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guys, I feel sort of AFC towards this girl since my first experience. I know I shouldn't... Is there somethin I can do? I feel like I don't want to have sex with other girls all that much...
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Don't let the community tell you what you should feel, or what you should want. If you want to have a girlfriend, that's fine. If you want to have sex with multiple women, that's fine too. It's up to you to decide what you want.
There's nothing AFC about choosing to be with only one woman. Unless it's a choice to settle, for fear of being able to get anyone else, which in your case I am pretty sure is not the case.
Regardless of which choice you make, if you act needy and clingy, and express [i]excessive[/i] interest, it can drive her (or any other woman) away. Some interest and attention is required. Too little attention is bad, and too much attention is also bad. Finding the right level can be difficult because women can sometimes give signals that are inconsistent with where the actual "just right" attention level is. And then your emotions also mess with it.
So watch out for that, and for your own benefit I think you need to clarify what you really want. Otherwise I'd say you're doing just fine.
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by Guest » Wed Sep 24, 2008 6:43 pm
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she grabbed it and stumped all over it! :(
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Yes, you're hurt. I understood that. What I meant was, what did [i]she do[/i] (or not do)?
And what I'm really wondering is whether you're feeling what you're feeling because of something she actually did to you (or didn't do), or if you're feeling what you're feeling because of your own complex of some kind.
she grabbed it and stumped all over it! :(
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Yes, you're hurt. I understood that. What I meant was, what did [i]she do[/i] (or not do)?
And what I'm really wondering is whether you're feeling what you're feeling because of something she actually did to you (or didn't do), or if you're feeling what you're feeling because of your own complex of some kind.
- Guest
by Guest » Wed Sep 24, 2008 9:09 pm
Justice: yes she had 34C natural... It was nice.
Vector: She just kinda stopped responding to me completely not too long ago. So I sent her text saying
"I thought about it, and I think we shouldn't see each other again. It was nice meeting you, and thanks."
She then replies "I hope you had great 23rd. Take care."
That was it. She didn't give a shit. She was so much colder than she seemed or acted when I was with her.
Because if a bitch treats me like that, I am not gonna be nice to her. HOWEVER I became AFC and sent her this message... kinda beggin for her to take me back...
"lol dork! It was a joke! I thought u were dead.
So when are you gonna be here again?"
BIG MISTAKE... No respond again for a while...
so I sent her the final msg explaning that it was my first time and that might be why it was more meaningful to me and had some feelings for her. I told her I know I shouldn't. At the end, I told her we could be friends and she can hook me up with flights when I am travelling...
I feel better now and I should soon get over her. :)
Vector: She just kinda stopped responding to me completely not too long ago. So I sent her text saying
"I thought about it, and I think we shouldn't see each other again. It was nice meeting you, and thanks."
She then replies "I hope you had great 23rd. Take care."
That was it. She didn't give a shit. She was so much colder than she seemed or acted when I was with her.
Because if a bitch treats me like that, I am not gonna be nice to her. HOWEVER I became AFC and sent her this message... kinda beggin for her to take me back...
"lol dork! It was a joke! I thought u were dead.
So when are you gonna be here again?"
BIG MISTAKE... No respond again for a while...
so I sent her the final msg explaning that it was my first time and that might be why it was more meaningful to me and had some feelings for her. I told her I know I shouldn't. At the end, I told her we could be friends and she can hook me up with flights when I am travelling...
I feel better now and I should soon get over her. :)
- Guest
by Guest » Thu Sep 25, 2008 1:06 pm
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[IMG]http://i307.photobucket.com/albums/nn305/SLEEK48/Addy.jpg[/IMG]
She is the one on left. The leopard one...
she broke my heart. :(
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Hey she looks great.
Be a Winner. Be the Survivor with the Winner Attitude.
Plane crashes and you are the only one who survive with everything in tact.
ARE you going to be disappointed and woes is me... why do bad things happen to me?
Or ARE you going to celebrate you survival and WOW what a ride. ( I tapped that and none of you guys did).
It is all a matter of choice and how you want to look at it.
Your thoughts are limited... thinking she is the only one you will ever get.
You just haven't thought of how many other girls are out there... have an abundance thinking, not limited only one thinking.
Yep... it will hurt... she is your first... until you snap out of it... you can't enjoy the abundance out there.
[IMG]http://i307.photobucket.com/albums/nn305/SLEEK48/Addy.jpg[/IMG]
She is the one on left. The leopard one...
she broke my heart. :(
[/quote1222365512]
Hey she looks great.
Be a Winner. Be the Survivor with the Winner Attitude.
Plane crashes and you are the only one who survive with everything in tact.
ARE you going to be disappointed and woes is me... why do bad things happen to me?
Or ARE you going to celebrate you survival and WOW what a ride. ( I tapped that and none of you guys did).
It is all a matter of choice and how you want to look at it.
Your thoughts are limited... thinking she is the only one you will ever get.
You just haven't thought of how many other girls are out there... have an abundance thinking, not limited only one thinking.
Yep... it will hurt... she is your first... until you snap out of it... you can't enjoy the abundance out there.
- Guest
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