#-closed a married woman... Oh naughty me.

[Mojo]

1/28/06 Sherlocks

We open a 4 set, 3 girls (HB5, HB 5.5, HB6.5) and one heterosexually challenge guy. Talking to the HB6.5, she showed me her ring – she was married. I brushed that off and continued. I didn’t want to lend to much attention to that. After a little fluff talk I isolate the HB6.5 to run the cube. The cube is an excellent way to set the frame. First, the cube was transparent, which I told her that meant she was very easy to talk to. There are no barriers when someone meets her, allowing for a more open interaction. This suggestion allows for her to lower any barriers she might have. Second, the color of the cube was red which indicate passion. She is very sexual. At this point she agreed but mentioned the sex life between her and her hubby was not as passionate as she would like. Interesting. After another value adding pattern of mentioning I have a business and the number of people that work for me – I see my occupation as a value adder rather than a topic that should be avoided. Men who have that position of power over others adds much value - we rejoined the group but off to the side where it was just her and me. I mentioned that there was an ancient Tantra technique to form a stronger connection with her and her husband. Though as I explained this technique, we could not help but do it with each other. As I explained the process, just the suggestion of it and the power it can have manifested between us, strengthening our bond. It is interesting how subtle suggestions can easily control the mindset and frame. Though, to continue, I said she would be soo mine if she didn’t have a husband at which, with out hesitation, she said she would be soo mine, too. Woah! We continue with a little chick crack talking about religion and the unknown. After forming an incredible connection and attraction I told her to follow me, taking her by the hand, received a counter squeeze, and isolated her. Both of our hands now embracing one another, looking in her eyes, I said that we were having an excellent conversation and I wanted to continue, but I had to go soon. She gives me her number but says she has to tell her husband about me. Women do this in order wash themselves free of any blame in the matter. Though through the entire process, I could feel her buying temperature rise. Before rejoining the group to say my good byes, she, with a doggy bowl look, said I had so much to offer a girl, that I was simply incredible. During this time our hands were romantically embraced – Major kino. At this point I don’t know if I should call. The old AFC in me yells that she is married. Though why waste a chance to have a good friend – she interesting – and a possible pivot.

[Derek Blood]

new thing i learned recently, hang around after #close, does 2 things, prevents phone flaking and LMR after day 2

[Mojo]

Thanks for the tip.
I am about to call her now. Hope hubby don't pick up.