Field Report
By: ULTRA
Field Report #4 (# close in front of mLTR)
Premise:
So I have been seeing this really hot Turkish chick (HB9) that I met about a month ago and went out with her and a bunch of her other hot foreign Au Pair friends on Saturday night. You can read about how I met her here: (http://dallaspua.com/forum/viewtopic.php?t=1235).
It was awesome because it was just me and like 6 European and Brazilian hotties (and Turkish girl’s Host Mother, who I have been working on so as to get in good with the family so to speak.) We go to this nice outdoor bar near the water (same place as where I met her). There are a lot of European people who seem to go there and in my opinion it is the best place in the city to Sarge. I did not really plan to go out with all of them, but I was with them earlier in the day and it just sort of happened after we all had a few drinks.
Analysis:
So we arrive and I realize that my social proof is through the roof! I was surrounded by hot foreign girls that were all talking to me. Men, much better looking than me were just staring at the group and over the course of the night I counted about 6 different guys who approached my Turkish chick.
She is definitely the hottest one of the group. She is a natural beauty with dark skin, and stunning face. She has that dark, mysterious, exotic look that many southern European women have. I expected her to be bombarded by men this night, as she was the night I met her. I had to decide how I was going to play this. I decided that I would just not pay any attention to her all night, work on her friends some more so that they like me, and keep her in check by talking to other girls.
Early on when we had just arrived, we were all just in our little group and I decided to test the water by randomly talking to chicks as they walked by, but not really engaging them. Turkish girl was visibly jealous and would grab my hand and look at me to (1) try and get my attention back, and (2) show the chicks that I was talking to that they should back off. Her friends all picked up on the fact that she was jealous and called her out on it in front of the whole group. It was great!
Then as the night progressed, the group spread out into multiple conversations and I mostly hung out with the Host Mother of Turkish girl again to raise my value with her, and that went very well. After a while, Turkish girl was surrounded by dudes and was purposely flirting with them so that I could see, so I knew that I had to act. I walked up to two chicks at the bar who were also surrounded by 2 or 3 AFC’s and just barged right in and took control.
I had a what I call a Semi-Target because I wasn’t actually trying to pick her up because I could not do that in front of my chick, but just wanted to keep my Social proof up while my chick was flirting with other guys. The chick was pretty hot, about an HB8. She and her friend had just been sitting at the bar all night and it was hard to approach them because there backs were to everybody so I just ordered some drinks between the two of them and engaged them. (I didn’t really have a choice as it was crowded and I could not get to the bartender any other way).
I ran some sequences like Pick a number 1-10, fake palm reading ect. and did some negging and takeaways and got a good response. But then a funny thing happened. I knew I could not ask for the chick number right in front of Host Mother and my chick. That would be suicide! However, I know that the chick wanted me to ask for her number. Then her friend asked for my wristband and started to write my Semi-targets number on it. Host mother came over and saw what was going on, and to my surprise pivoted me! She actually took my phone from me and told the chick to just put her number in my phone to make it easier!!! What the hell is going on?!?!
Now the host mother is terribly protective over my Turkish chick and tells me on a regular basis. She even cross-examined me earlier about my intentions with her Au Pair when she was not in the room. Now she was helping my Semi-Target number close me!! Keep in mind the only line I used on the semi target was “well maybe we can continue the conversation at another time.” And then I walked away. And in a normal situation I would have either # closed myself or waited for her to # close me. But I was getting help from my mLTR’s closest guardian!!!
My DHVing toward the host mother was paying off and she loved me. She was even telling other chicks in front of my mLTR how great I was. Meanwhile, my mLTR saw what was going on and grabbed me over to the side and got right in my face and said in her sexy, accented broken English “how come you not jealous I talk to those other guys! Why you not push them away from me.”
(Translation: I am trying to make you jealous and you are not showing any sign of jealousy. And on top of that some girl is giving you her number you prick!)
We finally all wandered out of the bar, I was semi-drunk and the chicks were all fully drunk. My chick again tried to make me jealous by talking to some tall, dark European guy, so I just left with out saying goodbye to her. I know for a fact that the whole strategy worked because The Host mother texted me about 9 times on their way home about how my game had really worked on my chick and that she was talking about me the whole car ride home, even though I didn’t even talk to her all night.
Conclusion:
As always, this is a long as Sh*t Field report and sorry for that. There is so much more to tell (like how I used some major NLP masterfully on the Semi-Target), but I wanted to focus on overall strategy in this FR as opposed to tactics.
The moral of the story is that Active Disinterest really works!!!!!!!! I was the one guy not talking to her the whole night and all she could talk about on the car ride home was me. Now granted I banged her the night before for the first time, and I know none of these guys had.
When all these guys were hitting on her of course I did not like to see that. So I would just remind myself that if these guys only saw what I was doing to this chick the night before they would bow down. It is important to use these type of mental devices so that you don’t in fact become jealous and “chase the string.” I use other mental devices like this to keep my confidence level up which is so important.
But my confidence was higher than it has ever been! I was with 6 hot European and Brazilian chicks. All of which were younger than 24. I was banging the hottest one of them all, and I was number closed by an HB8 right in front of her. Now that is a confidence boost!
On top of it all I called the chicks number who I got the next day and set up a date!
I am getting better at this PUA stuff and it is good to feel progress.
- ULTRA