This is my third post on this forum and the first field report ive made. No, I'm not in Dallas anymore, I just came down to New Orleans for school. (If you haven't been to new orleans....it's another world.
Since I read the game 2 months ago I've read everything I could find from posts on here to the books that TD and others suggest reading...especially things on body language. Since getting into the community I've only gone out with groups of friends that I have relied on as a fallback. Well since coming to Tulane early, none of my friends have been here so tonight for the first time ever I went out completely and totally alone...and sober.
I went to a bar, strutted in using everything I learned from geniuses on here and Style, TD, etc. Walked straight to the bar and ordered a drink, meanwhile of course checking out the scene and looking for potential approaches. I see a 2 set (HB9 and HB6) and start my strut. My first thought was "What if they reject me", my second thought "What am I? A pussy?" F that. HB 6 leaves right before I get there...perfect.
Me:Hey thats so weird...I saw two girls last night in the French Quarter (If you dont know it look it up..Bourbon street=24/7 party) with that same purse.
HB9:Really?! Thats so weird I've had this purse for two years and I LOVE it. blah blah
Me:Yeah that's a little weird, where did you get it?
HB9:Oh Urban outfitters blah blah.
I started talking about how a lot of people at Tulane are from the
north and I started ragging on the north. Of course she was from the north...negs go here.
Me: Oh I cant be friends with you. (Turn and take a couple steps away)
Then she grabs my arm and pulls me back.
HB9:Well you havent even given me a chance yet.
Blah blah "why should i" blah blah
HB9:Here let me give you my number and call me tomorrow we'll go to happy hour at The Boot.
Money. I was doing some light kino after a few minutes. About a minute after she gave me her number I made some excuse how I had to go talk shit to some saints fans about the cowboys. She leans in and says well you call me tomorrow and kisses me on the cheek. I leave. Oh and all this happened with some dude who was talking to her sitting right there...he left about half way through my stuff. Confidence skyrockets.
I get another drink and approach a 2 set with an HB7 and a...well not even an HB honestly.
Me: hey thank god, you look like youre from the south.
HB7: why do you say that?
Me: you just do where are you from
HB7: Im from massachusettes
Then I make fun of northerners blah blah. I couldnt even talk to HB-5 i guess bc her self esteem was about -5 too. Got another offer of a number and another cheek kiss without asking. Told me to call her for the same happy hour at the Boot. Don't know what I'm going to do about that yet but whatever.
Anyway thats my first field experience where I said fuck it and actually tried the shit I've read. To all the other newbies like myself...It actually works and my worry was always that I wouldnt know what to talk about. Well tonight I figured out any normal girl won't just give you a one word closed answer that leads nowhere. If you go up confident and with the right body language I guess it can't fail. I opened a couple more sets, talked to some dudes too just to pump up the cowboys then left.
Saw HB7 on the way out on the street and i negged her and cocky funnied her and she came up and gave me another kiss and said call her tomorrow around 5. "Alright I'll call you around seven or eight, later girl."
Hope this post wasnt' too long and drawn out but I was pretty happy with myself and had to tell someone and what better place than where I learned what I know. This is the beginning of something great..I can feel it.
If anybody had any suggestions on my game or post or whatever let me know. Later yall and thanks for everything.
