Dallas PUA

i was introduced by a friend of mine to her group at corner bar when i randomly ran into her. we talked for a bit, and then i had her introduce me to her friends. wow, got blown out by like 10 of her sorority sisters all at once. i didn't even get to introduce myself to the group because i was blown off.
i didn't know what to do in that type of situation. i just wanted to get to know them, but i didn't get a chance. it was so bad, my friend apologized to me for her friends. usually, a group of people are warm/friendly if u know one of the persons, especially if you are introduced by a girl, but i was shocked this time. i didn't know how to win that specific group. i just left and went to glo.

what was i suppose to do in that situation? i won't see those girls except my friend again because they just graduated. was i suppose to say something like... "wow, so far everyone i've met in dallas has been nice, but you guys seem to be the exception"

How were you blown out? You ask questions without any setup...no one can give you an answer off what's provided.

Like before I could say anything, they blew me off when my friend introduced me to them. Like no hi, my name is..., or anything. They just turned their face from me when I was introduced.

SMU chicks = Cunts...

Move on and realize that some women just are not worth your time. They actually did you a favor, now you can move on and find a chick that is addicted to your cock.

B R may be right.
But you would benefit GREATLY to learn how to handle these kinds of situations.

You say they blew you off before you even said anything...but that sounds to me like you just assumed you had no chance and quit trying.
How can you lose a game if you didn't even make an attempt to play?

Besides...why SHOULD they be interested in you? They don't even know you...
There is zero obligation for them to be all over you on first meet.

PREFACE BEFORE I CONTINUE:
I am not a huge proponent of giving advice on a forum about how a specific situation went wrong. There are almost ALWAYS too many things that havent/werent/cant be/etc conveyed in the description of the original situation...thus it is generally very difficult to give sound advice.

That said...lets assume the situation was exactly as you described it...(and how I interpreted it).
There are a few things you could have done:
(which one you might choose would depend on your personality/style...and these are surely not the only options):

1) Show them the same disinterest they showed you...at first.
Your friend tells everyone your name.
You get little to no reaction from it.
So you go back to your friend who introduced you, just as you where immediately before the introduction, and gradually work your way out to the other people in the group from there. You might actually even have a tiny little advantage because everyone knows you are with your friend...and not some creeper just trying to work his way in.

[Before I continue, this reminds me: I haven't hung out with you in a while...so things may have changed since then; But I recall noticing that it often obvious and forceful when you are TRYING to talk to a girl or group. Honestly I don't think I picked up on exactly what it was...but it was likely either body language, forced conversation, or some combination of the two. Try working on making your interactions seem more natural and not so forced.]

2) Go playful (and MILDLY direct)...but NOT in an obviously defensive way.
These girls clearly didn't need you...so if you're going to go the direct route, its up to you to pursue them in a PLAYFUL (non-creepy way).

(After reconsidering, I'd say this option is something you probably don't want to use unless you can do it with a __100%__ solid frame and NOT back down halfway through. Also, to pull this off you need to have a REALLY good internalized feel for reading other people in order to adjust your mannerisms as things progress.)

3) Find the weakest frame in the group and tackle.
You said there where like 10 of these girls in this group.
There was very likely ATLEAST 1 of them (who knows...possibly the ugliest one...doesn't matter) that would have atleast STARTED talking to you if you opened her specifically.
Granted, you have to be able to make friends with her and hold a conversation...but once you do that, you move on to working your way out to other members of the group.



All those options considered, B R may still very well be correct;
But you will benefit greatly from the ability to tackle the bitchcunthookers just the same as the non-bitchcunthookers.

Thanks alphamo. I wanted to learn from the situation and how to handle the situation the right way.

Hello Sweet Pure,

I hope all is going well for you these days.

Your above question is a good one and I think it just all depends. Here is my take.

These girls were all really good friends. They had formed friendships over the last 4 years. They were all out together for one last shindig knowing very well that they were all going separate directions in life. This meant it was their last time to spend together in a group probably for the rest of their lives.

With that said I don't care if Brad Pitt walked up he might have been shunned just the same. These girls were there to be with each other and not a sole on earth was going to interrupt that.

I know you want to learn from each situation you encounter and that is awesome. So learn that you are never going to be able to win every single situation. This was one of them.

Were they bitches? Possibly. But in this context I think they just didn't have interest in anyone but their current group as it was very important to them to spend those last minutes with the group they have loved for the last 4 years.