FR: Why drinking is bad
Posted: Thu May 08, 2008 2:25 pmAs I was in an LTR not too long ago, i have a lot of rust that i need to work out. Lately I have been on a hired guns kick. Its fun to hook up with the girl that everyone drools over. So we went to BDubs last night, thats buffalo wild wings for those that arent familiar and sit at the bar. It was a kareoke night and a lot of people were out.
So the target for this evening is HB Short Bartender herein reffered to as HB Shorty. I start off on commenting on how short she is, of which really hits hard so i recover a lil and say you know what they say, good things come in small packages. Just as she begins to smile after a slight pause i let the last of the sentence out "sometimes." and get hit in the shoulder.
Before I actually start gaming hired guns i like to take a min and calibrate what is work behavior and what isnt work behavior. So I watch for a lil bit to see how much time she spends with customers how flirty she is and her manerisims. After what I feel is adequite learning of her actions I then procede to neg her a couple more times just to get her out of her element.
I then run a lil psych routine and tell her shes having a bad day and she says no im not and takes 5-10 min to tell me why she isnt having a bad day. Then I do a couple DHV stories and we start talking about movies. Idle crap goes on for a bit and i disqualify her when she comes too close two to three times. I still feel that she is too disconected so i try to take a min to think of my next move, its at this point i can tell im not thinking quite as fast as i should and the drinks need to stop flowing in order for me to do this properly.
She comes back we talk a bit more, my wing gives her the old you two would never get a long....your way too alike. After a lil bit she tries to isolate me, and we step outside for a cigarette. BTW my lungs are still kicking my ass today for smoking that cigarette, NASTY! So as we are outside smoking im thinking man im a wreck, i need to kino a lil bit. Just as that thought is about to come out my mouth in some form the other bartender comes out for a smoke and i stop. I ignore her for a min and talk to the guy which seems to get under her skin.
Then when she comes back I start messing with her some more. At this point im using stupid stuff just to field test it. I had figured i was done and let it be. Later on she sings some kareoke which she told me she NEVER does at work, when i asked her to. When she brings me my check i put a lil letter on it that she thinks is hillarious and she sits at our table.
she is scribling on a napkin and instead of saying what i wanted to say it came out wrong, i was thinking to say hey you cant have my phone number its not that easy...but ill take yours and think about calling you...instead it came out as 555-1212 you can only call me between the hours of 1-5am. She laughed and stayed to talk but i was so drunk and my wing was singing and i was cheering him on i kinda ignored her and she eventually walked away.
I found her again and chatted it up for a few but left it at that as i know where to find her and im friends with some of the other bartenders so i know i will run itno her again. I know its pretty boring and nothing happen. First mistake i was drinking and not acting right but still would like to hear some constructive comments.
So the target for this evening is HB Short Bartender herein reffered to as HB Shorty. I start off on commenting on how short she is, of which really hits hard so i recover a lil and say you know what they say, good things come in small packages. Just as she begins to smile after a slight pause i let the last of the sentence out "sometimes." and get hit in the shoulder.
Before I actually start gaming hired guns i like to take a min and calibrate what is work behavior and what isnt work behavior. So I watch for a lil bit to see how much time she spends with customers how flirty she is and her manerisims. After what I feel is adequite learning of her actions I then procede to neg her a couple more times just to get her out of her element.
I then run a lil psych routine and tell her shes having a bad day and she says no im not and takes 5-10 min to tell me why she isnt having a bad day. Then I do a couple DHV stories and we start talking about movies. Idle crap goes on for a bit and i disqualify her when she comes too close two to three times. I still feel that she is too disconected so i try to take a min to think of my next move, its at this point i can tell im not thinking quite as fast as i should and the drinks need to stop flowing in order for me to do this properly.
She comes back we talk a bit more, my wing gives her the old you two would never get a long....your way too alike. After a lil bit she tries to isolate me, and we step outside for a cigarette. BTW my lungs are still kicking my ass today for smoking that cigarette, NASTY! So as we are outside smoking im thinking man im a wreck, i need to kino a lil bit. Just as that thought is about to come out my mouth in some form the other bartender comes out for a smoke and i stop. I ignore her for a min and talk to the guy which seems to get under her skin.
Then when she comes back I start messing with her some more. At this point im using stupid stuff just to field test it. I had figured i was done and let it be. Later on she sings some kareoke which she told me she NEVER does at work, when i asked her to. When she brings me my check i put a lil letter on it that she thinks is hillarious and she sits at our table.
she is scribling on a napkin and instead of saying what i wanted to say it came out wrong, i was thinking to say hey you cant have my phone number its not that easy...but ill take yours and think about calling you...instead it came out as 555-1212 you can only call me between the hours of 1-5am. She laughed and stayed to talk but i was so drunk and my wing was singing and i was cheering him on i kinda ignored her and she eventually walked away.
I found her again and chatted it up for a few but left it at that as i know where to find her and im friends with some of the other bartenders so i know i will run itno her again. I know its pretty boring and nothing happen. First mistake i was drinking and not acting right but still would like to hear some constructive comments.