LR: Sleek loses his virginity

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I'm turning 23 this Sep 23... so it's almost 23 years I've been a virgin. (I'm still 22, so it counts as losing a virginity at 22 lol)
I've been talking to this cute girl outside of state. We've been texting and eventually started to talk on the phone.
She and I decided to meet up in Dallas area hotel on 15th which is today.

let me just tell you one thang... I was terrible at sex!! OMG dudes in porn makes it so easy to fuck a girl and make them happy. I had no idea what the fuck I was doing even though I watched countless porns. It was totally different just watching and actually doing. I feel fuckin terrible coz this girl is a hottie!! I felt lucky, but my lack of skill was not a good thang. I made so many mistakes and I couldn't even find an entrance on my own. She had to guide my penis... You guys were so right about fuckin less attractive girls at first then slowly move onto hott girls with experiences. I feel so fuckin terrible. Oh and I guess condom desenstized me or something, I kept on getting soft during sex. While I was inside her, it didn't feel as good as I thought it would. Her vagina was so tight, it was hurting my penis. I kept tryin to force her to swallow and do anal, but she wouldn't give it up. I guess it was my mistake to keep tryin to push her to do these thangs.

When I lose my virginity, I was expecting to have flowers blossom all over the room and stars are shiney on the roof. Flowers fallin and beautiful song would play... but sex felt like a work. I mean I loved making out with her, touching her, suckin on her breasts, and such (btw, she has a C-cup natural... such a nice breasts!!!). I just had no idea what to do. I feel so terrible for such a terrible sex. I think towards end, I somehow hurt her little bit while I fingered her. She said it was ok, but I feel really shitty now coz of that. We did talk about her coming back to Texas to get with me and such, but after all this terrible shit I doubt she would come back.

Anyways my virginity has been lost just like that. Part of me regrets having sex, but the other part of me loved it. I donno why. I need to stop jackin off to porns and such coz porns give u an idea that sex is so easy. I really need to learn and practice to get better at it. Next time, I don't want to be so terrible... btw, she wasn't good at oral sex... and you guys were right!! Hot girls are bad at blowjobs. They don't even try very hard. I mean it felt good but she wasn't really tryin and wouldn't suck for long at all.

I am wondering if u guys know what I can do to improve my sex skillz. I need all the help I can get!!!
(btw, even though, I sucked at sex soooo bad, she was really wet. I mean how is it even possible?
She said I was good for a virgin, but I doubt she is telling the truth. She did have unusually nice personality for a hot girl though.
Anyways this is my babble bout my first sex and how terrible I was at sex. I really need help!! please guys!!



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So we started to play "strip chess" Of course, she lost and I got her butt naked.
She tells me it's not fair that I have all my cloth on, but she is naked. I even the odds then it just went from there.
I was gettin tired fast from sex coz I couldn't get any sleep last night becasue I knew I was gonna have sex with her. I was so excited, I couldn't sleep til 5 am and woke up around 8 am. I went straight to her after small breakfast. Of course, I was tired before sex and sex wasn't good. We went at it for a while then we decided to go eat. It was first time, I was gettin so much attention from dudes coz of HER. Everywhere I went, even like 60 year old dudes were checkin her out. I just couldn't believe how much she was into me. I mean she has really nice breasts and butt. (altho she was insecure bout her butt... I don't even know why) She is beautiful. I just felt lucky. At the restaurant, she was the hot spot from all the employees. I mean these dudes were obviously checkin her out. For the first time, I felt really threatened by other guys. I loved it when she didn't make me pay for whole thing. I paid 20 and she paid bout 8 dollars. She tells me she hates it when guys have to pay for everything.
We were so stuffed that we decided to go to the mall to walk it off.
Of course... I was getting eyes from everywhere... I mean every single guys. I felt like I was obliged to protect her or something. We browsed quite a bit then went off to hotel. We took a little nap (i think it was mistake that i initiated to take a nap for a bit coz she got all sleepy from it lol) We still went at it in a dark. Anyways towards the end, I somehow hurt her with my finger. I feel like a douche for that. She has to wake up early tomorrow to catch the plane. So she was goin to sleep. I will just pack and go so she can go to sleep. She insisted that she stay up and say good bye to me. I left. I feel so sorry for her for terrible sex... I feel so bad!!! :(

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I sort of want to put a pic of her on here to show yall how HOTT she is... but I like her and respect her so I will not... OMG I still feel guilty!!!! AHHHHHHH

[Guest]

It's completely normal for it to not be very good -- for either of you. Which is why, to save it for "someone special" you're not really doing her any favors. Just the opposite.

