hey unclehowie!
yea i loved cuddlin with her. we gazed into each other's eyes. She then was half asleep. I reached my hand under her panties while she was half asleep. She was makin noises. I caressed her butt and thighs. She loved it. Her body was so warm. Soon her face was a little red and I gave her a kiss. I think that was a beautiful moment. :)
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by Guest » Wed Sep 17, 2008 10:56 pm
[quote1221709360=Sleek]
I was just mad when I found out all the truth bout women. They would cheat and lie. I always thought women were innocent and good. I had this ideal image of women... until I learned pickup. It revealed the whole truth bout them and how fucked up they could be. Pick up taught me that this world is not a nice place. I was angry at women. I think I worded it wrong. Sorry if I offended you in any way. I was angry at girls because I learned the truth (such as fellow puas fuckin married girls or engaged girls etc) However, not all women are same... I was missing lots pieces. I have learned my lesson today.
[/quote1221709360]
First off, congrats man! Great to hear!
IMO, putting girls on a pedestal is a horrible mistake. You mention that girls can do things like cheat and lie and I would reply "of course, they are human." You can find guys who do the same shit or worse so I have a hard time calling girls sluts or demonizing them. I like what El Fenix mentioned that some girls are higher quality than others. This is without a doubt a true statement. Part of this whole pick-up process is to find out what the hell you want. I have come a long way in that regard and the fact that I feel like I can meet a new girl anytime I want gives me the ability to not settle for less than what I want. Anyway, my point is to just evaluate each girl for who they are and understand that every person (male or female) has faults.
As far as the sexual anxiety goes I agree with what has been said. You cannot get wrapped up in what sounds almost like an obsessional drive to please a girl because it will be counterproductive. What will help her enjoy the experience is to see that you have let loose and are just enjoying yourself. Instead of thinking about if she is having fun or if you are living up to her expectations, put yourself in a mindset where you focus on the physical sensations and nothing else. This should help you let go of any nervousness. Sexual skill comes mostly with practice, but there are instructional books (such as The Guide to Getting It On) and DVDs (Such as the Better Sex Series) which can fill you in on some of the basics if you feel like you are lacking.
Either way, good work! And it is also nice to see someone who is totally honest with their experiences--that within itself takes a lot of guts! If everyone on this board was totally honest you probably wouldn't feel alone in your position.
I was just mad when I found out all the truth bout women. They would cheat and lie. I always thought women were innocent and good. I had this ideal image of women... until I learned pickup. It revealed the whole truth bout them and how fucked up they could be. Pick up taught me that this world is not a nice place. I was angry at women. I think I worded it wrong. Sorry if I offended you in any way. I was angry at girls because I learned the truth (such as fellow puas fuckin married girls or engaged girls etc) However, not all women are same... I was missing lots pieces. I have learned my lesson today.
[/quote1221709360]
First off, congrats man! Great to hear!
IMO, putting girls on a pedestal is a horrible mistake. You mention that girls can do things like cheat and lie and I would reply "of course, they are human." You can find guys who do the same shit or worse so I have a hard time calling girls sluts or demonizing them. I like what El Fenix mentioned that some girls are higher quality than others. This is without a doubt a true statement. Part of this whole pick-up process is to find out what the hell you want. I have come a long way in that regard and the fact that I feel like I can meet a new girl anytime I want gives me the ability to not settle for less than what I want. Anyway, my point is to just evaluate each girl for who they are and understand that every person (male or female) has faults.
As far as the sexual anxiety goes I agree with what has been said. You cannot get wrapped up in what sounds almost like an obsessional drive to please a girl because it will be counterproductive. What will help her enjoy the experience is to see that you have let loose and are just enjoying yourself. Instead of thinking about if she is having fun or if you are living up to her expectations, put yourself in a mindset where you focus on the physical sensations and nothing else. This should help you let go of any nervousness. Sexual skill comes mostly with practice, but there are instructional books (such as The Guide to Getting It On) and DVDs (Such as the Better Sex Series) which can fill you in on some of the basics if you feel like you are lacking.
