If you really want to take framing to the extreme, women should come to you. In addition, you feel most comfortable in the places that you frequent.
After getting really angry with my oneitis for standing me up two weeks ago, I became much more social and proactive as I went about my day. I also became more proactive on facebook and started asking for numbers there as well. I also called up a few old contacts. So over the last two weeks I've managed to get over 10 active contacts. One just asked me to go to the movies. Afterward we're going to meet one of my other chics together. I'm serious.
I've been texting with about 5 different girls tonight at the same time. A girl I had been gaming didn't show up to class today so I got a more beautiful one to sit by me. I'm not pulling any tricks. Well... not any obvious ones. Not the way some young PUA's play the game. Nevertheless, the PUA theory is always with me and I do use the tactics. But for the most part, I'm just going about my day. It feels reaaally good.
It feels awesome to know that you don't have to worry about what you'll be doing this weekend because the options are plenty. And the confidence... grows.
And the counterintuitive stuff... it's for real. Especially when it comes to social proof. Women may be aware of what you're doing, but they can't help themselves. They really can't help themselves when you push the right buttons. You know it and they know it. It's a lot like a vice or an addiction.
This ability was always with me... there were just many internal obstacles I had to overcome. And I had to choose it. I had to become proactive. I read 7 Habits as you all suggested, and I'm taking it to heart. So far it's made a big impact in the different areas of my life.
