# Close on 3.5 at Sherlocks
Posted: Sat Sep 19, 2009 1:57 pmSo I know what you're thinking...why would anyone post something like picking up a 3.5? Is he trying to dlv himself? Well...there's a reason I wanted to post this.
So one of my wings opened the lone wolf next to us. I playfully teased her immediately after to add some value to our group. She starts talking to me, and I pull my two wings into the group and introduce them to her. My wings try to isolate me and say "We're gonna go get some drinks". I immediately start thinking of ideas on how to get them to stay. I pulled them into the set for a reason...I wanted to give her back to my wing that opened... but inevitably I had no idea how else to get them to stay without vocalizing it. So I'm stuck.
But I think to myself "let's just talk". I don't care what happens. I'm aware of what needs to be done (attract, comfort, escalate, etc), but I don't think about the specifics. It was amazing because everything just flowed naturally. More importantly, I felt like I was actually making a connection with her and treating her as a person. She complimented me multiple times with some really deep insight, and I returned the same. The interaction was very geniune, and I liked that. Not needing to think about lines or the best answer. Anyways, long story short, I got her number, but it's a throw away number cause I'm not attracted to her.
I had a taste of what it was like to be a natural...and I want more!
So one of my wings opened the lone wolf next to us. I playfully teased her immediately after to add some value to our group. She starts talking to me, and I pull my two wings into the group and introduce them to her. My wings try to isolate me and say "We're gonna go get some drinks". I immediately start thinking of ideas on how to get them to stay. I pulled them into the set for a reason...I wanted to give her back to my wing that opened... but inevitably I had no idea how else to get them to stay without vocalizing it. So I'm stuck.
But I think to myself "let's just talk". I don't care what happens. I'm aware of what needs to be done (attract, comfort, escalate, etc), but I don't think about the specifics. It was amazing because everything just flowed naturally. More importantly, I felt like I was actually making a connection with her and treating her as a person. She complimented me multiple times with some really deep insight, and I returned the same. The interaction was very geniune, and I liked that. Not needing to think about lines or the best answer. Anyways, long story short, I got her number, but it's a throw away number cause I'm not attracted to her.
I had a taste of what it was like to be a natural...and I want more!