FR: 8/20/06 - hot lil married Brunette w/co-worker

[Mojo]

Me and an AFC buddy were playing pool Sunday night (8/20/06). Two set opens us, one AFC guy and a hot lil brunette.

cluelessAFC: Who has next game?
Mojo: You. We are playing doubles.
cluelessAFC: Cool, it’ll be me and her

I shake hands with cluelessAFC, ignore the brunette. After a few shots of pool, I notice a tatoo on cluelessAFC’s arm. It seems simply to be outine of shapes. I ask him what it is of and he says it will be of stainglass. Apparently it is not finished yet.

Mojo: Hmmm, Churchy
CluelessAFC: yeah.
Mojo: Christian?

CluelessAFC lifts up his shirt to show a belt buckle with a big cross. I look at the hot lil brunette and ask

Mojo: Are you a Christian, too?
HotLilBrunetteHB: Yeah
Mojo: So how do you guys know each other.
HotLilBrunetteHB: Oh, I work with him…

Now gaming a girl while she is with co-workers is tricky. She does not want to show too much flirtation less word gets back to the office. It is always a good idea to keep business and pleasure separate. I ask her about work and I find out she just moved here recently since her job gave her this promotion. She is married, and her husband is still back in Austin. He is trying to find a job her so he can join her.

Mojo: How long have you been married?
HotLilBrunetteHB: Seven years.

Sweet! She is past the 3 year mark. Why is 3 years important? Glad you ask. Women who have been married for more than 3 years tend to be as open, if not more so to pick up than single women. She needs some new dick… preferably some with a little mojo

HotLilBrunetteHB: I can tell you are thinking. What are you thinking about.
Mojo: You can tell so much from a persons facial expressions, and how they hold themselves. People can be easy to read if you know how.
HotLilBrunetteHB: Sooo, what were you thinking about.

I go on a bit on how many guys are clueless. That women are so intuitive and can pick up on subtle, non-verbal cues. And yes… I am avoiding her question. By the way, what I was thinking was, “oh shit, this is so on. She so fucking wants me” And I could tell. She did. So what do I do. I call her out on it.

Mojo: Most guys are clueless. They can’t read non-verbal cues. For example, as I talk to you, I can tell by how you speak to me, how you hold your body that you are receptive to me. Your eyes are dialated. And you are blinking a bit more than you were before. You find me attractive.

Fuck yeah I am ballsy. But she does not respond. And by not responding, she is in effect agreeing with me. Damn this is too easy…

Mojo: You can tell much about a person simply through their eyes and face
HotLilBrunetteHB: Yeah *she says softly in a trance-like state*

Here I do a routine which I will not share, since if done incorrectly can mess with a women’s mind. You must know how to execute it and, more importantly, end it as to not mess with her head.

HotLilBrunetteHB: You eyes are dilated, too.
Mojo: I’m sure. I find you attractive.

Logistics. Logistics. Logistics can be tricky. She is with a co-worker so there was no way at the time I could think of to extract her from him without being obvious. I close by telling her I really enjoyed our conversation and would like to meet for coffee sometime. I turn my back to her co-worker so to somewhat hide the fact she is giving me her phone number. They leave.

Nice.

Next morning (8/21/06) I decided to test the waters. I sent her a text message:

SMS Mojo: Thank u 4 the good convo last nite --Mojo

With in 4 seconds I receive one back. Damn, she can text message fast!

SMS HotLilBrunetteHB:: Ur welcome. I enjoyed talking 2 u too.


To be continued...

[Mojo]

I save my "sent" messages just for this purpose of recording the sarge. Day 2 is on

here are the SMS's....

SMSMojo: Lets meet 4 coffee sometime this week
SMSHotLilBrunetteHB: Sure. Let me know a day that is good 4 u.
SMSMojo: Starbucks on xxxxx and xxxxx. Wed at 5:30
SMSHotLilBrunetteHB: Will need 2 be later if on wed. Working in tyler that day. Might not be back until 9pm
SMSMojo: sure
SMSHotLilBrunetteHB: U still want 2 do wed.?
SMSHotLilBrunetteHB: Wanna meet 2morrow or thurs? Im sorry- I knew youd pick wed!
SMSMojo: 2morrow it is. Cant thur.
SMSHotLilBrunetteHB: Cool. It’s a plan
SMSMojo: : )
SMSHotLilBrunetteHB: U r funny
SMSHotLilBrunetteHB:Have a good afternoon!
SMSMojo: Thanks. U 2!

[Mojo]

Wow. She has been text messaging me alot. The last one I received was:

SMShotlilblondeHB: I am soooo ready 2 get out of here!

