Hey guys. Brad P. coming to you from Hollywood CA. Haven't posted a LR in a while. Not writing too much for the forums, just been writing this fashion book 24/7. Love how it's coming out, but I had to take time out to write an old school LR for the boards. Been laying low on trainings, but I did go speak at the mystery method» bootcamp last weekend with Sinn. Good ideas going on over there. I had a crazy night last night (been having alot of these lately) so I thought it was about time to write something up.
Yesterday I was walking around the auto parts store and I got a call from this really hot chick who's in my peer group. We've been friends for 2 months, but we have a bit of sexual tension between us. She tells me her boyfriend dicked out on her on some dinner reservation plans and asked me if I'd go with her. I said: "Hmm.. I'll think about it. you know I don't like to be the #2 back-up
option". She says "C'mon, just come out to dinner with me. It's no big deal.". After a little more of that I agreed. I told her to make sure she wears a short skirt... "Don't forget the skirt!"
So we go out to dinner, and it's in this really she-she French restaurant in Hollywood. There was hot girls all over the place. Probably about twice as many girls than guys in this place for some reason...
We get there and we're sitting there talking. Now I've known her about two months or so. There's been definite sexual tension between us. She knows that I teach some kind of dating class. In the past I've told her it's actually a class in advanced sexual techniques. I tell that to a lot of girls who probably wouldn't understand the whole seduction thing.
It turns out she told her boyfriend that I'm replacing him and that I'm taking her out to dinner, and that I'm some kind of kama-sutra genius. So I knew I was a pawn in her little jealousy battle, and I told her I knew this, but it was ok,I'll use her to make girls jealous too. When we get out there she's starting to whine about how she's losing interest in her boyfriend. I've met this guy a few times and he's a pretty cool guy. Hes one of these super-polished LA guys. Good-looking, successful; really has his shit together. She happens to be a super-polished LA girl as well.
So I decided to try and keep it subtle about discussing her boyfriend. I said "He's a really cool guy.. really nice guy. but he's really into. REALLY into you." She said "Yeah, I think that might be what's kind of turning me off". We started talking about how she always gets into guys who aren't into her and how she wants guys to show her enough attention but she just winds up losing interest.
This whole time we're talking she's getting texted by 5 different guys. even though she has a boyfriend she meets guys all the time. She'll get interested in them and then never call them back. No explanation, nothing. So today she has this guy who super into her. She ended up sending him an e-mail that she has a boyfriend. Now this dude is texting her the whole time we're at dinner saying "You're making a huge mistake. He'll never love you like I love you. He'll never touch you like I touch you!". she's getting totally freaked out by it I just say "That's so lame, what a bummer, etc.."
After a while she says "I want you to tell me some of this stuff about the advanced sexual techniques." I said "I don't know.. I'm not sure if I should tell you because we're always hanging around together and once you start getting turned on by me it's gonna ruin our relationship". She says "No! just tell me!". I finally give in but I say "You have to promise that you won't get turned on by the sound of my voice and the things that I'm saying and you have to promise that you won't get a little wet in your pussy."
Used a little basic NLP.
I have her do this thing where she holds her hand up and I pretend that her hands a vagina and then I tell her about all the different spots (Deep spot, G-spot, etc...) The whole time I'm basically fingering her fist. That was working pretty good and the sexual tension was building.
We get back to talking about the other stuff and she starts asking about the "strategies of the advanced sexual techniques" because earlier I was telling her that most of its not physical and that most of the physical stuff you could cover in a class that's about a half an hour while the mental stuff takes much longer. She says "Tell me the mental stuff!. Again I get into "Nah.. I don't know if I should tell you. You might get too into it". But finally I gave in. I tell her "Well, it's all about being dominant and taking the lead. Most women just want to be dominated but they won't admit that cause they feel like they shouldn't have to explain it.". After I tell her that she point blank says "Yeah, I just want to be fucked and dominated. That's all I really care about". Big SOI.
So we go on eating our dinner and the place starts switching into bar mode. This Maître de guy had invited her there keeps coming over and talking to her. Apparently he had #closed her and she was kind of interested in him, but she was confused because he wasn't making a move on her. So she was saying "I don't know if he just does the invitations here or if he's really interested in me, cause he texts me all the time" so this guy was sending her some mixed signals. This guy was another really polished super good-looking LA guy. She kept saying "oh my god, he's so good looking"
One of the things I'm noticing is that these really good looking guys are everywhere and it's sometimes hard to compete with. It's definitely problematic in this scene. But I think I can outgame them most of the time.
So this guy seems to be just doing the invitations for the place. I think he was almost using her as an orbiter to get some people into his restaurant.
The place is filling up with people. It's a bar scene with tons and tons of hot girls. So we get out of there and head to the next place which was the Roosevelt Hotel. We show up and we're just hanging out at the pool there.
