Friendzoned??? After F close?

[bigdprince]

Ok... hooked up last week with my ex GF's friend. I've been playing it cool ( challenge / anti-interest ) like I was there to have a good time and she couldn't have me. Also forbidden fruit. Anyways, kind of skirted around the issue of ex finding out. And both of us had some anxiety. I think some of hers was me being uptight about it.

Anyways.. hook up last Thursday night / Friday morning. She initiated the whole evening. Pretty much got back to her place and she jumped on me. Sex was ok.. I think it was more release. In other words hoping for *BETTER* fun ahead. We were kind of partied out.

I go back over last Sunday... and oddly enough we bump into her ex ex.. who knows me ( or gets reintroduced ). They ARE DONE. Other than having to talk for reasons I won't go into. Well, of course he's like that's f'd up so your dating your friends ex. Obviously... hoping he doesn't grapevine it to my ex.

So.. after that. Kind of made the rest of the day suck. Or atleast I didn't escalate or build comfort. She was also "partying". Which changes the dynamics. I sat on one side her the other. I think she might have been waiting on me. But, running into the ex/ex f'd my mind. So no f close / seconds. So... we cool off all week. She kind of pulls a houdini.

We meet up at bar last night.. and I turn it up, because I was off last time. I'm flirty... escalating.. at one point she plays my game back at me? I'm joking about candidates for a new boyfriend - goofy guys. She says with all these women you could get lucky tonight. I throw back that I've been a good boy and was thinking about going home with her. Which I did. But, we get there.. and she shut me down. She let me "paw" her.. passed the kiss tests.. but, wouldn't let me escalate beyond that. She was like.. whoaa.. slow down. And that she had too much to drink.

Am I friend zoned? lol.. I'm thinking she's having 2nd thoughts or another dude. But, I'm not looking for GF. I'm open to learning more about her.. but, I really want some WILD WILD sex better than the 1st time.

ADVICE?

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[bigdprince]

I'm right on this one.. called her out on it the other day.. and she claims she wasn't ready for us to get together. Whatever.. I think I'm not the only one... haha. God, she is smoking hot.. and I know a 2nd round of sex would have been great. She complemented me for having balls.. and said, she didn't want to lose a friend, and she missed hanging out with me, and the you knew we we're just going to keep hooking up all the time. Then she mentions another guy... and might of even asked what I thought... and mentioned him being a piece of eye candy.

I spent alot of time with her *kind of in limbo* because she's friends with the ex. I'm guessing she feels guilty, the ex now knows?, or another dude. Either way she is creating space and I have no idea what to do about it. I hate going from... a chick throwing herself on you... you're so hot and I love your dick during sex.. to nothing. I was so sure this would gain momentum.

Just sucks.. you need atleast an extended session or weekend. Lol, sex was a rush with her.. because we we're laughing the whole time. She was like I friendzoned you.. and I was like no I fz'd you. Haha.. lightly slapped her a couple times during sex.. should have saw the shocked look on her face.

Suggestions?

So... looks like my little run is over.... time to hunt again.

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