First Night out using all I have learned.

[guybowen]

Last night was great 07/26/2008. I arrived in Addison at 10:40pm at a local bar (Sherlocks in Addison) crawling with people. I was amazed at many groups of people there were, but I was the only lone wolf. Soon as I walked into the bar the game was on. I entered smiling, chest up, shoulders back with a demeanor that I could bench-press the world. I posses a gift I think most people are not blessed with. The gift of humor while not being embarrassed what other people may think. I will say and do just about anything that seams funny to me. If you laugh great, if you don't it does not matter because I am laughing. A win-win in any relaxed social situation.

I entered the bar with a two goals.
Meet as many sets as I could.
Don't drink too much.

So I walked right up to the bar, ordered a miller light, and acted like I was waiting on some friends to show up. Funny how you can turn complete strangers into the friends you were waiting on. As I was waiting by the bar I noticed two women come up to the bar. I waited until after they had their drinks to approach them. As they walked back to dart area I soon followed with full intent of talking to them. My target was the tall 6-foot brunet with tight jeans and white t-shirt. She had a very pretty face with perfect teeth at least an 8. The two women I was approaching were in the dart area but not playing darts. They were standing close by to their friends observing the dart game and bar clients. 3 seconds later I walked right up and asked, "Is this the dart line?" They both giggled and said "No, but we are on a dart team called the flaming darts" later I found out that 80% of the women playing darts were lesbians. So I think it was safe to say it was an inside joke. I moved right into my own canned material I had been working on for the last 2 weeks. I asked, "I need an opinion about a friend that just got dumped by her boyfriend of 4 years". They both were instantly fixated on everything I was about to say. I said, "They lived in this awesome apartment overlooking the beautiful Dallas skyline. The sunsets at the apartment are simply breath taking. With the oranges, blues, and red over tones this is a view to fight for." I was painting a picture for them of an apartment I had never been in or existed, but had conjured out of thin air. I followed up this statement with "the apartment is only 15 minutes away from her work and most of the furniture was hers." "Most of the electronic equipment was his like a big TV, stereo, and toaster oven". Talking between the two was going non-stop at this point. Everything from "she should get the apartment" to "she should kick him out for dumping her" I interrupted them to add a little more. I stated, "Before they moved in together she made him burn all his old pictures, letters, and trinkets from old girlfriends". They talked a lot about this too. They started bringing their other friends over to join in this conversation. At this point I was the only guy in this section of the bar surrounded by hot lipstick lesbians hanging on to every word I said. I felt and looked like the man. Then I moved into the next canned material. I asked, "How long have you known each other?" they replied "A very long time" next I moved into the best friends test. I had hooked my first set. I kept telling them I was meeting some friends and had to go soon. I did some palm reading next. "Give me your hand" I said to the target. She placed her hand in mine. I rubbed my finger down her palm and said "hmmmm interesting" then threw her hand away. "What is it?" she exclaimed. I said, "Give me your hand again" she placed her hand in mine and I preformed the test again. "See this break in this line right here?" she replied, "Yes". "It means you are at a turning point in your life with big decisions coming your way". She gasped "NO WAY!". I said, "Yes its true it says so right here on your palm next to your death line". She giggled more. Now I wanted to play a little cat and mouse. I said, "I am going to call my friends to see where they are, I will see you guys around". I walked around to the music side of the bar in a completely different room as I called some people I thought might be up. Next I walked up to a few more sets on this side of the bar. Feeding the same canned material, the same hand gestures, the same time constraints, and same body language. I was golden over here as well. I was even introducing sets to each other as my friends as if I knew them forever. It was really snowballing almost out of control the way things were going. Then I stopped and noticed something all to familiar, guys doing the same things I used to do. Leaning in to a woman's ear, holding their beer up as a shield, asking the standard "what do you do?" questions. Women would just walk away from them in droves to the bathroom. I laughed a little inside at these poor socially inept guys. These same guys would be at the bar buying drinks for a group of girls while I would be reading palms and pulling hair of the women they were tiring to impress. Soon I decided to come back to the other side of the bar, the side I started at. While ordering another drink I glanced down at my phone. The 6-foot tall beauty walked up to me and asked me to rejoin her group until my friends had arrived. I was in now for real with this 6-foot tall Amazon beauty. She asked, "So what do you do?" I gave her a bit that I was a hand model or something. She laughed and said, "No really what do you do" I told her a long story of how my Dad was saved in the marines because he knew how to work on computers. Again she was fixated on every word I uttered. I told her "Your too nice for me, lets find you a new boyfriend" Then I pushed her away. She pushed me back. Switches were starting to go off like crazy. Her friends were taking pictures so I used this an opportunity to grab the camera and play photographer. Soon everyone was saying "goodbye" and "I'll see you later". I shook hands with everyone, said my goodbyes, while saving the 6-foot tall beauty for last. I gave her a long hand shake and hug then headed back to the bar for one more drink. Then I saw two tall women standing in line at the bar ready to order a drink. I was going to wait for them to order before I approached but I they could not get the bartenders attention. "Is this the line for drinks?" I asked. "Yeah it is kinda" they replied. "Cool well I will just fight you two and take your spot" They both put up their hands and acted like clumsy boxers. Next I worked my canned material, stories, and body language with identical responses. This was too good I though to myself. I was even getting kinoed by this set 45 seconds after meeting them. They asked, "Do you workout?" then squeezing my arms and chest. "Hay! Hands off the merchandise!" they laughed and grouped me more. "Hay can I talk to you for a minute?" came from the dart area. It was the same 6-foot women target I was talking with all night. "Yeah just a minute then you can get back to your friends" she said. How funny she thought the new set I was talking to were the friends I had been waiting on all night. "I'll be right back" I said as I walked over to her. "What's your phone number?" she asked. I was a little taken back by her being so forward so I gave her a fake number. Then I said, "Kiss goodbye?" and pointed at my cheek. She looked nervous then leaned in to peck me on the cheek. I responded and gave her a peck as well. I said, "Give me a call" knowing full well we will never meet up again. She said, "I will" and off she went.