The thing about being around this girl is she's so well-connected socially that it really makes you feel a little bit like you can't measure up to it. Like no matter how many social skills you have, this girl has so many friends (I'm new in LA and I don't really have that nearly as many friends here yet) that everywhere we went 5, 6, 7 people were coming up to her hugging her, kissing her, and saying hello. She would introduce me but I really couldn't take the lead on any of the interactions. Even though it was more of a friend kind of date it's still good to be able to dominate social situations. And since I really couldn't dominate these I was getting a little uncomfortable and kind of going into my own shell and feeling like a loner a little bit. So I said "Lets play a game" and we played Fuck-Marry-Kill a couple times. After that I said "Lets play another game. This one's called 'Pick A Girl Out For Me'. Pick out any girl and I'll go talk to her then I'll tell you the rest of the game later". She picks out this asian/maybe half-asian girl and says "Okay, that girl".
I go up the asian girl and say "Do you like horses?" and do the horse girl line on her. It goes picture perfect according to planned exactly as scripted. By the time I finished the line there was tremendous sexual tension and she said something to the extent of "well, I like guys who are hung like a horse" and she starts talking about cocks. Her friend was with her while all this was going down,and she really didn't interfere. I think it just happened so fast, there was nothing she could do but watch. I told the asian girl "Well I dont want to tell you if im hung like a horse or not cause you really haven't earned that information yet". She keeps going on about it so I say "maybe sometime I'll show you a picture". She says "No! show me a picture like now!" so I take out my phone and I show her a picture of my cock and she says "Ohh great great, etc..". He friend chimes in "I like it, I like it..". I had been hinting that I'm an exhibitionist and I was starting to get into the pheromone kid-style bathroom pull. She said "Why don't you go jump into the pool naked then?" I said, "No, I'm a different kind of exhibitionist." It was was pretty much right from horse girl (3-5 minutes), into pheromone kid routines (another 5-10 minutes).
So to make a short story shorter, 5 minutes later I was dragging both of these girls off to the bathroom. We get halfway there and they started chickening out. I start saying "You guys are chickening out, this is bullshit, blah blah blah". I knew that the problem was that there was two girls. When there's one girl there's not nearly as much ASD, but when there's two they're judging each other the whole time.
I chase them down, we're walking, and they run into this guy they know. And the friend starts talking to the guy so I say "Do you know this guy?". She says yeah, and I said "Great, cause I didn't want to leave your friend all alone while we go do this". I turned to the guy and said "Can you take care of this girl for like a couple minutes, we'll be back in 5 minutes". The guy agrees. People were so agreeable.it went against everything you learn about PU and having to disarm obstacles, etc etc. There was just so much momentum and pure speed. That's why it worked so well.
It was astounding how easy this one went. It's certainly not this easy all the time, but when it is you have to go for it
I drag her up to the balcony and we start messing around. I remmember I actually ahd to pull her arm pretty hard at first to get her to come along. After about 10 minutes I'm fingering this girl and security comes in and busts us. They didn't call the cops or anything but they just kicked us out and made us go downstairs to the party. I ended up busting a nut before they came so it was fine. She was giving me a handjob. We start walking back to the party and looking for our friends.
The hot chick I was hanging with in the first place kind of lost track of me so as I'm walking back with the girl I pulled to the balcony I say to her "you're going to meet my friends and when you meet this particular girl I want you to say "I just watched him jerk off and he has a huge cock". So she does it my girl just laughs it off like it wasn't even serious. We're talking later though and she asks what happened between me and the girl. I told her the story and "yeah, it was kind of a drag when security came." She said "Wait, that really happened? You really did that?". I told her yeah.
In this situation, the 5 minute pull was sort of a stepping stone to the larger goal of banging the SHB. It's good to have a weapon like that in the arsenal.
2 o'clocks rolling around and they start kicking everyone out. This girl's got more and more friends rolling around, more and more hot chicks. She knows SO many hot chicks. It's insane. Around that time Leonardo DiCaprio turns up and one of her friends is trying to flirt with him. It's not really going anywhere so we head to this diner. We show up there and they're meeting 4 guys. The girl I went to dinner with has a plan that she might fuck one of the four guys. At this point a lot of different guys have hit on her throughout the night and she's got a few drinks in her so her buying temperature is getting pretty high.
This guy she wants to fuck is in there with 3 or 4 of his friends and again he's another one of these retardedly good-looking LA guys. He's all well-built and has been on TV a bit.
There was some music playing so I decided to pull up these girls and start dancing with them in the diner. I got them up and I started slow dancing with them or full-on hip hop dancing with them. We were the only people dancing in the diner so we were definitely making a spectacle of ourselves and it was really fun. The girls were loving it. The guys were kind of cool with it. They sort of didn't know where it was coming from so that was good. One of the waiters came up as I was slow dancing with both girls and said "can I have your autograph?" I said "Hey, I give lessons."
Then the strangest thing happened. The girl I pulled to the balcony back at the hotel comes walking into the diner. I'm not sure if she saw me and I was a little preoccupied with the other two girls so I didn't even bother going to say hi to her. I figured maybe she'll booty call me, maybe she won't; let me just leave it be.
