Fist number close in 4 months

[Guest]

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Me: Are you free or are you still working for the coffee goddess?
Her: HAHAHA No I am waiting to get my hair done
Me: Getting your hair done that is the classic blow of you can do better then that, but then again you will miss out on all the fun.
Her: LOL no really I am her waiting to get it cut
Me: That sounds really dull,

I figured if she was waiting I would call her so I did I got no answer so I left her a message.

Me: I guess you getting your hair cut now and are talking to the hair dress about what ever girls talk about. Go ahead and give me a call talk to you later.
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Some quick thoughts...

The first inital meeitng / bike part was fine. Why would you say "That is a classic blow off". This is absolutely the worst thing you can say. Just be like "What are you changing the hair to?" or whatever. Don't be an ass and make it awkward.

Don't leave messages EVER with girls unless you have fucked them. This is needy. Wait for them to call back. Believe me they have caller id figured out.

You got attraction initially though so that is good. Keep working on it.

[Guest]

Thanks for all the pointers on this one guys I have learned alot. At this point I am going to NEXT this one I get the feeling that it would be just too much work to get her and it just is not worth it. Still I kind of want to text her the line from Bull Run " [i] [color=#ff0000]U need to have some fun, quick get some bubble wrap, whipped cream, and a stuffed bear...then go to town[/color][/i]! " just to see what happends maybe I will do that later on just to see.

[Guest]

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Thanks for all the pointers on this one guys I have learned alot. At this point I am going to NEXT this one I get the feeling that it would be just too much work to get her and it just is not worth it.[/quote1209137776]

dont forget that it is ok to have girl friends. if you're not going to plow with this chick on a dating or sexual level keep her around as a friend. build your social circle. not every hot girl has to be someone you should sleep with. think of her as someone who can introduce you to [i]other[/i] hot girls you can sleep with.

[greenboy]

fist number close lol, that must have been interesting!

[Westfall]

fist number close lol, that must have been interesting!

lol I remember my first number close after I got into the community....

I'd gotten #-s before but only as a result of countless HORRIBLY AFC approaches. Now I get lots of #s....I got 30 #s in one week in fact.

It gets better.

WF