Sarged for the first time.

[status_]

Meeting girls wasnt a problem for me. Until my cousin shedded some light in my direction about a whole new approach to going up to women. Thats when i started getting intuned with the PUA lifestyle.

well anyways, after reading and basically retraining my brain from what i previously taught myself and observed throughout the years of dating and meeting girls.. last weekend was the first time to open up a set, not my way... but the PUA way.

anyways. I proceeded to talk to my friend knowing that there was a two set behind me. One asian girl and one white girl. I turned around quickly and leaned back over the shoulder with my opener.

me: I need ur opinion on something, " would you date someone that lived in a tent?"

*She immediately stands up and says, yes if he was funny enough"

me: What if it was a really cool tent, would that matter to you?

her: no because hes funny enough thats all i need, i like the outdoorsey
stuff, i run everyday.

me: Outdoorsey stuff eh? I go rockclimbing a lot thats my means of working out.

her: rockclimbing? I have friends that do that backhome where i live.

me: where are you from?

her: im from california,i moved here about a year and a half ago for school.

me: oh really? i was suppose to be in california this weekend,but change of plan and i wanted to stay back to help out one of my friends. What are u going to school for?

her: im going to school for Interior Design.

* she laughs, and touches my arm*

me: thats awesome, maybe when you graduate you can decorate my really cool tent. Hey you want to meet some friends?

her: sure, lets go

*we proceed over to the couch and i introduce her to my wingman.*

so i introduce her.. andhe pretty much moves in on my set. LoL.

so i walk away.. then come back and he leaves.. i talk to her for a few more mins, after she named dropped a few people that i know..

then she mentions having a bf. so my wingman lost my momentum


its okay.. learning and relearning process.

it was fun opening my first set. now i gotta think of some better openers.

i ended up finding her myspace.LOL simply because she named dropped and knew some ofmy friends.

here is how that went.

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subject: Is ur hair real or fake?

=) because if it was fake, i dont think that it would withstand the outdoorsiness of camping out in my really cool tent =)

so i decided to check out the " access dallas " myspace page and low and behold.. i see you on the top 24.

well, i just wanted to say hi and it was nice meeting you over the weekend. I'll see you around! bye dork.

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her reply

HAHA.... THAT IS SO FUNNY. YES MY HAIR IS REAL... HEY I HAVE A QUESTION FOR YOU.... WOULD YOU EVER DATE AGIRL WHO LIVED IN A VAN? LOL...

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[West_]

bravo status.. ill be sure to be a better wing next time out

[elitetran54]

Hey man, i like the whole tent thing. I actually when out and surged this weekend to. THE "PUA" way as you said. I had my accomplishments here and there. Good job!

[Jerzy Therapist]

ahhh west and status...my fellow pua trainees.....I must admit that Che on friday was fun....too bad the sets i opened got f*cked up cuz the 2girls upstairs couldnt speak english and my wing girl i used to open up the 2 girls in the vip lounge bounced on me and totally killed my opener....and then to have the afc point at the girls and say...who is Jerzy trying to target right in front of their faces! WTF!? hahaha Tran...you seem like you might hit up the same spots as us....Che this past friday and karma saturday?

[waijai]

We need to perform some self affirmations to get our energy levels up before going out in field. I enjoyed discussing stuff w/ you guys on in field and shedding light on the interactions I observed. It was cool to have you move the set when I told you to. We're all here to help each other out.

I'll have a good pivot I am training to help us all. She's cool and is open to the adventure.

Also remember that we should all choose our wingmen wisely. Having a few AFC's following our group around really brings the energy level down and lowers our value.