

Or maybe I'm just rationalizing because I whacked off a couple times today and feel unmotivated from watching strippers on YouTube. One target gave me her personal email, the other a work email. I have emailed them both, piquing their curiosities by asking if they want to hear a true and funny story.

I asked the target that gave me her work email to send her personal email. She did, but now I am unsure what to write back.

Dilemma
I want a smooth way to get both of their numbers. I was able to master that when meeting girls online, but I am questioning how after meeting in person, then now online would be the best bridge to getting their numbers. If I don't build authentic attraction with what I write back or don't make it seem natural to ask, I will only be going through the motions if we decide to meet up the momentum will be lost. I guess I just need more material/stories/gambits, but I want to avoid any that were used too often on The Pick Up Artist.

I want write something that will DHV and cover the triggers.
-Pre-selected by women
-Leader of men
-Protector of family
and there is one other I don't know what it is.

Any suggestions? Or similar situations?


Here is what the work email girl said in response to my email:


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Hi Foresight-

Are you as happy as I am that it’s Friday? Here’s my other email: XXXXXXXX@yahoo.com.

This funny & true story must be shady if you’re asking for my personal email address ;)



Work Email Girl



And the the other one


Hey Foresight,

How was your Thursday? Mine was good, especially because I knew I was going to be off tomorrow. It was nice to meet you as well. I enjoyed talking to ya. I would love to hear a funny story, even better if it's true.

Other Girl

PostPosted: Sun Oct 21, 2007 2:36 am
by phoenix_rising
SO what your looking for is a DHV spiked story, that hits attraction switches? Easiest way to get the numbers is to slip a mention of an upcoming event into the story your going to tell them, so later in another email you can invite them. Thus attaining their numbers for a purpose.

-phoenix

PostPosted: Sun Oct 21, 2007 4:24 pm
by foresight
phoenix_rising wrote:SO what your looking for is a DHV spiked story, that hits attraction switches? Easiest way to get the numbers is to slip a mention of an upcoming event into the story your going to tell them, so later in another email you can invite them. Thus attaining their numbers for a purpose.

-phoenix


That is what I am asking.