by Mojo » Sat Oct 07, 2006 10:12 pm
Hey All,
The purpose of FRs and LRs is to, of course, get better skills...
First, when you write a field report, you re-hash the events of the night before. You have a chance to analyze what went right, what went wrong. This must be done to get better. Learn from your wins and losses.
Second, you have others here, in the community willing to give their advice. Getting a perspective outside of your world is valuable. And there are some in the community I would much prefer their opinion rather than some yahoo, how to date, article.
Finally, yes, it fun to brag. Fun to share the exploits of the night before... Cool, you asked your fellow PUAs to pick out the hottest girl in the bar. They do, and she is surrounded by two huge jocks. You walk up, blow amogs out, walk out with her to another venue where the first thing she says is "can I buy you a drink?". Brag about this! Write a field report. I want to know cause I want to learn how you did it!
And it is encouraging to me and others seeing you get better. Fuck, that is one of the coolest things about all of this. To see a (insert "dork", "geek", etc) just getting into the community and over time, becoming fucking cool. Thats so fucking cool. I love seeing that transformation.
- Mojo