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[Westfall]

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[Scoundrel]

It's a big deal for some. But, you can't win them all.

[Silverback]

Fellow PUA's

This is one I deal with a lot since I am 33 (look 26). If I am out in bars and clubs etc. I never ask age and if asked I have them "guess." Girls will tell you what they want you to be and I say "close" and add one year to it and never bring up age again. I have been busted on it before on a Day2 and just laughed and plowed which worked fine. I find if you can match wits with them age is a moot point, especially over time (Day 2 and beyond). Fact is girls lie all the time and if you are a little sneaky about your age but the rest is congruent, so what...

[Vector]

I get the age thing in just about every single set. I'm 30 but I look like i'm maybe.. um.. 19 haha.

They always ask, and I always make them guess. Sometimes they get close but I usually don't hear guesses higher than 26 or 27. I'll tell them I'm 30 and then after I get her age I'll say, "You know, I've noticed women change a lot between 20 and 30. Some change younger and some change older but there's this transition, and it usually happens between 20 and 30. Before the transition, they're little girls, who don't really know what they want in life, they're sorta lost, they care way too much what their friends think, they're flaky, etc. but after the transition, they have found themselves, they know what they want, they have their shit together, they don't really care about what people think, and they are adults. Since you're 24, I'd say there's about a 70 percent chance you haven't gone through that transition yet."

This is one of my favorite routines. There are a couple other optional clauses I'll throw in sometimes. For instance, "if a woman gets married at 17 and divorced at 19, she will usually be very mature for her age."

I am qualifying her, provoking her to contradict my expectation that she's immature. At the same time, by describing characteristics I am looking for, I imply things about myself even though I'm not talking about myself at all. And I am actually screening her, so if she flunks the maturity thing I'll let her go.

[NobodyUKnow]

I have to second Rhody's game... that's almost exactly what I do.

Asking your age is a kind of shit test... saying "guess" reframes, turns it into a game.

If she gives me any kind of shit about being older, I reframe with "you're just a baaaaaby! Does your daddy still tuck you in, or do you have your own place?"

The vast, vast majority of the time they will qualify ("I have my own place"), or make a joke out of loving it when daddy tucks them in, which of is even better...