FR with # close at Glo, now need some txt advice

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Okay I met this cute HB7 at Glo last sat...I felt she was quite into me from the start, may be cause she was kinda tipsy, I had good social proof being the photog n everything idk...All I said was 'let have a quick picture,shall we?', snapped a few pics of HB7, her friend who was there with her bf...I then handed the cam over to Matrix and was standing by the bar. Hb7 comes up to me, we exchange names, I ask Matrix to take a pic of us and she then starts grinding...while we are at it she tells me shes a bartender and wants to become a doctor blah blah...I ask her to come join me at Plush next thursday, where I shoot the weekly bikini contest, she likes the idea and punches her name and number in my phone....Im standing behind her (u know, grinding)...give her a lil kiss on the cheek and say 'I goto go join my friends, maybe I'll come back and take a few more pictures of you, alright?'...

After half n hr or so I see them again, this time some guy had joined the 3 of them, so HB7s friends bf asks me to shoot some pics of the 3...after snapping a few, HB7 suggest I give my cam to the new guy and let him snap pics of the 2 of us (IOI?)...so we again start grinding each other with a lil chit chat...before leaving I again catch up with her, tell her "Im gono see you Thursday, will text ya the details later" ..she was up for it...again asked me for my card, apparently lost the first one...


I text her the next day, just general stuff couldnt think of anything funny or clever :( ...
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Kevlar(sent at noon):[/b] wats up doc! It was fun meeting you last night -- Kev

[b]HB7 (replies at around 9pm):[/b] Yeah it was nice to meet you as well. where can I find the pics :)

[b]Kevlar (trying to imitate her by replying after 2 hrs or so): [/b]you lost my card again?? Grrrrr :) nightlifesupplements.com [yes you guys can find the pics here, if you know me, you'll know who she is ;) ]

No more msgs exchanged since then..

Okay so thats the end of my lil FR, feel free to comment/critique...but what I really need is suggestions on TEXT GAME!! I suck!!! have had a few number closes recently but havent gone past the first couple of texts...so wanna use ur inputs and see how it goes ;) I'm also searching thru the lair for similar threads cause its been asked so many times....

Kevlar

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You can engage her again by texting something light, humorous, and open to simple response.

Last Friday, I messaged a girl I'd lost contact/interest with for some time with the following:

"Happy Juneteenth...are you celebrating for a brotha?"
She sent some reply asking WTF basically, and I retorted with,
"Because I'm black from the waist down!"

simple, humorous, slightly juvenile, but effective.

With your girl, I'd ask her what she thought of the pics, make fun of her for losing the cards a bit more, tell her your bikini contest needs a Dr.'s opinion on who to take pics of...and tell her she better come. Dont ask her...pet name her...etc.



by the way, I want that shirt you're wearing. : )

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You can engage her again by texting something light, humorous, and open to simple response.

Last Friday, I messaged a girl I'd lost contact/interest with for some time with the following:

"Happy Juneteenth...are you celebrating for a brotha?"
She sent some reply asking WTF basically, and I retorted with,
"Because I'm black from the waist down!"

simple, humorous, slightly juvenile, but effective.

With your girl, I'd ask her what she thought of the pics, make fun of her for losing the cards a bit more, tell her your bikini contest needs a Dr.'s opinion on who to take pics of...and tell her she better come. Dont ask her...pet name her...etc.



by the way, I want that shirt you're wearing. : )
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thanks Smirks I'll try it out....while diggin thru the lair I came across this ([link=hyperlink url]www.dallaslair.org/p/forum/forum_viewtopic.php?22163.post[/link]) thread....has some good info by you guys but its kinda generic...I need some examples atleast for starters...and the link that muk posted in there for random shit is money([link=hyperlink url]www.crazythoughts.com/[/link] )...

I was also thinking of using the 'be my gf for the next 10 minutes' routine, but it wouldn work if she replies after 2 hrs lol...may be if I open with some random shit and then try it if she replies.

As for the shirt...JC Penny $20 ;)

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is she the one thats in the black tube top dress? if so, shes cute!

great job kevlar!

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is she the one thats in the black tube top dress? if so, shes cute!

great job kevlar!
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yeah man shes the one...she kept pulling her dress up n down the whole time lol

sent her another message n no reply...fuck it im done!

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[quote1245729918=Prodigy]
is she the one thats in the black tube top dress? if so, shes cute!

great job kevlar!
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yeah man shes the one...she kept pulling her dress up n down the whole time lol

sent her another message n no reply...fuck it im done!
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I didn't see the pics. Only saw one with you and some blonde in a blue shirt.

Anyways yep just delete and move on. It is unfortunate but it is just part of the game.

On a side note: I used to always try and figure out things to open number closes with via text. When it really came down to it there was no magical system or thing to say. Just saying Hi or Hello or whatever to start the chat is fine. If the girl is down with talking and future get togethers she is going to be down regardless of what you write via text.

Of course saying Hey Dork! sure has worked out well for me.

Goodluck