FIGHT WITH BROTHER!

[elitetran54]

My brother, and a friend of ours went to a club last nite. My brother is a good looking guy, but he is like that guy from the pickup artist that buys a beer and just stands against the wall, waiting for girls to come to him. Which i admit, some girls do approach him. But usually its a girl that he's met before. I'm always the one doing the approach because I'm so freaken bored of standing there with him. AND IT SUCKS. cause i'm the one getting all the rejection when stuff goes bad. But when things go good, i always introduce my brother to the other girls. I think girls would open up faster to him if he did the approach. AT LEAST SOME OF THE TIME.

So last night my brother clams i was "yelling at him," telling him to go talk to some girls. He also doesn't like being pressured or pushed into talking to girls also.

So when we left, me and him started arguing about me pressuring him into talking to girls. He says he happy just standing there. He's all "man i get way more girls, and numbers then you just standing at the bar." But man, all the girls he ever talks to he met from some other night or some other club. And their girls that he didn't even approach, its always one of our friends that does all approaching. He just stands around, till someone does the approaching and he slips his way in. I always call him out on that, and last night i was calling him a pussy for being like that. He didn't like it that much, and said if i call him a pussy again, he was going to clock me in the face for it. Well i did and we started fighting. (at home)

Should have just gone to Sherlock's last nite. So what do you guys think?

p.s. I did try some approaches last nite, so don't think i was just standing next to him all nite.

[JohnnyBravo]

Some guys get "it"...some don't. Show him the way. Explain/show how this is more than just scoring chicks. That it's attitude, and that will effect other parts of his life as well.

[NobodyUKnow]

He's your BROTHER for fuckssake. If he's happy doing what he's doing, then you should be happy for him.

Now when you get your game solid as shit, he will start to see that being passive is NOT as effective because of all the chicks you're with, and that is when you offer to help him. Unless he's a prideful shit and won't admit when you're doing better than him, he will ask you when the time is right.

Until then, let him be.

[Woogie]

Yeah, I will also side with Nobody. No point in coercing someone into doing he or she doesn't want to do. Just do your thing. After all, game is to help YOU as a person.

[bigdprince]

Now.. if he is being a BAD wing and/or stealing your targets, etc... that might get old.