Chemistry.com # pull.

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[COLOR=black][FONT=Verdana]I just started getting back in to PUA after ending a LTR I was never really that good at going out to meet girls something I need to work on. I had a profile up on Chemistry.com so I went ahead and paid for one month. I got a lot of active matches and so far got 2 numbers. [/FONT][/COLOR]

[COLOR=black][FONT=Verdana]Right now I am using David M system and it's working ok. Here is one of my email conversation with a match form the site “Read for the bottom up “[/FONT][/COLOR]

[COLOR=black][FONT=Verdana]From: M[/FONT][/COLOR]
[FONT=Verdana][COLOR=black]To: Jast[/COLOR][/FONT]
[FONT=Verdana][COLOR=black]Date: Tuesday, September 04 2009 11:48:00 aM[/COLOR][/FONT]
[FONT=Verdana][COLOR=black]Subject: Re: Re: Hi [/COLOR][/FONT]



[COLOR=black][FONT=Verdana]That's funny. I know exactly where Bryn Mawr is outside of Philly! I'll have to send that to my colleagues and my boss who is in the Philadelphia office. Although she doesn't like me calling her "my boss." She says we are colleagues... She's cool![/FONT][/COLOR]

[FONT=Verdana][COLOR=black]So, what's up with you on this beautiful Thursday? I am loving this weather! (still warm but not too hot) We have summer hours here at work and get off at 3:00 on Fridays. This is our last 3:00 Friday. Booooo! It seems the summer just flew right by.[/COLOR][/FONT]

[FONT=Verdana][COLOR=black]Do you have plans for the holiday weekend? I am going to a 2 year old's birthday party in Gun Barrel City Saturday. My friend's in-laws have a lake house out there. I think that's all I have in the works so far.[/COLOR][/FONT]

[FONT=Verdana][COLOR=black]I was going to go to Austin, but I changed my mind. I was just down there two weeks ago and I have a lot of things I should do some things around the casa this weekend! I haven't been home much this summer to get things done.[/COLOR][/FONT]

[FONT=Verdana][COLOR=black]Okay, so I'm gonna go ahead and give you my number... [/COLOR][/FONT]

[FONT=Verdana][COLOR=black]Not sure what your plans are this weekend, but maybe we can meet somewhere one day for lunch or some sort of activity outside since it's so nice right now.[/COLOR][/FONT]

[FONT=Verdana][COLOR=black]Call me and we can chat~ [/COLOR][/FONT]

[FONT=Verdana][COLOR=black]214.xxx.xxxx [/COLOR][/FONT]

[FONT=Verdana][COLOR=black]M[/COLOR][/FONT]
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[FONT=Verdana][COLOR=black]From: M[/COLOR][/FONT]
[FONT=Verdana][COLOR=black]To: Jast[/COLOR][/FONT]
[FONT=Verdana][COLOR=black]Date: Wednesday, September 02, 2009 8:06:00 pm[/COLOR][/FONT]

[COLOR=black][FONT=Verdana]Hi Jast[/FONT][/COLOR]

[FONT=Verdana][COLOR=black]How are you?[/COLOR][/FONT]

[FONT=Verdana][COLOR=black]I was thinking that Star Wars is probably better than Star Trek...?! LOL Some people make a big deal and camp out for those movies like Harry Potter and the Lord of the Rings! Kind of crazy! Maybe that's why I never got around to it...?[/COLOR][/FONT]

[FONT=Verdana][COLOR=black]As far as my phone number...? Hmm. Please don't think I am not interested. I'm sure you're a really nice guy and you look pretty cute in your photos. It's just that I haven't really been talking with you all that long, so I'm a little bit unsure about giving my number to you just yet. (Maybe a few more emails and we can exchange numbers this weekend?) [/COLOR][/FONT]

[FONT=Verdana][COLOR=black]I'm not sure of the online dating rules as I just signed up for chemisty.com this past weekend. I hope that doesn't bother you... [/COLOR][/FONT]

[FONT=Verdana][COLOR=black]It is late and I'm about to go to sleep. I'll have to check out the link you sent to me later.[/COLOR][/FONT]

[FONT=Verdana][COLOR=black]Nighty-night,[/COLOR][/FONT]
[FONT=Verdana][COLOR=black]M[/COLOR][/FONT]