Either way, good work! And it is also nice to see someone who is totally honest with their experiences--that within itself takes a lot of guts! If everyone on this board was totally honest you probably wouldn't feel alone in your position.
- Guest
by Guest » Thu Sep 18, 2008 11:10 am
[quote1221752837=Sal Paradise]
[quote1221709360=Sleek]
I was just mad when I found out all the truth bout women. They would cheat and lie. I always thought women were innocent and good. I had this ideal image of women... until I learned pickup. It revealed the whole truth bout them and how fucked up they could be. Pick up taught me that this world is not a nice place. I was angry at women. I think I worded it wrong. Sorry if I offended you in any way. I was angry at girls because I learned the truth (such as fellow puas fuckin married girls or engaged girls etc) However, not all women are same... I was missing lots pieces. I have learned my lesson today.
[/quote1221709360]
First off, congrats man! Great to hear!
IMO, putting girls on a pedestal is a horrible mistake. You mention that girls can do things like cheat and lie and I would reply "of course, they are human." You can find guys who do the same shit or worse so I have a hard time calling girls sluts or demonizing them. I like what El Fenix mentioned that some girls are higher quality than others. This is without a doubt a true statement. Part of this whole pick-up process is to find out what the hell you want. I have come a long way in that regard and the fact that I feel like I can meet a new girl anytime I want gives me the ability to not settle for less than what I want. Anyway, my point is to just evaluate each girl for who they are and understand that every person (male or female) has faults.
As far as the sexual anxiety goes I agree with what has been said. You cannot get wrapped up in what sounds almost like an obsessional drive to please a girl because it will be counterproductive. What will help her enjoy the experience is to see that you have let loose and are just enjoying yourself. Instead of thinking about if she is having fun or if you are living up to her expectations, put yourself in a mindset where you focus on the physical sensations and nothing else. This should help you let go of any nervousness. Sexual skill comes mostly with practice, but there are instructional books (such as The Guide to Getting It On) and DVDs (Such as the Better Sex Series) which can fill you in on some of the basics if you feel like you are lacking.
Either way, good work! And it is also nice to see someone who is totally honest with their experiences--that within itself takes a lot of guts! If everyone on this board was totally honest you probably wouldn't feel alone in your position.
[/quote1221752837]
Thx Sal!
You know, it's funny. Before pick up, I was totally opposite. I respected girls so much it was one of my reason why I did not have sex with 'em and along with my religious belief... I thought women were all innocent and beautiful creatures. I was the nicest guy everyone knew around them. I never disrespected any of 'em. I was even some what afraid of them because I thought of them as sacred creatures. I never got too close to any one of 'em.
I felt I was missing something. It was the intimacy with girls and being loved. I was missing that part in my life. I wanted to seek it, so I eventually tried to get close to girls. However, for all my life, I barely even talked to girls and my culture forbid me from being too close to girls. So I had to make such a change before I got to where I am. I can't even believe I got this far. I didn't get to talk to girls all that much since my childhood through out middle school until I got to highschool.
When I got little older, I decided to keep my virginity til I got married. I thought bout tellin her that I'm a virgin to "my future wife" on our first time encounter. I wanted to be monogamous. (I thought I would only have sex with 1 girl and die lol) I promised myself to be the best guy to make my wife happiest woman alive. All these corny stuff lol... One day I met this girl who told me bout MM and The Game. I was skeptical first. I told her those books can't change me. I am who I am. It's my way or highway. However, I realized my way wasn't the way to go. I decided to take a look at the Game. I soon started to find sources online while reading that book. I found the big forums such as speed seduction and other big forums and blogs. I wanted to find local ones. I then found Austin society and got involved with people alike me.
