Kiss Close..fuck up

[rakumarudu]

Hi guys,

I read many exciting FR's from many of you and here goes my first FR..

Last friday, I went out with my friends in austin lair. I wasn't really feeling great that night as I was having knee surgery on Monday. I tagged along with my friends and they opened a set in a bar. It was a mixed set, a guy and 2 girls.
My friends engage both the girls. I just stood there with confident body language. One of the girl suddenly started talking to me..

HB7: " You were with him all night, weren't you?" (pointing to him). She was drunk and I wasn't interested in her, so I just responded to her as "Yeah". I went to the bar, got a drink and she re-opened me again. This time I got her question and she was asking me if I was a gay (because of my pink T-Shirt). I was like screw it and let's have fun with her.

Me: Yeah, you are intelligent.. I am in deep love with him (pointing to my friend). I am sorry baby did I disappoint you?. You are not my type. It would have totally worked between us if I wasn't gay.

She: Can you kiss him? (pointing to him)

Me: We don't kiss in public..You should come to our house if you want to see us in action...

At this point, I couldn't remember what happened..I switched to another thread and role-played as if she was trying to get me and I wasn't that easy..
I slowly started to get attracted to her as we went back and forth flirting. She was trying to make jealous by hugging her friend in a seducing way and looking towards me..She was teasing me..She told me that she had a boyfriend
Me: Yeah..I have 3 girlfriends (in a flirty way..)
We were in a flirting battle. So I wanted to show that I can get other girls also. I opened another set nearby. I screwed it up because my mind wasn't in it. I comeback after 5 minutes. I ask her if she missed me.

She drag me away from the group and she tells me that she is attracted to me. She was drunk..So, I didn't knew if I can believe her words. Out of nowhere I go for a kiss as she told me that she was attracted to me.
I miss her lips and land it on her face.

Her: You are acting all bad now..
Me; I am a bad boy..

Stupid me...I lost that set after that. It might have looked as if I was needy. I tried to do damage control but didn't work....

Anythoughts or suggestions as how to proceed after isolating girl to kiss close properly. Should I amplify sexual tension more before I go for kiss-close. How would I know when she is ready to kiss...

[Welsh_Dragon]

mojo ... move this to field reports...

In my opinion the reason you lost the set is because you completely broke your frame. You had decent attraction built up (not sure about the gay thing but since she opened with it I guess it works. I use it occasionally as a bit where they can't really tell if i'm joking or not but I definiely establish I am not in a funny way. I don't want to anchor that to me).

The idea to open a new set was a good one but the blowout killed you. To her it would have just looked like you recognized the new group (which you can verbalize). Come back and be like "yeah I knew that chick but I hate that other douchebag with them. I'd even rather be with you than have to talk to that schmoe". Then make up some ridiculous shit he did and laugh about what a typical Dallas guy he is and genuinely make them out to be losers. Later on use it as an excuse to venue change her to another part of the bar. Also if you happen to hook the new set you can now merge groups. I did a post on this recently in tactics and it works really well.

Finally, confidence down, you came back to her and tried to kclose at a completely inappropriate moment. Your BL no doubt was bad from the blowout anyway so she shit tested you ("you are acting all bad now..."). Still you could have recovered at that point but I assume that didn't happen. Good work though for a first FR.

[ULTRA]

yea u should post this in FR section but I would have tryed the line "do you want to make out now or wait until later?" I read that some where in the fourm a few weeks ago and it is a great line (sorry I dont remember who posted it) becasue it shows an amount of arrogance, and at the same time you can guage if she is ready to start kissing yet by her body language after you ask her that. -ULTRA