Lay Report

[Scoundrel]

I met this woman on a dating site. She is older than I usually go for (45 same as myself) but still attractive. After a few emails back and forth, I invited her to meet me at a coffee house where I spend a lot of my free time. I like to meet women here because I have a lot of SP in this place. This first meeting was just fun and playful. I introduced her to a few of my friends (a gay lawyer, a classical pianist and a history teacher from TCU) I did get a little light kino going, but nothing more. At the end, I walked her to her car and made plans to see her again. She said she felt a little uncomfortable, so I didn’t try to kiss her or make any other moves.

Day 2: We met at a bar I frequent often again, I have SP here too. I’ve taken dates here often because usually one of my young attractive friends shows up and gives me a hug. However, this didn’t happen tonight. I told her a few of my DHV stories about getting back stage at a KISS show and the time I smoked pot with Mr. Peppermint. Next, I played 5 questions with her. When she lost, I got a playful punch in the arm and she paid for my drink. More light kino going on.

Around midnight I told her I was hungry and suggested we get something to eat. I took her to a place that fills up with all kinds of people after the bars close. You never know what you’ll run into here. It may be a bunch of exotic dancers after work or Goth kids or transvestites. We were early, so none of the weirdo had arrived.

After eating and some more fluff, I held her hand on the way back to my car. I drove her to her car and walked her to it where I kissed her. She was into it! Long, deep kisses. After about five minutes, I cut her it off. “Don’t you like kissing?” she asked. I told her I felt a little exposed. The owner of the bar we were in earlier was in the parking lot talk to some of his bartender. I suggested that we go to my place for a chocolate martini and gave her my word that I wouldn’t try to have sex with her that night.

At my place, we drank the martinis and made out. She stayed the night and I kept my word about no sex. The next morning we continued making out. I offered her a toothbrush (I always keep a few extra toothbrushes for this reason). I invited her to shower with me and she accepted. After the shower, we had sex.

The next day she emailed me a few nude photos of herself.

The next time we went out she told me the only reason she agreed to meet me was to find something wrong with me (LOL). If she threw any shit tests at me I sailed through them with out even noticing them.

This woman has her shit together. A full time job with a healthy income, she’s smart, mature and sexy.

Recently the company I worked for as a truck driver went out of business and currently work delivering pizza. I’m a broken down 1962 Ford Mustang! My point is that it’s not about your job or how much money you make. None of that matters if you know how to play the game.

[Vector]

Great LR. I like how you played it cool at night and then hit it the next morning. I will usually go for it at night when a girl is at my place, but I'll do the same if I get LMR. I love it.

I never promise not to have sex, I simply declare "We're not going to have sex tonight." Then I'm not going back on a promise if I suddenly find myself very attracted to her physically. I also want to avoid the frame that presumes she doesn't want to have sex but I do. I would rather have it the other way around but attempting to say something to that effect can come off very presumtuous. The neutral statement is ambiguous.

Sounds like she is really great.

[Scoundrel]

I've used to no sex thing a few times. Usually they will try to get me to break my word, but I've always held my ground until sun up.

[Kraven]

Great LR... solid game with all the SP on the initial meet. Excellent work with the story, routine and bouncing on day 2 also