[QUOTE=grimm1111;37597]The second you hit the "edit" button in your mind and don't say something you actually think or feel because of how other people will react, you stop being the alpha male.
Always always act out of your own intention.[/QUOTE]
i dont agree with this statement. most alpha males are tact. think of all the high status males. politicians. atheletes. ceo's. wealthy businessmen, etc.
they made an intelligent decision to use a filter...
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by Guest » Sun Sep 12, 2010 3:03 pm
[QUOTE=grimm1111;37597]The second you hit the "edit" button in your mind and don't say something you actually think or feel because of how other people will react, you stop being the alpha male.
Always always act out of your own intention.[/QUOTE]
Grimm, you hit the edit button or x your posts more than anyone. If you want to edit your post due to spelling, grammar, or because you said something totally stupid, that is fine, that will not make you less alpha.
I think you misunderstand what "alpha" is, but most in the community have a wrong idea of what it means.
The point is that an "alpha" would never get mad over one girl not texting him back, because he has so many options, that minor shit like that wouldn't phase him. The beta is needy, emotional, clingy, and is lucky to get what he can, thus when one slips away, it is a great loss to him. It's basic textbook pickup.
Always always act out of your own intention.[/QUOTE]
Grimm, you hit the edit button or x your posts more than anyone. If you want to edit your post due to spelling, grammar, or because you said something totally stupid, that is fine, that will not make you less alpha.
I think you misunderstand what "alpha" is, but most in the community have a wrong idea of what it means.
The point is that an "alpha" would never get mad over one girl not texting him back, because he has so many options, that minor shit like that wouldn't phase him. The beta is needy, emotional, clingy, and is lucky to get what he can, thus when one slips away, it is a great loss to him. It's basic textbook pickup.
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by Guest » Sun Sep 12, 2010 3:07 pm
You guys are talking about 2 different things. Behaviour dealing with emotions, and standing up for yourself and your point of view.
Passion from a man should show an unwavering protection and a great deal of power.
Passion is needed in small doses. Deciding what and when to be passionate is where people often go awry. There should be very few things that makes a man come unhinged, but those things should be so important, that others have no choice but to agree that that man was right in coming unglued. These are matters of principle. Concrete, black and white, no ifs ands or buts, matters of principle that all people recognize and agree to.
Hitting the edit button in your head does not show weakness or less masculinity. It shows control and an underlying selfless profession to the world. It shows people, you are in conrol of yourself and thus people should look to you for leadership.
Which brings me to actions. Always acting on your own intentions becomes a dangerous game of selfish actions. A man who is truly acting in the relm of true masculinity isn't afraid that people sponge off them. A man perservers. A man looks at the facts and makes a plan of action. This is something I have learned by dealing with me ex baby mama. I'm sure all of you have seen my high and mostly low points with this matter.
We must recognize that women while inevitably latch onto us somehow. We must therefore act as a whale does with those little fish that hitch rides on them.
Passion from a man should show an unwavering protection and a great deal of power.
Passion is needed in small doses. Deciding what and when to be passionate is where people often go awry. There should be very few things that makes a man come unhinged, but those things should be so important, that others have no choice but to agree that that man was right in coming unglued. These are matters of principle. Concrete, black and white, no ifs ands or buts, matters of principle that all people recognize and agree to.
Hitting the edit button in your head does not show weakness or less masculinity. It shows control and an underlying selfless profession to the world. It shows people, you are in conrol of yourself and thus people should look to you for leadership.
Which brings me to actions. Always acting on your own intentions becomes a dangerous game of selfish actions. A man who is truly acting in the relm of true masculinity isn't afraid that people sponge off them. A man perservers. A man looks at the facts and makes a plan of action. This is something I have learned by dealing with me ex baby mama. I'm sure all of you have seen my high and mostly low points with this matter.
We must recognize that women while inevitably latch onto us somehow. We must therefore act as a whale does with those little fish that hitch rides on them.
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by Guest » Sun Sep 12, 2010 3:38 pm
How are politicians and businessmen sexy? They have power and money, and still not really sexy. Politics bore girls. Tell therm you're an accountant... Yawn. Who is sexy? Rock stars. Movie stars. And they come unhinged all the time. Go watch Oliver Stone's "the doors.". Jim Morrison - that guy gets laid. I rest my case.
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by Guest » Sun Sep 12, 2010 3:54 pm
[QUOTE=grimm1111;37601]How are politicians and businessmen sexy? They have power and money, and still not really sexy. Politics bore girls. Tell therm you're an accountant... Yawn. Who is sexy? Rock stars. Movie stars. And they come unhinged all the time. Go watch Oliver Stone's "the doors.". Jim Morrison - that guy gets laid. I rest my case.[/QUOTE]
never said they were sexy, i said alpha. two completely different adjectives...
never said they were sexy, i said alpha. two completely different adjectives...
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by Guest » Sun Sep 12, 2010 4:09 pm
[QUOTE=grimm1111;37601]How are politicians and businessmen sexy? They have power and money, and still not really sexy. Politics bore girls. Tell therm you're an accountant... Yawn. Who is sexy? Rock stars. Movie stars. And they come unhinged all the time. Go watch Oliver Stone's "the doors.". Jim Morrison - that guy gets laid. I rest my case.[/QUOTE]
The problem is you think just having money is "alpha".
Money usually brings power and the ability to provide but they aren't mutually exclusive.
It also depends on what type of relationship you are after.
The problem is you think just having money is "alpha".
Money usually brings power and the ability to provide but they aren't mutually exclusive.