Thx for sex advices man.
yea I wouldn't see the reason why some people would take time to make up lots BS and put it on sites... It doesn't do any good for the community nor the person. If you are honest, you can get good feedbacks from community and can improve myself everytime.
Thx Sal and hope to meet u in person soon man.
[quote1221709360=Sleek]
I was just mad when I found out all the truth bout women. They would cheat and lie. I always thought women were innocent and good. I had this ideal image of women... until I learned pickup. It revealed the whole truth bout them and how fucked up they could be. Pick up taught me that this world is not a nice place. I was angry at women. I think I worded it wrong. Sorry if I offended you in any way. I was angry at girls because I learned the truth (such as fellow puas fuckin married girls or engaged girls etc) However, not all women are same... I was missing lots pieces. I have learned my lesson today.
[/quote1221709360]
First off, congrats man! Great to hear!
IMO, putting girls on a pedestal is a horrible mistake. You mention that girls can do things like cheat and lie and I would reply "of course, they are human." You can find guys who do the same shit or worse so I have a hard time calling girls sluts or demonizing them. I like what El Fenix mentioned that some girls are higher quality than others. This is without a doubt a true statement. Part of this whole pick-up process is to find out what the hell you want. I have come a long way in that regard and the fact that I feel like I can meet a new girl anytime I want gives me the ability to not settle for less than what I want. Anyway, my point is to just evaluate each girl for who they are and understand that every person (male or female) has faults.
As far as the sexual anxiety goes I agree with what has been said. You cannot get wrapped up in what sounds almost like an obsessional drive to please a girl because it will be counterproductive. What will help her enjoy the experience is to see that you have let loose and are just enjoying yourself. Instead of thinking about if she is having fun or if you are living up to her expectations, put yourself in a mindset where you focus on the physical sensations and nothing else. This should help you let go of any nervousness. Sexual skill comes mostly with practice, but there are instructional books (such as The Guide to Getting It On) and DVDs (Such as the Better Sex Series) which can fill you in on some of the basics if you feel like you are lacking.
Either way, good work! And it is also nice to see someone who is totally honest with their experiences--that within itself takes a lot of guts! If everyone on this board was totally honest you probably wouldn't feel alone in your position.
[/quote1221752837]
Thx Sal!
You know, it's funny. Before pick up, I was totally opposite. I respected girls so much it was one of my reason why I did not have sex with 'em and along with my religious belief... I thought women were all innocent and beautiful creatures. I was the nicest guy everyone knew around them. I never disrespected any of 'em. I was even some what afraid of them because I thought of them as sacred creatures. I never got too close to any one of 'em.
I felt I was missing something. It was the intimacy with girls and being loved. I was missing that part in my life. I wanted to seek it, so I eventually tried to get close to girls. However, for all my life, I barely even talked to girls and my culture forbid me from being too close to girls. So I had to make such a change before I got to where I am. I can't even believe I got this far. I didn't get to talk to girls all that much since my childhood through out middle school until I got to highschool.
When I got little older, I decided to keep my virginity til I got married. I thought bout tellin her that I'm a virgin to "my future wife" on our first time encounter. I wanted to be monogamous. (I thought I would only have sex with 1 girl and die lol) I promised myself to be the best guy to make my wife happiest woman alive. All these corny stuff lol... One day I met this girl who told me bout MM and The Game. I was skeptical first. I told her those books can't change me. I am who I am. It's my way or highway. However, I realized my way wasn't the way to go. I decided to take a look at the Game. I soon started to find sources online while reading that book. I found the big forums such as speed seduction and other big forums and blogs. I wanted to find local ones. I then found Austin society and got involved with people alike me.
Thx for sex advices man.
yea I wouldn't see the reason why some people would take time to make up lots BS and put it on sites... It doesn't do any good for the community nor the person. If you are honest, you can get good feedbacks from community and can improve myself everytime.
Thx Sal and hope to meet u in person soon man.
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