Field Report- Never underestimate the power of honesty

So about week ago I'm out at Sherlock with Vector and some of the other guys. We've been opening up sets left and right and so it's already been a good night and I'm feeling pretty bold. I spot a cute little HB 7.5 looking bored as hell by this dude trying to game her and her friend. I point to her and mouth the words, "I need to ask you something". She seems intrigued, walks over and asks me what I said. I say to her, "I need to ask you something- you looked pretty bored talking to that dude and I was just wondering what the top three things you look for in a guy?"
She's a little surprised, but I hold the frame so she starts giving the normal bullshit, sense of humor, good looks, blah, blah, blah...
Then she asks me what I look for in a girl.
I tell her probably the most important thing I look for is sensuality. I tell her I'm a pretty passionate guy and if the girl doesn't have the ability to just let go and enjoy her body then she won't last me. I tell her that I think sex is a really important part of a relationship and I want to be with a girl who enjoys it as much as I do.
She just looks at me- trying to get a read- is this bullshit or is actually true? Finally she says wow- that was incredibly honest. Bam- got her!
The rest of the interaction flows from there and I number close.
So the following Tuesday (last tuesday) I send her a text message. I tell her I want to get together with her again so we can chat it up and I ask her what she's doing Saturday afternoon. She indicates mild interest and asks me what I have in mind. I send her the following text:
"I want to pick up some art for my room- you can tag along and give me your opinion"
She tells me she's in.
[now keep in mind- I've already set the frame that good sex is very important to me and Im very confident expressing that. Now, in asking to buy art for my room, I've built in a natural progression for the date to end up back in my room...where my bed is]
To cut to the chase, everything went according to plan. She came over, we went to target, picked up some art, and ended up naked in my bed after some token LMR. I probably could have f-closed but I'm concentrating on filling up the pipeline right now so an f-close can wait till Day 2. That said, she was very eager to prove the she can be that girl that enjoys getting it on. Nice.
Leonydas
She's a little surprised, but I hold the frame so she starts giving the normal bullshit, sense of humor, good looks, blah, blah, blah...
Then she asks me what I look for in a girl.
I tell her probably the most important thing I look for is sensuality. I tell her I'm a pretty passionate guy and if the girl doesn't have the ability to just let go and enjoy her body then she won't last me. I tell her that I think sex is a really important part of a relationship and I want to be with a girl who enjoys it as much as I do.
She just looks at me- trying to get a read- is this bullshit or is actually true? Finally she says wow- that was incredibly honest. Bam- got her!
The rest of the interaction flows from there and I number close.
So the following Tuesday (last tuesday) I send her a text message. I tell her I want to get together with her again so we can chat it up and I ask her what she's doing Saturday afternoon. She indicates mild interest and asks me what I have in mind. I send her the following text:
"I want to pick up some art for my room- you can tag along and give me your opinion"
She tells me she's in.
[now keep in mind- I've already set the frame that good sex is very important to me and Im very confident expressing that. Now, in asking to buy art for my room, I've built in a natural progression for the date to end up back in my room...where my bed is]
To cut to the chase, everything went according to plan. She came over, we went to target, picked up some art, and ended up naked in my bed after some token LMR. I probably could have f-closed but I'm concentrating on filling up the pipeline right now so an f-close can wait till Day 2. That said, she was very eager to prove the she can be that girl that enjoys getting it on. Nice.
Leonydas