Don't worry about it, everyone goes through it, and most women will be really understanding. Nobody will expect you to be a pro right away.

And also don't worry about being almost 23.. it's not a big deal. I was older than you are now when I lost my virginity. I know it's easy to think of it as some measure of masculinity or adulthood, but it's not. Everyone has different experiences and is in a different point in their life.


One thing that may help: always keep your fingernails very very short.

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Congrads man.

It's nice that you finally got that out of your system. From here things should be a lot easier going forward.

I'm sure your next time will go much smoother. Also if you can get a girl who you can sleep with multiple times that will really help your skills.

Also if you ever interview girls they will tell you they almost never actually finger themselves. They just rub on the clit. So learn to master the clit.

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Vector: I feel kinda attached to her after all this... Fuck... I know I shouldn't be. I like her that is why I partly regret... coz it feels like I gave it up so soon and easily. I am total noob, aren't I? lol

PC: thx pc for advices! I can understand a little better you and other experienced guys' feelings towards girls you guys had deep connection with now... My goal was to fuck as many girls as possible and treat them like shit.. but obviously, I knew very little bout sex and relationships......

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Vector: I feel kinda attached to her after all this... Fuck... I know I shouldn't be. I like her that is why I partly regret... coz it feels like I gave it up so soon and easily. I am total noob, aren't I? lol

PC: thx pc for advices! I can understand a little better you and other experienced guys' feelings towards girls you guys had deep connection with now... My goal was to fuck as many girls as possible and treat them like shit.. but obviously, I knew very little bout sex and relationships......
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This doesn't make any sense to me. You shouldn't be feeling attached? You like her.. why not?

You gave it up, and [i]because you like her[/i] you feel you gave it too easily? Meaning you're not supposed to have sex with women you actually like? WTF?

And treating a girl like shit should NEVER BE A GOAL. It might be a [i]means[/i] to get what you want, and if so i would hope you would use it sparingly. But it should never be a goal.

I don't know what's going on in that head of yours but I don't think you're just a 'noob' -- it sounds like some of your priorities and values are kinda messed up...

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I was just mad when I found out all the truth bout women. They would cheat and lie. I always thought women were innocent and good. I had this ideal image of women... until I learned pickup. It revealed the whole truth bout them and how fucked up they could be. Pick up taught me that this world is not a nice place. I was angry at women. I think I worded it wrong. Sorry if I offended you in any way. I was angry at girls because I learned the truth (such as fellow puas fuckin married girls or engaged girls etc) However, not all women are same... I was missing lots pieces. I have learned my lesson today.

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Sleek! Congratulations bro!!

Man that's fucking cool as shit. Welcome to the world of people who are getting laid!

Hey man, don't get too hung up on your performance. Just go out there and fuck some more and you'll do great. I'm buying you a beer next time i see you out.

So how hot was this girl?

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haha grimm, thx lol
She was very hot. :P

btw, any of you guys have good techniques to use for sex?
that would make sex more fun or easier or somethin like that.

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haha it's not really that complicated man. OK i think first of all, just learn to RELAX! sex will be MUCH more enjoyable for both of you if you aren't concerned about your performance and you're just "banging away" you know? for example, did you know you can lose your boner just by being nervous?

second thing is - ALWAYS LEAD.

third thing - do things other than just fuck her. like pull her hair, make noises, whisper shit in her ear, so on.

fourth thing - clit. her clit is if you put your two fingers on her labia, it's the hard knobby thing in the middle. if you stimulate her clit with your hand during sex or when warming up for sex she will probably cum. she'll start wriggling her hips around and shit, that's when you know you're close, just keep stimulating away and before you know it POW!! If you insert your fingers like right when she's gonna cum some girls fucking LOVE that.

Another thing I like to do is bring her to a point where she's about to cum with my fingers, then start fucking her. That's SO FUCKING HOT because then you're fucking her to an orgasm.

I could go on and on... but just have fun and go out and fuck some more man.