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[FONT=Verdana][COLOR=black]From: Jast[/COLOR][/FONT]
[FONT=Verdana][COLOR=black]To: M[/COLOR][/FONT]
[FONT=Verdana][COLOR=black]Date: Wednesday, September 02, 2009 8:06:00 AM[/COLOR][/FONT]
[FONT=Verdana][COLOR=black]Subject: Re: Re: Re: Hi [/COLOR][/FONT]

[FONT=Verdana][COLOR=black]Jast wrote:[/COLOR][/FONT]
[FONT=Verdana][COLOR=black]Thanks for the response,[/COLOR][/FONT]

[FONT=Verdana][COLOR=black]I had to get to work early today but it works out since now I have some free time to answer your email.[/COLOR][/FONT]

[FONT=Verdana][COLOR=black]You really have never seen a Star Trek movie WOW. Well we are going to have to fix that. [/COLOR][/FONT]

[FONT=Verdana][COLOR=black]A little more about me. I am a cute, 28, funny signal guy who likes motorcycles and dogs, I am all ways ready for a good time. I do have a Starbucks addictions I am sorry to say. I really should buy stock in that company since I invested so much in it all daily. A buddy of mine emailed me this story and it had me rolling if your sense of humor is like mine you will like it. [URL]http://www.funnyread.com/2009/08/08/188/[/URL][/COLOR][/FONT]

[FONT=Verdana][COLOR=black]I am usually really busy at work and don’t get a lot of time to answer emails today is kind of slow… [/COLOR][/FONT]
[FONT=Verdana][COLOR=black]what’s your number?[/COLOR][/FONT]

[FONT=Verdana][COLOR=black]Jast[/COLOR][/FONT]

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[FONT=Verdana][COLOR=black]From: M[/COLOR][/FONT]
[FONT=Verdana][COLOR=black]To: Jast[/COLOR][/FONT]
[FONT=Verdana][COLOR=black]Date: Tuesday, September 01, 2009 12:48:00 PM[/COLOR][/FONT]
[FONT=Verdana][COLOR=black]Subject: Re: Re: Hi [/COLOR][/FONT]

[FONT=Verdana][COLOR=black]M wrote:[/COLOR][/FONT]
[FONT=Verdana][COLOR=black]Tell me about it... I actually signed up for Chemistry.com over the weekend so I am very new to this and have never done the online dating thing in the past. It is kind of strange but what they hey, I figured I'd give it a try![/COLOR][/FONT]

[FONT=Verdana][COLOR=black]I guess bowling with my friends last night was the funnest thing I've done this week... so far! But that may change... I'm going to the dentist this afternoon to get a crown so check back with me later! Ha ha[/COLOR][/FONT]

[FONT=Verdana][COLOR=black]Motorcycles huh... What if I say it depends on what kind of motorcycle you have?! LOL As long as you don't force me to drive one, then I think we're ok for now. I tried riding a dirt bike when I was a kid and that didn't go so well~ [/COLOR][/FONT]

[FONT=Verdana][COLOR=black]I can't say I have a favorite movie. There are a lot of movies that I can watch over and over again. Some sad, some funny! I guess I can throw some examples out there: Happy Gilmore, I love you to Death, Good Will Hunting, Gladiator, The Patriot, Interview with a Vampire, Play it Forward, etc. I'd say I probably like suspense/thrillers or comedies the best. I have not seen any of the sci fi type movies like Star Trek or Star Wars. And I haven't seen any of the Godfather movies yet either. These are probably something I should do someday... I was told for years that I should see Scarface and how great it was, but when I finally watched it I found it to be a HUGE disappointment! Al Pacino gets on my nerves. That guy doesn't shut up in any of his movies! (None that I've seen anyway)[/COLOR][/FONT]

[FONT=Verdana][COLOR=black]Well, I'd better run, before I'm late for my torture at the dentist.[/COLOR][/FONT]

[FONT=Verdana][COLOR=black]Hope you're having a great day![/COLOR][/FONT]

[FONT=Verdana][COLOR=black]xo[/COLOR][/FONT]
[FONT=Verdana][COLOR=black]m[/COLOR][/FONT]

