Hot Chick at the Pool (damage control)
Posted: Tue Jul 17, 2007 2:31 pmField Report
By: ULTRA
Hot Chick at the Pool
Premise:
I just got back from the pool at my building where it is a pleasantly hot but nice clear day. I live in a huge apartment complex that has a really big community pool in the middle of multiple buildings, and since I am at school during the night I usually go out there a few times a week. I noticed a really hot chick walk in (which is not uncommon). So I decided not to be a pussy and go talk to her. I ended up crashing and burning, but learned a valuable lesson in the processes.
Analysis:
So I was just out there getting some sun and would periodically go in the water to cool off. I notice the HB9 was doing the same thing so I thought to my self I would watch her and when she got in I would go in and talk to her. Then I deiced that that was a bad idea and was not going to make the mistake of “chasing” her into the pool. I watched her carefully and got in a few minuets before she was likely to and I was right on! She got in a few minuets after me and smiled at me and I opened with “hey how’s it going today” (always a good preliminary opener in my book). She said she was fine, and for the real opener I said “you must be a student if you are not at work this time of day.” I was right. She was a law student just like me but at a different school close to my school.
We talked about school and a bunch of other fluffery and she said that she would be back (meaning back to the pool) after she got hot again. She got out and I got out a second later and went back to my stuff. About 10 minuets later she was back at the steps of the pool and I decided I was going to walk by as if I was leaving and strike up another conversation. She actually engaged me first saying “are you leaving” and I said yea and then we talk some more BS. I wanted to do I cold read on her and I guessed her as a Catholic as she was dark skinned and looked either Hispanic or Italian (obviously a catholic). I was right and even got so far as to say “you seem like you must be a catholic but not a practicing one. You seem more of a spiritual person” I was dead on!
I was doing so well but then I crashed and burned. I had a fear that she might go back to her seat soon so I rushed into a number close. She almost gave it to me but I think that I looked nervous (as I was very nervous for some reason. Probably because I was rushing) so she just said well how about we just see each other at the pool. FuCK!!!!! Normally I could counter with a neg like “wow I’m not trying to bang you , I just want to be friends,” and sometimes that will get the number, but I knew I had fucked up big time so I just retreated. I hate my self for that because I was doing so good, and she was really Hot But I blew it in a few different ways.
Conclusion:
First of all, I was not warmed up. I had not psyched myself up to sarge this very attractive chick and I know that I came off as not confident and nervous (which is usually not a problem for me). Secondly, I rushed big time to the Number close (and to the cold read for that matter). Third I did not neg her at all. I always neg really hot girls right off the bat, but I just could not think of anything! She was just sitting in her bathing suit and her and her hot body mesmerized me back into AFC land.
I called my Wing when I got back and he said I should have just told her she had “Pointy elbows.” This probably would have worked fine, but I was not prepared. I get the AFC award of the day guys. What pisses me off is that I came off a great weekend where I landed a 10 (read the FR for that one here (http://dallaspua.com/forum/viewtopic.php?t=1235). The positive thing is that I learned a really valuable lesson. I should have just slow played her and left and tried on a day when I was ready for it. She Goes there often and lives in my building. There would be other chances. Any thoughts on Damage Control would be appreciated. Damn! - ULTRA
By: ULTRA
Hot Chick at the Pool
Premise:
I just got back from the pool at my building where it is a pleasantly hot but nice clear day. I live in a huge apartment complex that has a really big community pool in the middle of multiple buildings, and since I am at school during the night I usually go out there a few times a week. I noticed a really hot chick walk in (which is not uncommon). So I decided not to be a pussy and go talk to her. I ended up crashing and burning, but learned a valuable lesson in the processes.
Analysis:
So I was just out there getting some sun and would periodically go in the water to cool off. I notice the HB9 was doing the same thing so I thought to my self I would watch her and when she got in I would go in and talk to her. Then I deiced that that was a bad idea and was not going to make the mistake of “chasing” her into the pool. I watched her carefully and got in a few minuets before she was likely to and I was right on! She got in a few minuets after me and smiled at me and I opened with “hey how’s it going today” (always a good preliminary opener in my book). She said she was fine, and for the real opener I said “you must be a student if you are not at work this time of day.” I was right. She was a law student just like me but at a different school close to my school.
We talked about school and a bunch of other fluffery and she said that she would be back (meaning back to the pool) after she got hot again. She got out and I got out a second later and went back to my stuff. About 10 minuets later she was back at the steps of the pool and I decided I was going to walk by as if I was leaving and strike up another conversation. She actually engaged me first saying “are you leaving” and I said yea and then we talk some more BS. I wanted to do I cold read on her and I guessed her as a Catholic as she was dark skinned and looked either Hispanic or Italian (obviously a catholic). I was right and even got so far as to say “you seem like you must be a catholic but not a practicing one. You seem more of a spiritual person” I was dead on!
I was doing so well but then I crashed and burned. I had a fear that she might go back to her seat soon so I rushed into a number close. She almost gave it to me but I think that I looked nervous (as I was very nervous for some reason. Probably because I was rushing) so she just said well how about we just see each other at the pool. FuCK!!!!! Normally I could counter with a neg like “wow I’m not trying to bang you , I just want to be friends,” and sometimes that will get the number, but I knew I had fucked up big time so I just retreated. I hate my self for that because I was doing so good, and she was really Hot But I blew it in a few different ways.
Conclusion:
First of all, I was not warmed up. I had not psyched myself up to sarge this very attractive chick and I know that I came off as not confident and nervous (which is usually not a problem for me). Secondly, I rushed big time to the Number close (and to the cold read for that matter). Third I did not neg her at all. I always neg really hot girls right off the bat, but I just could not think of anything! She was just sitting in her bathing suit and her and her hot body mesmerized me back into AFC land.
I called my Wing when I got back and he said I should have just told her she had “Pointy elbows.” This probably would have worked fine, but I was not prepared. I get the AFC award of the day guys. What pisses me off is that I came off a great weekend where I landed a 10 (read the FR for that one here (http://dallaspua.com/forum/viewtopic.php?t=1235). The positive thing is that I learned a really valuable lesson. I should have just slow played her and left and tried on a day when I was ready for it. She Goes there often and lives in my building. There would be other chances. Any thoughts on Damage Control would be appreciated. Damn! - ULTRA