It also depends on what type of relationship you are after.
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by Guest » Sun Sep 12, 2010 4:37 pm
[QUOTE=grimm1111]How are politicians and businessmen sexy? They have power and money, and still not really sexy. Politics bore girls. Tell therm you're an accountant... Yawn. Who is sexy? Rock stars. Movie stars. And they come unhinged all the time. Go watch Oliver Stone's "the doors.". Jim Morrison - that guy gets laid. I rest my case. [/QUOTE]
Power, Fame, and the use of money to simulate power can all trigger attraction switches. They help you dramatically indicate that you are the alpha male. Her thought process will be like so, " He has to be alpha because millions of people know of/listen to/watch him(fame) .....or.... He has to be alpha because all of these people do what he tells them to do/ work for him. (power/money)
When you can trigger enough attraction switches with these ideas, then you are forgiven your drama and emotional stumbles. In fact, they could and in some cases have become part of the fame of the person. Thus being re-purposed to trigger yet more attraction.
However, for normal non- billionaire / non-senator / non-famous Joe Blows, I do not think that it really works like this. That is why you have to demonstrate that you are non-reactive, because your emotional outburst will not be forgiven.
Power, Fame, and the use of money to simulate power can all trigger attraction switches. They help you dramatically indicate that you are the alpha male. Her thought process will be like so, " He has to be alpha because millions of people know of/listen to/watch him(fame) .....or.... He has to be alpha because all of these people do what he tells them to do/ work for him. (power/money)
When you can trigger enough attraction switches with these ideas, then you are forgiven your drama and emotional stumbles. In fact, they could and in some cases have become part of the fame of the person. Thus being re-purposed to trigger yet more attraction.
However, for normal non- billionaire / non-senator / non-famous Joe Blows, I do not think that it really works like this. That is why you have to demonstrate that you are non-reactive, because your emotional outburst will not be forgiven.
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by Guest » Sun Sep 12, 2010 6:48 pm
I can't believe we're actually debating this! So you think being boring and logical is more attractive than showing emotion. Fine, go ahead and keep thinking that, I'm not going to try to convince you of that one. I'm gonna go ahead and surf over to bangboat.com.
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by Guest » Sun Sep 12, 2010 7:34 pm
[QUOTE=grimm1111;37605]I can't believe we're actually debating this! So you think being boring and logical is more attractive than showing emotion. Fine, go ahead and keep thinking that, I'm not going to try to convince you of that one. I'm gonna go ahead and surf over to bangboat.com.[/QUOTE]
Depends on the type of relationship. If you want a quality girl that will stick with you through thick and thin, then what you submit for attraction won't cut it.
Depends on the type of relationship. If you want a quality girl that will stick with you through thick and thin, then what you submit for attraction won't cut it.
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by Guest » Sun Sep 12, 2010 7:37 pm
[QUOTE=grimm1111;37605]I can't believe we're actually debating this! So you think being boring and logical is more attractive than showing emotion. Fine, go ahead and keep thinking that, I'm not going to try to convince you of that one. I'm gonna go ahead and surf over to bangboat.com.[/QUOTE]
You are obviously confused here. Being boring and being emotional are not opposites of each other. You can be boring and be emotional at the same time. Actually, that's usually how it works. Being boring and being interesting are opposites of each other. You can be interesting, and not be emotional.
Being in control of your emotions is alpha (god, that word gets thrown around a lot), being subject to your emotions and letting them control you is beta. A woman does not want an emotional tampon, for that she can look in the mirror or talk to one of her girlfriends. Being too emotional is letting minor things get to you, letting external factors change your state outlook, and crying during the week long marathon of The OC on the soap channel.
The girl is the emotional one in the dynamic, and you are an oak tree. You keep your cool and do not let her influence your state. You are the eye of the storm, you are placid, cool and collected. She is ruled by her emotions, is capricious, and vacillating in what will happen next. You are the ying to her yang. There can not be two of the same.
A MAN who is not in control of his emotions and is overtly emotion, is a man who needs work on his inner game and foundation.
If you still do not believe me, and the 3 other members that have posted here on this, check out David D's 77 laws for Success with Women and Dating. Guess what law #36 is? Control Your Emotions. And #30 is maintain composure.
And P.S. I checked out bangboat.com, and it wasn't that great, I have better porn sites in my bookmarks.
You are obviously confused here. Being boring and being emotional are not opposites of each other. You can be boring and be emotional at the same time. Actually, that's usually how it works. Being boring and being interesting are opposites of each other. You can be interesting, and not be emotional.
Being in control of your emotions is alpha (god, that word gets thrown around a lot), being subject to your emotions and letting them control you is beta. A woman does not want an emotional tampon, for that she can look in the mirror or talk to one of her girlfriends. Being too emotional is letting minor things get to you, letting external factors change your state outlook, and crying during the week long marathon of The OC on the soap channel.
The girl is the emotional one in the dynamic, and you are an oak tree. You keep your cool and do not let her influence your state. You are the eye of the storm, you are placid, cool and collected. She is ruled by her emotions, is capricious, and vacillating in what will happen next. You are the ying to her yang. There can not be two of the same.
A MAN who is not in control of his emotions and is overtly emotion, is a man who needs work on his inner game and foundation.
If you still do not believe me, and the 3 other members that have posted here on this, check out David D's 77 laws for Success with Women and Dating. Guess what law #36 is? Control Your Emotions. And #30 is maintain composure.
And P.S. I checked out bangboat.com, and it wasn't that great, I have better porn sites in my bookmarks.
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