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[FONT=Verdana][COLOR=black]From: Jast[/COLOR][/FONT]
[FONT=Verdana][COLOR=black]To: M[/COLOR][/FONT]
[FONT=Verdana][COLOR=black]Date: Tuesday, September 01, 2009 10:55:00 AM[/COLOR][/FONT]
[FONT=Verdana][COLOR=black]Subject: Re: Hi [/COLOR][/FONT]

[FONT=Verdana][COLOR=black]Jast wrote:[/COLOR][/FONT]
[FONT=Verdana][COLOR=black]Hey there,[/COLOR][/FONT]

[FONT=Verdana][COLOR=black]Writing an email to introduce yourself to someone new seems kind of odd to me, who sends an email out to introduce themselves? [/COLOR][/FONT]

[FONT=Verdana][COLOR=black]I like it that you can laugh and be silly you sound like someone who knows how to have fun. By the way if you don’t like motorcycles then we have to break up... ha-ha. I am a pretty funny guy and I am always ready to have a good time. How about you what's the most fun you have had this past week? You got a favorite movie one you watch over and over again? [/COLOR][/FONT]

[FONT=Verdana][COLOR=black]So let’s talk sometime.[/COLOR][/FONT]

[FONT=Verdana][COLOR=black]Jast[/COLOR][/FONT]

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[FONT=Verdana][COLOR=black]From: M[/COLOR][/FONT]
[FONT=Verdana][COLOR=black]To: Jast[/COLOR][/FONT]
[FONT=Verdana][COLOR=black]Date: Monday, August 31, 2009 6:41:00 PM[/COLOR][/FONT]
[FONT=Verdana][COLOR=black]Subject: Hi Jast[/COLOR][/FONT]

[FONT=Verdana][COLOR=black]M wrote:[/COLOR][/FONT]
[FONT=Verdana][COLOR=black]I like your answers! I am off to my best friend's birthday dinner/celebration so I'm in a rush right now. Write soon if there's anything you'd like to ask me![/COLOR][/FONT]

[FONT=Verdana][COLOR=black]Enjoy your evening,[/COLOR][/FONT]
[FONT=Verdana][COLOR=black]M[/COLOR][/FONT]

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Not sure if you are looking for advice or feedback..

I've used match.com in the past... a few things that worked well for me...

-I always did 2-4 emails and go for the meetup if they sounded interesting and i wanted to sacrifice a night to them
-would just say "how about a drink next (mon-thus, some early week, never weekend night) at (8:30/9pm) at XXX. That first meeting is just to screen THEM and see if you want to see them again. Late enough in the night it is clear it does NOT involve dinner. It's just some drinks. Late enough you can get out of there without much time investment if they suck
-I never asked for a number. On day of meetup, I email them my number so they have it (they always emailed their's back without you asking for it. Never talked on phone before meetup
-After the meetup is set up, i "go dark" ... ie. i would try not to continue email discussions after the setup. Too much opportunity to introduce a lull, and take away some comfort building topics for once you are face to face.

all this was field tested successfully with numerous women

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[COLOR=black][FONT=Verdana][COLOR=black][FONT=Verdana]Feedback and advice are all ways welcome. [/FONT][/COLOR]
[COLOR=black][FONT=Verdana]I well have to try out what you suggested on the next few match I get TopDog. How do you think I should handle the ones I have now? I was thinking about a few text message and then going for the meet up. David's program says to call them have a quick 5 min talk then if you click set up a meeting for coffee or drinks. What do you think would work best ?[/FONT][/COLOR]
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[QUOTE=jast;33006][COLOR=black][FONT=Verdana][COLOR=black][FONT=Verdana]Feedback and advice are all ways welcome. [/FONT][/COLOR]
[COLOR=black][FONT=Verdana]I well have to try out what you suggested on the next few match I get TopDog. How do you think I should handle the ones I have now? I was thinking about a few text message and then going for the meet up. David's program says to call them have a quick 5 min talk then if you click set up a meeting for coffee or drinks. What do you think would work best ?[/FONT][/COLOR]
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I've done a little dating site game, and I do similar to TD...except I do mine all through txt. I've found that most women prefer text any day...especially w/ a guy they don't know. Just banter for a bit then shoot for a quick meet up. Make it something easy where you both have a easy out if it ain't what you thought it was gonna beeeeeee.