FR: 5-24 at S4

[Guest]

I re-edited it. I didn't proof-read it.

S4 during memorial weekend. It is packed like a mofo.

So me, afterlife, texas are waiting in line with some friends we met at S4 last wee (good thing we met them last week, we were able to cut the long line). I am downstairs on the dance floor with some friends while afterlife and texas are upstairs watching the show. They didn’t stay there for too long because it is too packed and didn’t want to stand while watching the show. We like to sit in the front near the stage to scope the area and talk to people around us. The dance floor was kind of empty at the moment but gets better which is when afterlife and texas comes downstairs. I find both of them on the dance floor with a set of three. I don’t know how afterlife pulls them, but I think he used dance game on them. I start dancing with a hb8 after she sees me dancing with some others. She leaves me because my dance was bad at the time.

All three of us use dance game to pull girls at s4 when we are on the dance floor. to pull girls in the center courtyard where everyone is talking and smoking (outside), we will use more afc adam London style. Because we are regulars at s4, we are able to always find a group of friends at any given point of time in the courtyard area. We will talk to them, but then one of us will slowly go to the group next to us and just introduce ourselves as friendly people. We slowly go around the area and talk to different folks until we hit our target. Pretty much, we are trying to raise our status more by getting to know more people by gaming the area.

Later in the night, we are dancing among the three of us. I see a girl, and I pulled her arm to come dance with me (didn’t say anything verbally). I wasn’t into her, but I just wanted to try caveman. It was my first time to ever been that aggressive in my life. While we are all dancing, texas is dancing with someone while eye-f***ing a brunette hb8 who was dancing with her two girlfriends. He lets her know he is watching her and is interest in her by giving good eye contact. He doesn’t look at her in a sexual way, more in “I am interested in meeting you” kind of way. They lock eye contact several times while dancing which I noticed. Texas and I leave the floor to rest for a bit while Afterlife is lost. We come back to dance floor and we see the girl he was giving eye contact with and her two friends.

Texas: I want to dance with you
Girl: okay (kind of shocked face and then goes to her friends and tells her she wants to dance for a bit)

Her and her friends go back to the dance floor with us. I pull one of her friends, hb 7.75 ( I have very high standards) by the arm (again, never been this aggressive and now understand Prodigy’s field report on being aggressive). I dance with her from behind; she has one friend (hb 6.5) left who isn’t dancing with anyone. Another friend of ours comes by who is interest in the girl I was dancing with (has good natural game and is bi) from the front.

My mistake: I should have left the girl I was dancing and dance with their friend who was alone because my natural game friend was interested in the girl I pulled and I wasn’t. Because she was alone, they left the dance area.

I open a blonde hb8 (too tall for me, but if shorter, 8.5) who was just standing on the dance floor with her hb 7.75 friend and gay friend.

Me: you look like a lot of fun so I had to come by say hi (I wanted to do it to the whole group, but 7.75 and gay were talking with each other while blonde was just standing there)
Hb8: I am a lot of fun, what do you mean I am not
Me: no, I said you look like a lot of fun so I wanted to come by say hi
Hb8: oh ok (said stuff but i forgot), my name is patricia. What is yours?
Me: I’m sweet pure. Are these your friends? (she introduces me to them, I chat with hb8 for a bit and then leave)

Me, afterlife, texas walk around. Chatting up with people. I go walk around alone and chat people up. We are just mingling with people for a good while.

i run into a brunette hb8.5 girl i met the previous sunday. i've seen her many times before at s4, but last week i got the guts to talk to her. i opened with a compliment on her outfit the previous week. we talked about stuff last night like she is in paul mitchell school. she asks me what am i doing out in the patio area, i answer with i am getting some fresh air because i've been dancing. we chat some more. she is with some girls (dyke looking girls).

me: are those your friends?
hb8.5: yeah, they are
me: introduce me to them
hb8.5: that is my ex-girlfriend. she is not worth introducing her to you
me: oh okay, i just like meeting new people (and said more stuff but i forgot). so do you come here a lot?
hb8.5: yeah, ever since we broke up.
me: i said more stuff. we chat but then I leave to mingle with others too. i know i will she her again. not sure if she is bi or lesbian, but I think all lesbians are bi.

I lose afterlife and texas so I go back to the dance floor. i run into blonde hb8 again by the dance floor.

Me: I forgot what I opened with but then I introduce myself
Hb8: we already met (she points where we met)
Me: oh, let me try to remember your name ( tried to think but couldn’t). I am usually good with names, but I forgot this time
Hb8: its patricia
Me: why are you just standing there?
Hb8: I am trying to find my friends
Me: well, go in the dance area and find them
Hb8: its too packed to look for them (which it was)
Me: lets go find them together
Hb8: its too packed though
Me: ( I then grab her hand and lead her. This raise my staus on the dance floor and lets me understand I should be this aggressive) we find her friends and I start dancing with a friend who was next to her group.

Mistake: I should have talked to her after finding her friends and danced with her too.

I run into texas later in the night. We go try to find afterlife. While trying to find afterlife, texas and I run into some girls we know. We talk for awhile. Afterlife finds us. we leave the girls we know, and go downstairs. we run into some other people we know. We talk for awhile. We see the three girls texas pulls (the one who locked eye contact with). Texas purposely hugs one of the guys we know to let the girl know he has social status at s4. Instead of Texas asking for her number, he gives it to her (this is what afterlife does and I do sometimes). He gives his number to her and she later texts him in the night. They have been texting back and fourth since.

It gets kind of late. We mingle more. We eventually leave.

Things I experimented and hope to do for a long time:
-Being aggressive and dominant. Pulling a girl by the arm or hand is Alpha male and I need to do more aggressive/dominant acts.

Things to work on:

-Picking up cues when it comes to wingmanship.
-Learn some more dance moves to make the girl feel more comfortable with me.
-kino skills has become better but not at a level I want

[Guest]

Sweet Pure, this is the first FR that i've read from you that actually contains details, great job man!! I see that your game has grown exponentially and i applaud you for making such progress...i hope you continue to get better and better...

i notice that you prematurely eject alot..is there a reason why?

i couldnt tell if the interaction was going well or not (obviously, im not there and you left out a few details), but from your FR, i think if you wouldve stayed in the set(s) and continue to game, you couldve easily number closed a few of those girls...

[Guest]

i do eject a lot, but i see them again later in the night and talk to them more later in the night. i make sure i talk to them again when i am with friends to show i have status.

[Guest]

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i do eject a lot, but i see them again later in the night and talk to them more later in the night. i make sure i talk to them again when i am with friends to show i have status.
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are you number closing them later in the evening?

[Guest]

i was suppose to with the blonde hb8, but I didn't. I did number close a girl last week who I waited to close later in the evening. I like to build comfort first and not rush into number close because I don't like flakes.