Ah, First FR: Blackfinn 3-7-09

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first I apologize for lack of specifics of the interation(s) because i can be forgetful of what i say sometimes...having said that..

several of us hung out last night and ended up at Blackfinn at about 8 o'clock and drinking. it was empty at first, but what do you expect? it was 8 o'clock. after lots of shots/drinks and yelling competitions, most of us were toasted by 10, shit i know i was. i order a tasty hamburger and raped it...it was good. at about that time it starts filling up and people were out and about; i have to admit, there was a good crowd there last night with some HB's...i opened more than i usually do and feel that i did pretty damn good; i learned alot about myself and my game last night, it was fun...

so im eating my fries and two hb6's (well call them hbgreen and hbshorty) is walking towards our table, in a laxy daisy stupor, i turned to them and opened them with, "do you want some fries?" i dip one in the ketchup and shove it in mouth. i take it that they werent too impressed as they blew me off and was like, wtf...interestingly enough, a whiles later, they walk by our table again and one of the community guys open hbgreen; her friend, hbshorty turns to me and was like, "hey arent you the fries guy?" i laugh and say yes. i motion her to come over and she does..we start chit chatting and shes shit testing me like crazy...shit testing me about my dog tags, my style, my job..etc etc. the whole entire time im like i dont give a fuck, but continue on with the interacton. it stales, so i turn and talk to two other girls i met friday night taht PP got to come out, thanks PP! well call them hb8 and hb7, but that portion of the FR will come later...hbshorty is like whatever and begins talking to some other community guys as i talk to hb8. i catch hbshorty looking at me a few times across the table and realize she likes me, game on, advantage prodigy. she comes by several more times, we socialize, i run cocky/funny with lots of cocky and she goes to dance. MAJOR PROPS TO ALPHAMO FOR WINGING ON HBGREEN!! fastforward into the night and after several conversations with hbshorty, she comes up to me, i do the classic Lion/PC move and pick her up, she wraps her legs around me and like the mcdonalds slogan, "shes lovin' it" i sit her down on the chair and kino escalate with lost of sexual tension building...i shouldve number closed her HERE, but i didnt. we talk a bit and she goes to dance some more. later in the evening she comes by as im leaning on the table and is all up on me. i grab her, pull her in and tried to number close; i whisper into her ears, "hey, youre a cool chick, give me your number and we'll hang out" she pauses and says, "i dont know, youre just SO cocky" im like whatever i kind of push her back and lean on the table and was like whatever....eventually she walks off...i couldve easily kiss close her at this point, she was totally into me and i thought it was in the bag, but i think she was just playing hard to get. later in the evening, she grabs me as i walk backwards and sits down on a chair; shes inbetween my legs. i do the sexual tension building routine by whispering into her ear, rubbing my cheeks on hers (sounds gay!) once again, couldve easily kiss closed here. shes waiting and waiting as if she wants me to number close. i say nothing and she pushes me off and says, "youre so fucking cocky!" i am careless, so she goes to talk to hbgreen about me, then off to dance the rest of the night. i failed to number close but honestly, i really didnt care...

the night wasnt a complete failure, read on...

so onto the next interaction (taht was occuring simultaneously to the one above mind you)...we met hb8 and hb7 at logans friday night and PP and I number close the same chick without knowing, hb7. so PP gets her to come out and she brings hb8. i was outside on the phone and see hb7, so i walk up to their table, chat it up and bring them inside to join our tabble. long story short, i number close hb8 last night, but dont think it will go anywhere. why you ask? because i feel the vibe that im in the LJBF zone...man, hb8 has a really nice ass and pretty good body, shes cute as a button too!

where i went wrong..

first interaction:
1. too cocky and was in attraction too long. once i knew she liked me, i shouldve built more comfort
2. i was too worried about what everyone else was thinking; i was afraid to be perceived as AFC and didnt "chase" her when i shouldve...
3. i have this fucked up idea that you have to open, number close, etc at specific times of the game, WRONG! i need to do it when i feel it. with hbshorty, i should number closed WAY earlier in the interaction.

2nd interaction:
1. limiting mind. from the get-go i felt relatively inexperienced and that my game wasnt tight enough to pull her. why? i had no confidence in my game, i was intimidated by her for many reasons. a. she blew me off on friday night. what would make tonight any different? b. shes 5'10 and with heels on, she was easily 6 ft, 6'1 last night. i was intimidated by this...im only 5'8, 5'9 MAX. boy was i wrong, i should have had more confidence in my game, thinking back, i MIGHT have been able to number close her with my true intentins of fucking the shit out of her...i know im not a PUA yet, but i do think that i have good enough game to pull ass on a consistent basis, i just need to believe! next time, i will game her as if i would game any other chick and see what happens...
2. i failed to kino escalate and set a sexual frame. nobodys fault but mine.
3. i was continually blown out by some other dudes, but hey she did buy PP and I a shot!

im sure there were lots of other things i did wrong, but shit, its 11 am!! i didnt do as well as i would like because most of inner game issues, it was nobody's fault but mine. i will continue to sarge and i will continue to iimprove...

any opinions from anyone last night? i would love the criticism.

ALMOST forgot, funniest moment of the night goes out to Bull Run. keep in mind, we started drinking at like 6ish, so at Blackfinn, he puts out his cigarette in his nearly empty drink...then a few minutes later, unknowingly (i assume he forgot because he was probably drunk), he finishes off the drink, with the cigarette but in it!! ahh...good times...

[Guest]

yea i saw some of your interactions with HBfries..shes was def. into you...MASSIVE IOIs as she was kinoing you like crazy...it was a matter of time before you k closed her or atleast n-closed her..but its all good that you didnt..the important thing is that oyu opened her and she came back to you and had some good kino..you did good bro

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funny thing, hbshorty is a kindergarten teacher and hb8 teaches 9th grade algebra..

..i always wanted to have nasty dirty sex with a teacher (hot one that is)....

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teacher are my weakness. Its an in joke. They are always like "why is that funny??"

[Guest]

good job prodigy, sounds like you had fun and a great night!

from my expierence, everytime I have made out with a girl in a bar it hasn't gone anywhere. I think it's because they feel slutty and they think all you want them for is sex. So it's probably a good thing you didn't k close her (number would be better) I don't kiss girls in bars or clubs anymore, it doesn't help get you to your end result.

anyway, props for a great night.

[Guest]

sounds like a fun night. wish i was there, but i was at zaza sarging solo. i was disappointed by the crowd, not as packed as usual.

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Deff a fun night...

Green-dress just added me on facebook and....well, it's just a shame to see a 6.0 face matched with a cute little body like that.

Looks like it's time to whip out the old Kroger bag!

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Deff a fun night...

Green-dress just added me on facebook and....well, it's just a shame to see a 6.0 face matched with a cute little body like that.

Looks like it's time to whip out the old Kroger bag!
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LOL, gotta love the brown bag special. Speaking of weird girls, remember that blonde that we opened that I thought was really hot and she had a super deep voice? Awkward!

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Was a good night...

Got scammed out of a drink for the first time in YEARS. Totally crushed my momentum...

Heyoooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo!!!!!!!!

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[quote1236638308=AlphaMo]
Deff a fun night...

Green-dress just added me on facebook and....well, it's just a shame to see a 6.0 face matched with a cute little body like that.

Looks like it's time to whip out the old Kroger bag!
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haha thats funny as hell! i hope she dances better than hbshorty...