First day 2 (FR)

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ok, this is the first day 1 (day2??) with a girl I've gamed (day game) I think it went well could've been a lot better but y'know stepping stones...

well...I didn't have much time nor an ID so I had to come up with something to do, so all I could think of was bowling/laser tag at Main Event. throughout the night, I had plenty of opportunity to neg/kino and use a splash of cocky/funny. after leaving there, she invited me over to her apartment to watch movies (sounds good, right? but I'm not able to take advantage of it) she's a huge pothead with a hooka and bongs. I'm not a smoker, but I don't mind if other people are... (hell I'm black, the majority of my family are potheads) we watched Harold and Kumar goes to White Castle, and then I guess since I didn't make a move, she called her friends over and we played Guitar Hero and Mario party. I didn't know anyone there so when they went talking about Paul and Melissa's Marriage and whatnot, I was left sitting quiet (I'm guessing a PUA thing to do was to change the subject to something he can talk about?? I couldn't think of anything...) anyways, it ended with everyone falling asleep and me going home. I probably coulda F-closed if I wasn't such a dunce *shrugs*

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Call me when you're free bro, and we'll work on your banter. If you go to this point, you're doing good.

By the way...fuck Paul and Melissa. They're marriage will fail....lololoolololol

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Sounds like things went well so don't be too hard on yourself. Just note in the future escalation is usually your friend. You see what happens when you don't.

Being invited back to her place is usually a sign that you should escalate in a rapid manner. That is why the kino earlier was so important. It allows you the opportunity to escalate in a normal unakward fashion.

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Being invited back to her place is usually a sign that you should escalate in a rapid manner. That is why the kino earlier was so important. It allows you the opportunity to escalate in a normal unakward fashion.
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Agree.

There is no way you would have been invited back in such an obvious way if not. Women want... wait... NEED you to escalate. She put you in as painfully obvious situation for you to do so, and you didn't take advantage of it. Sounds like you did a good job to get to the point to get the invite...Next time you are with her, you need to step up to bat in 'the show' ;)

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Never underestimate the next morning shag either. Say you realize you f-ed up the night game....grab her hand, lead her to the bedroom to crash, then if it's not a purely drunk thing, then very often an early morning session is easy after night of spooning and 'cuddling' lol..