FR: 8/19/06 - Cool, another FB

[Mojo]

FR: BlondeBlueyed 8/19/06

Met BlondeBlueyedHB along with a few friends at a bar in Arlington to shoot some pool. Had met BlondeBlueyedHB about a month ago at the same bar and have been in slight contact ever since. Had hit it off quite well BlondeBlueyedHB since she “played good for a girl”. Knew I had this one in the bag since every time another guy flirted with her, I had no need to AMOG since she blew them off and always made her way back to me. I won’t go into the sarging, but go directly to the point. Logistics are vital. She is from Greenville and had brought her friend with her. So, unfortunately, since she was driving, the friend was stuck with her for the night. I had already isolated and kissed closed, when I told her I had to go.

Mojo: How about walking me to my car. I need a little protection.
BlondeBlueyedHB: Sure

As we walk out, a total wbafc… totally way below average… chased us out. He had been hitting on her earlier, trying way way omfg way too hard. I felt bad for the chump. Poor guy. Seeing there was nothing he could do said his goodbyes. I am gonna have to teach this guy a few things. Anyway, we head back to my car, mess around, and then she says…

BlondeBlueyedHB: I am not looking for a fuck buddy. I want more.

I see where this is going. And I appreciate her honesty. In this situation, you have to communicate your intentions. So I tell her….

Mojo: I am going to be honest, I am not looking for a girlfriend
BlondeBlueyedHB: I just want to hang out, do things, blah blah…

Well, that’s fine! Sure, it would be cool to play pool, I enjoy hanging out with her, and yes… sex is understood. So, no problem with me. Fun fuck buddy to hang out with along with non-committal sex. At least for now, for the problem I have with FB’s is that they eventually form stronger feelings for you. Though until then, it’ll just be fun : )

My point here is do not be afraid to tell an HB your intentions. They won’t get mad, they won’t think it is rude. Yeah, it might not be the response they are use to but they will respect you.

Cool, another FB.