working with someone who has approach anxiety

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working with someone who has approach anxiety

Postby Technology » Sun Aug 19, 2007 5:37 pm

So last night I was out with a buddy of mine who recently got into sarging and the whole pua life from "The Game" which I had given to one of my other friends who showed him, since the whole VH1 show he has been really wanting to get out and meet some HB10's but his problem is.......
Approach Anxiety.......
I still have approach anxiety but once I am on Its out of my head and i am all over opening sets, but i was out with him and I could not get him to open any set and it brought me down (DLV) cause my anxiety kept arising from him
-- he's a cool dude -- But what can I do to help him get over it and get him sarging without throwing on the pressure?
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Postby eros » Sun Aug 19, 2007 6:33 pm

just send him to any set to ask : directions, asking for cool places to hang out...give him 5 dollar bill to change in singles to any set, mix or not. and later just send him with an opener and he is in. maybe he is just scared to get rejected, send him to ask anything can be embarrass. mental training and practice is what he need and some bigger balls.
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Postby magnum » Sun Aug 19, 2007 8:37 pm

i lent a friend the game two weeks ago and he was the same way. previously we would be at clubs like blackfin and he would want to meet girls but just end up scoutin all night with no resolve. he read the book and we were at the country club the other day and a nice five set (hb's 7-9) was out sunnin. hed been there awhile and said they had left and came back, though i had just gotten off work and had not seen them prior. i wanted to strategize devise plan and enter but he simply recalled if he "counts to three it wont happen" and went on in. it worked out, a few minutes later i joined and we all had a few margs. we got numbers, after an hour i claimed i had shit to do (leave them wanting more and isolate) and we promised we would party soon. the three second rule worked for him flawlessly and i encourage you to recogmend it to your friend. you cant win if you dont play.
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