We get out of that place and the guys are inviting all of us back to their place: "Hey, lets go back to our house. we're going to listen to pink floyd and smoke some hash". Im thinking to myself: "are we in the 11th grade here?". So I said to the guy "You might as well put on the Wizard of Oz while you're at it".
The girl I had dinner with is really into this actor guy so I'm thinking she's going to get pulled for sure. Like I said, this girls in my peer group and she's a friend, so I'm not really going to battle this guy. I really look at this girl as a connection to other girls not as a girl I'm sarging. My whole thing with her is don't judge her, don't condemn her for cheating on her boyfriend, don't even get involved with that, just steer clear of it.
The guy actually ended up screwing up the pull at the last second. A lot of guys will make this mistake: He started texting other girls and looking really smug. For super good-looking guys like him, they can't be that cocky because it makes them overqualified. You could tell that his whole TV role (which was actually a very small part) had really gone to his head.
The girl was getting turned off by his whole vibe and he completely blew the entire pull. It was in the palm of his hand but he totally messed it up and I ended up leaving with the two chicks. I'm thinking to myself that now it's probably in the bag because her buying temperature was so high; she was an INCH from going home with that guy. If a girl is nearly pulled like that, it's so much easier to pull her. As we know buying temperature can be transfered, and it happens all the time, espcially with chicks like this who are really hot and guys are hitting on them all the time. They're always chasing the next shiny thing. So at this point, that was me; I was the next shiny thing.
On the way back to my car, these 2 girls are talking over the whole thing. They did a very in depth analysis of why this guy failed to pull her. At first she was saying "OMG he is so hot, I almost had to fuck him right there on the sidewalk...." The other girl says it's good she didn't cheat on her BF. They ask me what I think, and I say "Well yeah, that guy is pretty good looking, but the reason you aren't on your way to his house right now is that he's just got no game. You were very attracted to him, there's really no excuse for him to have failed here." So I basically reframed the guy as a failure, as it was his fault they didn't get it on. From there they took a totally different view of him. They started saying how he had absolutley no personality, that he wasn't that big a deal, he let his TV show go to his head, he's not that good looking in the face, he just has cool facial hair,etc, ect. It got to the point where they were just busting on him like crazy: "hey look at me with my t shirt and scarf!" Wow it was funny. So i said "Did you see him texting? All his friends were watching him and he was smiling" HBdinner then said the tunring point was when he started texting other girls with a smug look on his face. So I added one more thing: "There's really no excuse for that. You let a girl with that much attraction within 10 feet of me and there's absolutely no escape. She's getting fucked for sure." I realized it's so easy to frame these good-looking guys as too smug and cocky. I may be using that in the future cause they're not gonna go away any time soon.
I get this girl back to my place and I said what is probably the stupidest, cheesiest way to get a girl back to your room. She had given me her old desk so I said "Hey come in here, did you see your old desk? Did you see what I did to it?". She said "Oh no, let me see". She comes in and we start messing around.
You always have to have some kind of a pretense for getting a girl into your room. At this point this girl a little drunk and her buying temperature's really high but she still can't be led to your room unless you have some stupid reason. Occasionally you can, but I think rather safe and sorry.
We start making out. She starts giving a little bit of resistance but I did a lot of dominant stuff (which she said she liked) so it was pretty much a breeze from there. I'd say she gave about 15 or 20 minutes of resistance so I had to stop, talk, cuddle, rinse-repeat maybe 3 times, which wasn't that bad.
So it was a crazy night. Keys to this one were:
1. Being the center of attention at the end of the night.
2. Having more game and personality than the good-looking guys. The good-looking guys can hurt you cause they can get attraction so much easier and they have so much more value than you. But it can help you too if they have sloppy game they pump the girls buying temperature and you can just swoop her up so much easier.
3. Staying in the saddle and not getting too freaked out by all the other guys hitting on her
4. Doing the bathroom pull in front of her was pretty key because I actually had moments during the night where the girl I was hanging with would go off for a little while and I'd be standing there alone not knowing anybody. I felt kinda like that social needy guy so I knew I had to do some approaches or something but I just couldnt get it together in the moment. I wasn't warmed up or anything. I really only did one approach during the whole night and it led to a bathroom pull so I kinda got lucky in that sense. But I think showing the girl that I had that power was really key to getting her in the sack. She said later that night "I can't believe you talked to one girl and you ended up getting her into the balcony like that. Its like having your own superpower". I said "yeah, it kinda is". I think this girl perceived me as a guy with sexual superpowers and every girl wants to hang with a guy like that.
I definitely learned a lot from her as well cause she is one of those super high value LA chicks. It's all chick logic all the time. I think this girl is a good person deep down, but she has the potential to be a lethal player, especially when she gets a few drinks in her. Also throughout the night seeing all these different guys texting her and acting needy it's like everything you learn in the community just comes to life before your eyes.
Hope you guys get some use out of this. Use the horsegirl stuff, use the reframe for good looking guys, and use the thing where you have the girl make a fist and you finger it like a vagina.
Brad P.