I bet u can't

Ok, so I will be cleaning my condo in preparation for tonight. Have to think of a clever excuse to get her back to my place. Hmmm, maybe I'll ask her if she would like to see the beautiful lake at my condo... then point to the painting above the fire place of a lake It's work before...

It is important to have a reason other than sex to bring a target back to your place. If the reason alludes to sex, you will have embarassed her and to save face she might refuse. So use any reason as long as it is not sex. Just do it so she can save face.

[Mojo]

This is day 2 with a married HB. Never gamed a married HB. This is new territory. I decide to call Sayber, who has extensive experience in such things. “See if she control’s the bills”, “Is there a chance that her husband may snatch away her phone and see you number on there”, and other bits of gaming married women tips. She arrives, we hug and she goes in for a latte. I read.

She comes and sits by me. And we talk about the night before about the guy who she was with – a co-worker – who she says she will never go out again cause he talks too much. A conversation should be two-way. Of course. Then she mentions her husband, and that coming up to Dallas for this job opportunity was a way for her to have a little freedom from him. Apparently he is a bit of a lair, a trait she says he got from his overly strict mother…

Everything starts out great, she is demeaning her hubby, we are having good convo, joking around… though she is sitting across from me - Out of reach of kino. Damn. Looking back, it would have been a good idea to run a routine that requires kino so I would at least have a reason to move my chair closer. Instead I DHV by telling a few stories about running a business, being officer of an honor society back at University, etc. All stories I naturally introduced into the conversation. I suggest we should have a drink. Change of venue...

On the way to the next venue, I call Sayber. I need to find an excuse to take her back to my condo. Sayber suggests instead of taking her to the next venue, just take her to my place for a drink. Not bad, but I don’t have any alcohol at home. Then Sayber, being the kick ass wing he is, offers to bring a bottle of wine and stick it in the back seat of my car as I game the target in the restaurant. Sayber, you are Fucking cool… with a capital F.

I have her qualify herself to me. Earlier at Starbucks I said I love intelligence in women. Here she mentions she graduated from UT Austin, had a high GPA in both high school and university. Nice. Comfort is going good. Though the problem again is that she is sitting on the other side of the table, I didn’t kino, and was not able to produce the vibe I wanted, or rather did not produce it strong enough. I suggest that we should go to another place for a drink…

Take her to my condo. Pull out the wine in the back of my car, and walk toward the door. She stops, and says, “I hardly know you, we just met yesterday”. Shit…

Ok, I knew I hadn’t produced a strong enough vibe. And this is so due to beliefs imbedded in my subconscious that f-closing a married HB would be wrong. I knew it. Again, as I unlock the door I urge her to come in. She again declines. I tell her wait a moment, I’ll get a few glasses and we will have a glass of wine outside. Then we talk. It is awkward to initiate kino if you hadn’t before. Though I run the ESP test, holding her arm as I concentrated on reading her mind. I decide to do the mystery K-close. It has always worked for me (except the first time I used it… but I was less skilled back then) and she shakes her head “no”. damn. But the conversation continues naturally. No weird vibe. Whew. I tell her I think she would make a good friend. We should hand out. She agrees. I do this after the k-close attempt in order to neutralize any defensiveness she might have had. Also, with not being able to get the k-close, and deciding she would make a good pivot instead, my demeanor changes. It’s as if the game before this point was being sabotage by my subconscious… because messing with married women is wrong? That what society has programmed into us. Damn it subconscious… It’s NOT wrong. You fucking here me?!?! Don’t do this again! Uh-hum… ok guys, had to get that out….

She needs to go in the use the restroom. She says that is all she is going in for… uh hu. As she goes in, she comments that I am clean for a guy. I think, of course I am, I wanted to F-close you. As she tinkles, I swiftly move the glasses of wine and wine bottle inside. Sit down. She comes out and joins me, not mentioning anything about going back outside. The convo is rolling smoothly, we are vibing… sweet. But I am only vibing here cause now I see her as a potential pivot and not a potential f-buddy… So this programmed belief of messing with married women is wrong is not getting in the way. I need to be de-programmed. At least I know what the problem is. And that is a start.

So, at this point this thing can go either way. Friendly Pivot or FB.

Next day, Sayber calls me up to check on the progress. Reframing this situation as in the target has two contracts, one between her and hubby, and one between me and her. You are just fucking another women. You have a contract and not violating it. She may be violating the contract with her hubby, but that is not your problem. Nice way to frame things.

With the good ending last night and text messaging today, it is still on.

Think I will put to use all this NLP I have been studying and break this self-limiting belief of married women being off limits. Time to use the force, it is. Young Jedi mastah…