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bad night. pissed off post. edit.

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Hey man we've all been there. I didn't do shit at blackFinn on friday. You just had a bad night. Most guys don't even try.

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Thanks. I'm never sarging drunk again.

NEVER.

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I'm right there with you on the bad night.

It just seemed like nothing worked. I couldn't carry a decent conversation. No attraction...blah

Ohh and I got retartedly hammered. And somehow I am not hung over. I don't get it.

Wish you wouldn't have edited your post though...I'm sure that would have been funny to read.

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come on grimm, you got to stop deleting those early morning posts. :) agree with PC, i bet would have been fun to read...

so what went down?

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My guess is man sex.

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I deleted the post cause self-pity is super lame. I was on here bitching about a bad night of sarging, but like Rembrandt said we all have bad nights. So I plan on manning up and getting back out there.

Well I'm sober now but yeah I'm still bothered like hell by last night. You wanna know? Last night sucked hardcore. It was like the cursed night of doom.

I got blown out of EVERY single set i tried to run! I can not sarge drunk.

So I deleted just about every girl's number out of my phone while sitting in my car sobering up in a cloud of gloom and frustration. I figured it like this - if I can't pick who i want when i want then i don't want to settle for some shit i did yesterday.


PC i'm afraid tuesday is probably free now...

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Self-Pity --- Maybe
Super Lame --- Probably Not

I think the things you write when you are pissed off can help you the most. Your insight is phenominal at these times. You know what you don't like and therefore know what you do want.

Most people don't write about their down times(Myself Included). This is a mistake. If anything I would write what you wrote on some paper and keep it for yourself.

Reflection...

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lol now u know what i mean? it's impossible to sarge drunk... u come off extremely sleazy and creepy when you are drunk like rest of the guys at the bars/clubs... I thought u learned ur lesson from my experience back at BF before last monday. :P it's all good tho. keep workin on it.

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PC,
You're right. In this case it's like a little cycle of motivation that keeps me fueled. I get pissed off, that motivates me to do better, then next time I go out I nail it.

Then I'll go out again, think I'm hot shit and get complacent, therefore fuck up, get pissed off, and the glorious cycle starts all over again. I only really post about and learn from the bad nights. I don't know why.


Sleek,

Sleazy and creepy, that just about sums it up. I agree with you Sleek. But here's some more. Here's why I fucked up every set.

1.) Drunk slurry words, incoherent thoughts.

2.) Leaning WAYYY in to deliver direct opener like "HEEEEEEYY...baby. I just had to had to come and muh muh meet you" like 2 inches from her face.

3.) Shit tests. I don't have much experience with them but for some reason all the girls last night were shit testing me to hell and high water.

They were trying to screen out the "player" guys, in retrospect.

Being drunk I was completely oblivious and went off on my own tangents that qualified me squarely as a player.

Creepy and sleazy. Yes that's about it.