FR- HB NewYork

[AFC AdamLondon]

Hi guys,

This is a bit of an old one, but it's one of my fav's purely because I I got a lot of shit tests post K Close.

So i meet this girl in the Sports cafe. The approach was easy, mostly down to eye contact and strong inner game. We talk for a while, dance for a while, talk for a while. I pull her in and K-close. Easy enough. we swap numbers and now the game begins.

As I mentioned I've been really busy for a while now, and really didn't have the time to day 2 her properly. So i took her out for a dinner and a coffee for about 1 and 1/2 hours. Told her I had a meeting straight afterwards. Dinner went well, I paid. Throughout I am using a lot of kino, I hold her under my arm, kiss her forehead when she tells a funny story, generally act as if she is my gf.

Took her to starbucks afterwards where she told me that she will do anything for a starbucks coffee. I told her I'd remember that if ever I upset her, or wanted to pursuade her into anything...

I then left it for a day or two. We exchange a few casual texts. Then agree to meet for another coffee, this time I tell her I only have 30 mins, as I have another meeting. I sit her down and tell her to hold the table. Then i start generating social proof. I chat to everyone in the queue, and a few people at surroundig tables. Just general banter about it being cold, and how a hot chocolate works around xmas time, and good shopping places before xmas usual crap.

I sit down, we chat some more, again alot of kino from me. She asks me not to go to my meeting, I tell her that as much as I like her, she is unlikely to pay me for my time. She doesn't offer to oblige, so I tell her I will have to leave.

I am then completely busy for a few days. We text, but no meetups. Late at night my phone rings.

HB: Hey baby, What are you doing?
Me: I'm out. Family meet up, you know?
HB: I'm bored in doors and have had just enough alcohol to be really good company to you tonight.
Me: Tempting but unfortunately I'm out with family.
HB: What??!?!?
Me: Yeah I mean it isn't the most riveting crowd, but sometimes you just have to do these things.
HB: Baby, if you wanted me you'lld be here.
Me: It's nothing to do with wanting you, its about priorities.
HB: No-one says no to me. if you don't see me tonight, then you can just forget it.
Me: Fair enough. If you want me bad enough you will wait til I'm back, unfortunately I won't change my life for someone I've just met.

HB: As i said if you want me you'lld be here.
Me: I didn't say I Didn't want you, Just that i won't be seeing you today. I will however be free tommorow night, I will see you then.
HB: Now or never!
Me: Baby, be good I'll see you tommorow night.
HB: ...(Silence)...
Me: ...(Silence)...
HB: You know I'm just giving you shit right?
Me: Yep. it's ok I can handle it, But I think I may be too much trouble for you...
HB: Trouble how?
Me: You'll see... I'll see you tommorow night.
HB: Yeah definately see you then.

What amazes me is that we've fucked a few time since then and then last night we go through exactly the same conversation. She is constantly Shit testing me, to see how strong my frame is. She's great in bed though, I love slim petite black american chicks... I've had two girls from New york now and both had nipple piercings, this hold true for anyone else?

AFC AdamLondon