Sargin' OKC with fenix, carmel, and the okc lair boys

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So Carmel held his dance seminar friday and was having a house warming party in OKC sunday. I wanted to go to both but it just wasn't good timing to get there Friday -- glad I didn't as it was a fun night all around friday first hitting jaguars and playing with strippers, then the cabana meetup, then sarging at sherlocks and winging finesse with a couple of nice lookin' asian women (and several of you know how I feel about those ;) ).

Since everyone else in Dallas were either busy or too big of pussies to come with us, it was just me and Fenix ;) The ride up wasn't bad at all although we got a bit lost finding Carmel's new place. He was gracious enough to let us stay at his place (thanks!) Carmel is a cool guy -- very laid back, social and always willing to give help with game. We went to a place called Citywalk which is like Citystreets in FW (multi-club). He got us some REAL VIP treatment - right in past the line with no cover. We first hit all the DJ booths and talked to the DJs -- our social proof at one of the DJ booths got us free jello shots (hurray!) -- Carmel then introed us to a bartender he knew in one of the clubs and all night long we were getting drinks twice the size of everyone else and I know I got at least one or two drinks for free. Carmel knows how to do it right -- working the clubs like him is definitely something I'm going to work on in the future. Got in a couple sets with carmel as we made the rounds but nothing serious. Hung out in the hip hop section for a bit -- Carmel tried to get me to open a cougar that was probably around 10 years older than me (i'm 37) - she was ok for her age but not really my type at all and I hadn't hit the required alcohol level to feel up to that so I passed. Fenix opened a reasonably hot asian chick apparently to warm her up for me... next time he saw her he said I should go open her... at the time she had her back completely turned at a window and I didn't want to come up behind her all creepy -- as soon as she turned she walked away I casually followed to approach her when the opportunity arose but somehow she got a bit ahead of me, turned a corner and was gone. Weird.

A bit later ended up meeting back up with the guys in between a couple of the clubs in a little bar section where there was a large set of girls all the guys were talking to different targets and introducing themselves - I got opened by a black fat chick with ginormous titties named Shirelle who practically screamed she was ready to fuck. I considered it mainly because I've had this thing lately about wanting to get together with a black chick because i never have but I'm just not into fatties these days even tho I don't need'em to be spinners (although that's my preferred body type) -- if she were about 50 lbs lighter I probably would've gone for it. Wandered off and never saw her again the rest of the night. In the upstairs lounge I was checking out the dance floor below from the window and a mixed 2 set came up to the same table I was at - my read of them was that they were bf-gf so for about 30 seconds standing there didn't really say anything but then was like fuck it why not be friendly so talked to them for a minute, then saw the asian chick down below standing next to the dance floor looking like she was waiting for someone to get her out there, so I 3-seconded that shit and headed downstairs. I was pretty drunk at this point and didn't really have any good plan going in I just opened her with 'are you as bored as you look?' because she looked bored out of her mind... i don't remember what she said but something about having to go somewhere or move or something and basically just walked off on me - blown out! lol -- at that point i was getting to a pretty drunken state and the blowout took me out of wanting to open sets so i chilled in the karoake bar for about 15 min then it was time to leave.

