In this community, we pride ourselves on self improvement and educate ourselves that women enjoy sex as much, if not more, than we do. Many PUAs are here with the best of intentions. They just want to build their social and dating skills so they can be happy and make the women in their lives happy.
Unless Lion knowingly and purposely went after your ex just to upset you, which doesn't sound like the case here, he did nothing wrong.
Solace, if you really were looking out for your ex's best interests as you alluded to, you wouldn't post something like this
Solace wrote:Hmmm.... For your sake I hope you didnt jus close my ex... And btw I didnt wear a condom with her ever... haha any idea where i've been?! me neither.
She's nuts
This is very disrespectful of her.
A PUA recently was dating one of my coworkers who I am close with. He picked her up using the best friends test. He posted some of the details on here. I said nothing to him or her. In fact, I doubt the PUA even knows she was a coworker of mine. Why didn't I say anything? Because it was none of my business. She liked the guy and was into him. He was respectful of her even when he eventually ended it. It was all good.
If you were truly looking out for your ex, you would let her enjoy her life and hope she is happy, whether she is single, in a committed relationship with one person, or sleeping around.
If the post about her was a little too revealing of her identity, the proper way to handle this would have been to PM Lion and ask him to change some of the details. Telling her about the post is very innapropriate.
To me, this stinks of petty jealousy.