First night out in Dallas

[tech]

Okay tonight was my first night out in Dallas and really first attempt at sarging armed with some decent and recently learned skills. Me and a buddy (who is not in on this whole community) went to a club called the lizard lounge. I entered trying to smile and hold my chest out the best i could. However, my buddy took forever to come in as he was paying with a credit card so I was forced to hang out near the entrance while I waited on him. Behind him was a two set waiting to get in but I didnt know how to approach them with my buddy between us and them being on the outside and me on the inside. We walked around the place like im not supposed to scouting it out. It seemed really loud and couldnt really find a quite place that was target rich. I honestly didnt think was going to be able to make one approach because of the volume of the music. As I got more depressed about the club, I spotted the two set again (one HB8 and one HB9). I looked at my buddy and asked him if he wanted to do it as he noticed them too. He said he wasn't sure and I said fuck it. I improvised on the way over to them because all I knew for openers were opinion openers and those would not have worked in this enviroment. The conversation went like this (as best as I can remember):
ME: Hey is this the only decent club around here?
HB9: What?!?!
ME: Is this the only decent club around here
HB8: No there are a few others around here like blah...
ME: Oh yea, cause I just moved up here and this is the only one i could find
HB8: Where did you move from?
ME: Houston, they had awesome night life there
HB8: Oh really thats awesome why did you move up here
ME: To start my new job. Me and my buddy work at the same place
HB9: Are you rollin?
ME: No (laugh) i have to take my drug test soon anyways
HB9: Thank god (laugh) your like the only guys here not takin X
ME: Yea
HB8: Well techno for dallas was pretty much born in this club so its all techno.
HB9: Do you wanna dance?
ME: We dont know how to dance to techno
HB8: It doesnt matter, we dont either. Just wave your hand around like you dont care
ME: Alright!
We all start dancing and HB9 moved closer to me to put her ass on me while she danced.
HB8: Is there somewhere we can talk
ME: Over by the bar
We moved to the bar where i bought a water.
ME: So where do yall live?
HB8: Oak Cliff, you?
ME: I dunno where thats at but I live in Grapevine.
HB8: Oh thats right by us we live in Lewisville
ME: ok i know where thats at.
Girls: We should go to another club that doesnt play techno.
Me and buddy: alright, we will follow yall
We leave the club, my buddy exchanges phone numbers with HB9 so we can call if we get lost. We follow to the next club called Purgatory(sp?) We wait in line and the little midget tells us its 21 and up for guys and 18 and up for girls. Me and buddy are 19 so we cant get in. We leave telling the girls we might be going to a party tomorrow night and they tell us to call them. as we are walking off, they yell that they get off of work at six and to call then.

Please feel free to critique and give pointers. any advice is appreciated.

[Finesse]

I was just noticing she said they lived in oak cliff and then said lewisville......

Oak cliff...... habitual liar maybe?

"No no, I swear I don't have aids."

"I promise this baby is yours."

I would watch out for that. To me that signals that you will have to play hard ball with them. "Fuck you get away from me" type shit.

BTW, Oak cliff in Dallas is comparable to the Bronx in new york. So if she does live there, you need to roll up in a hoopty.

[tech]

haha great i drive an old piece of shit!!!! But im not sure if she said oak cliff or not cause it was so fucking loud. but im pretty sure she did. but at the same time she was saying it, she was laughing and throwing up some shitty gang signs and said 'oh yea the dirty south side.' so i dunno if she was playing or not. thats how i was takin it.

[tech]

also forgot to mention when i bought my water, the HB9 wanted at drink and stuck her hand out for my water. I told her i needed a kiss on my cheek before she could have a drink. dont know if this was a good move or not

[Rhody]

also forgot to mention when i bought my water, the HB9 wanted at drink and stuck her hand out for my water. I told her i needed a kiss on my cheek before she could have a drink. dont know if this was a good move or not

It's not the best move. It implies that a kiss from her has value to you and you're willing to pay the price. I would have made a joke about her having cooties or tell her that she better not backwash into it.

But little things like that don't matter if you have attraction, which it looks like you did.

[Erock]

Dude are you in college? If so, where at?

Erock

[tech]

Rhody: thanks for the advice. i understand what your saying
Erock: haha no im done with college. i just moved Grapevine to start my career. but i do have some friends in TCU and UNT. went up to UNT last night to see a friend and walked around just talking to strangers, trying to help my friend meet people(friend is a girl).

[Rhody]

Actually, just letting her have a sip of your water is probably the best thing to do. That's a good indication that she's comfortable with you, and you being unaffected by that is probably the way to go. If you take a sip before and after her then a makeout is a foregone conclusion.

[Erock]

Done with college? At 19? That's impressive.

Quick question: How many sargable girls are there up at North Texas? Did you find a lot of opportunities or not?

Good luck with your career
Erock

[tech]

Erock: I went to a tech school that was only 1 year long. It only focused on what i wanted to do. As for how many sargable girls are up here...i dunno really. Ive only really been here for about a week and i went back home on saturday to see my parents and party with old friends. Which is leading to my next FR with a HB10 Who was a model. haha except i rejected her in the end(way too much fucking baggage). Anyways, thanks for the advice everyone. If anyone wants to go out sargin, let me know!