So in conclusion I talked to about 8 sets, introduced sets to one another, rubbed hands, pulled hair, got surrounded by lipstick lesbians, kiss closed, and got number closed on. Not a bad night for my first time out alone as a future pua.

[Ares]

Great job! Sounds like you did really well. Takes balls to sarge solo.

I think I know how you felt, it was your first night out to really apply your material and it really did not mater how much closing you did, you just wanted to practice. I would definitely call that a successful night. I relate it to opening a safe, and you ALREADY KNOW the combination. Execute properly and success is inevitable.

By the way, I get a little freaked out too when things are so out of the ordinary, like when that HB asked for your number. Just last night a chick asked me where I lived. I told her the city, but she wanted a STREET?!?! I dropped a neg by calling her a stalker. That did not slow her down one bit. She seriously wanted to know where I lived! But try to remember, we are dropping some serious shit on these chicks, they are going to do some abnormal things (which is what we want). But if it makes you feel uncomfortable, maybe try asking for her number (in that same tone that chicks gave us, “ahh… how bout I get YOUR number”. It is a way to stay Alpha, Neg and makes her feel like you are better than her because you have not *approved* her to have your number.

But on a personal note, I am pretty sure I would have given her my number. Maybe she wanted to call you that night after her lesbian lover went home and fuck your brains out. Or maybe her and her lesbian lover both wanted to fuck your brains out that night…Hell, even if you woke up in the bathtub missing a kidney, I think it would have been worth it…

Keep up the good work.

-Ares

[ULTRA]

I had my first solo night a few weeks ago and It felt like freedom! I was on top of it all night. Some of my buddies are bad wings so I didnt have to worry about them swooping in and ruining my game.

I used the same line about waiting for my friends and it worked well. Nobody ever even asked when they were getting there or anything becasue I had there attention going so well.

It is still quite akward at first to go out by yourself, but once you find your first set and work them over it is really not to bad, because the rest of the sets see you sarging on a group of chicks and it riases social proof, and you dont even have to mention that you are meeting your friends. - ULTRA

[guybowen]

I did not want to give my real number because I am in a failing relationship right now of my AFC past of 5 years ago (sigh). If she saw me getting phone calls it would make the break up really really ugly. So for now I will just sarge when I can so when the time is right to cut off this relationship I don't sulk alone all day going back to my old AFC ways crawling back to her because the sex is easy. I would rather be ready when the time is right to break it off, go out that night, bang some HB7+. So for right now if I can score a kiss from someone I just met that night I will be happy.

[FuturesGuy]

I really have respect for you guybowen and your field report..

I know what its like to be a lone wolf and go solo...

I have only been to Sherlocks 2 times and I know it can be a crowded somewhat intimidating environment...I have been many places in addison..I can get all psyched up but once I get in the place I can easily go into "just drink" mode...

I should case that place just to catch so many of you PUAs in action...

When having a wingman its easy to look "busy" or "happy"..but when you are solo if you stop moving then you are just some dude nursing a drink or staring off into space like a creep..so it can feel like frikin mission impossible sometimes hhahahhahah