Next day we got stuff ready for Omar's house warming party... wasn't sure how I was going to make it through yesterday I've been missing sleep all week and lost more the previous night no sleeping in we were up before 9... somehow I made it til people started showing up (luckily late). Met Sal without realizing it because I had forgotten his first name then realized later who he was. Saw Sonshyne who I'd only seen briefly before at the seminar in the summer time. Met several other guys from the OKC lair. Sadly no women showed to the party, so we decided to go hit bars. We went to a place called Edna's that is somewhat famous and I had some drink they invented called a lunchbox, which actually got me a reasonably nice little lift considering i was on a full stomach and just had one. The place was dead though when we got there one 3 set of girls and a mixed set with 1 girl and 3 dudes... the 3 set left pretty quickly after we got there and after we all finished our lunchboxes, sonshine left to go hook up with an FB... Sal was going to head out but we convinced him to try Baker St. Grill with us before heading out. So it's me, fenix, sal, carmel and another ok guy named blake (don't remember handle). When we get there it's pretty dead 3 sets but what do you expect early on a sunday? We open the set nearest us at the bar -- they're pretty friendly and having a few drinks. Blake and sal end up going into the 2 set at the front of the bar - sal later said the girl he was working on was just not giving him anything to work with at all. Carmel and sal later opened the other set at the bar on our right which I informed them had been offering up drunk girl mating calls. I really didn't feel like sarging at all because I was so beat at this point I would've been asleep in a couple minutes had i laid down, so wasn't really interested in the drunk girls (who i also could tell right off were loud ignant drunk bitches -- definitely no time for those). So at this point I'm on my own at the bar - one of the girls from the 1st set reopened me so I figured I'd chat with her for a bit... worked on body language a bit more... my big sticking point at the moment is really just applying the knowledge I have in set - coming from my social anxiety background, just vibing and maintaining conversations has been a big step for me that I'm just now really getting the hang of - I'm only now getting to the point where I am starting to work in better body language, push pull, teasing, etc etc. Anyway nothing really exciting from this set... it was obvious to me the 2 girls were out drinking on a sunday and waiting to be picked up by the right guys, and we were not the only guys trying. I saw a couple of guys come in and work them with obvious pua body language earlier... I actually feel if I had had more energy I could've gotten a lot farther with her, probably a # close but I just wasn't feeling it. She wasn't the hottest but not bad looking... definitely within my bangable standards, although not near as hot as the girl she was with who kind of looked like a brunette britney spears to me -- nice ass and big ol titties. I really can't believe some of the guys weren't hitting on her more - she didn't give me near the IOIs as the other one tho so I didn't really engage her much -- if I had been trying to work the set I definitely would've tho if only to make sure my target's friend was ok with me. Just did not give a fuck last night though.

So around 10:30 to 11 a lot more women start coming in... a 7-set of 3 guys and 4 asians - you know I was watching that one and at one point I actually did play some eye contact game with one of the girls who had turned towards the bar but never caught her turning back after or saw them away from their table to get her outside of the group -- I probably would've made an effort to overcome my tiredness for her ;) a group of reasonably hot 30 somethings started flowing in and turned into a large set... we though ok things are picking up!!! Then their husbands & boyfriends start standing out... lame. At this point, Carmel gets blown out of his set with the 2 bitchy drunk girls when a couple of wannabe puas come hit on them with canned lines and routines. Carmel was pissed off at that and we decided to head home at that point...

Got up at at 3:45am to head home after about 4 hrs sleep... back in Dallas now and trying to make it through the day without falling asleep.

Have decided Mon/Thu/Fri/Sat are going to be mandatory sarge nights for me.. except for tonight -- tonight I am probably going to go home and pass out. OK, well I *MAY* hit jaguars on the way home just for shits and giggles if i'm not dead asleep by then -- Mon/Fri are my official jag sarge days ;) Working on becoming a regular there and building up a social circle there - already have a couple of friends there and have pissed off some strippers who can't stand that I won't be their payday lol - they're not the focus of my game but banging a stripper and knowing how to work a club is on my list of goals that i'm working ;) i have no social anxiety with strippers it's kind of ironic... the hottest stripper in the world can come over and sit and I have no issues engaging her and playing games... going up to reasonably attractive women cold in bars -- still an issue to be overcome lol, but getting better all the time

this is the first weekend of sarging really I think I could see the way to/visualize becoming a much better pua - before it was just a concept and something I wanted to do... now I can see how I will get there, even if I have a LOOONG way to go and a lot of practicing to get up to where some of the guys here are.

Pickup of the weekend -- Finesse - you worked it buddy, and I learned a lot just from seeing the way you interact in set. Finding out the other things going on outside of plain sight from you was also an eye opener ;) Good job -- that 2+ hour set was definitely the longest I ever worked in field and helped me identify quite a few areas needing improvement -- some things I can easily change next time and some things that will require a bit more work

I learned a LOT this weekend -- and had a really good time. Now if I can just recover ;)