FR AMOG vs AFC AdamLondon

[AFC AdamLondon]

Hey guys,

So last night I was out with Project Entourage, and I figured I'd share a story with you from the night.

It's vaguely related to something which happened about 8 months ago when I first started sarging with Sherrif of Mystery Method regularly. I pride myself on being pretty unreactive. However on this specific occasion something got to me.

We where walking into China Whites, and where building up social proof by chatting to some random guys in the queue, when suddenly a girl walked by that I knew. Suddenly the guy next to me starts speaking,

Queue Guy: See that girl that is exactly the kind of girl that would fuck anyone for money.
AFC AdamLondon: What?
Queue Guy: You can see she just spreads her legs open for any guy witha bit of cash.
AFC AdamLondon: Actually mate you're wrong, that girl is nothing like that at all
Queue Guy: Yes she is you can see cash slut written all over her face.
AFC AdamLondon: Look here you prick, not every girl goes for cash, some people actually have depth.

When Have you ever heard me like that before? I can tell you it's pretty rare. So Sherrif comments.

Sherrif: Why did you react?
AFC AdamLondon: Because he was a dick
Sherrif: Nah you reacted because he struck a nerve... he said something you didn't like.
AFC AdamLondon: What do you mean?
Sherrif: You didn't like the fact that it's possible that a girl would like someone purely for money. Because you aren't rich.


He was right. I've grown up froma very poor background, and actually don't have much disposable income. The guy hit a nerve, and I let him get to me.

So I made a conscious decision to try to not let it affect me in the future. To be fair, I think I've done pretty good.

Then last night, I got to test myself.

I was dancing around our tables, and I have to admit Entourage was really kicking last night. Over 60 girls on the list, and 40 in the VIP area, most where dancers, so it was really smashing it. 4 girls where getting hit on by this sleazy, slightly, tipsy, indian guy.

He was grabbing their hands and essentially giving them hassle. I spot one girl and mouth the words. " Are you guys ok?"

She shakes her head so I move in.

AFC AdamLondon: Heya Buddy, How you doin?
AMOG: I'm good thanks.
AFC AdamLondon: I'm sorry to have to tell you this mate but this is a private table, the girls need a little more space.
AMOG: I'm just dancing with them.
AFC AdamLondon: I know buddy, but it's one of their birthday's and they kinda just wanna dance together. So would you mind giving them a little bit of space.
AMOG: Yeah it's cool I'm not dancing with them, Dance with me!
AFC AdamLondon: Nah I'm cool mate. Have a good night.

So I move off, but stay near the girls just in case.

He starts staring at them... and I mean literally staring.

One of the girls stops dancing and stares back. I take the hint and move back on the guy.

AFC AdamLondon: Heya Buddy, you're really goign to have to move away, the girls are feeling hassled.
AMOG: I'm not hassling anyone.
AFC AdamLondon: You're hassling the girls, they don't want you staring at them or dancing with them. Seriously buddy you're gonna have to move away.
AMOG: They want to dance with me.
AFC AdamLondon: (Turns to girls - listen to what I say and answer clearly ok) Do you guys want to dance with this guy?

HB's: yes
AFC AdamLondon: What?!?!
AMOG: *smug grin* See!

Now the problem is, the club is loud, and hot women aren't always so quick to catch onto things.. thankfully they elaborate.

HB's: yes we want him to go.

AFC AdamLondon: So DO YOU WANT TO DANCE WITH HIM?
HB's: Ohh I'm sorry .. no of course not.

AMOG: ...

AFC AdamLondon: Sorry buddy, have a good night and I'll see you around.
AMOG: Talk to me, let me tell you something, I'm kinda a big deal.
AFC AdamLondon: Cool.
AMOG: I mean, I don't want to brag but I earn alot of money.
AFC AdamLondon: Awesome.
AMOG: Women like me because I have alot of money, they like it when I buy them drinks.
AFC AdamLondon: Thats great.
AMOG: What I mean is your girls want my drinks.
AFC AdamLondon: So far tonight I've given them a botel of cristal, 2 rounds of shots and 2 bottles of vodka. I think they've probably drank too much. Either way, they really don't need you to buy them drinks.
AMOG: Look I make alot of money ok. More than you.
AFC AdamLondon: That's probably true, still I'm happy.
AMOG: Look i can tell you have a boring and tedious job.
AFC AdamLondon: Cool.
AMOG: Like what is it?
AFC AdamLondon: Look mate we don't need to do this, have a great night. I'm off.
AMOG: No! Tell me what do you do? I know it's boring and tedious
AFC AdamLondon: ... You really wanna do this?
AMOG: Yes! Tell me!
AFC AdamLondon: I teach guys how to pick up women.
AMOG: Don't lie, tell me the truth.
AFC AdamLondon: I teach guys how to pick up women, ask anyone at my table.
AMOG: (turns to Sherrif) WHat does he do for a living?
Sherrif: He teaches guys how to pick up women, you don't beleive him? There are 40 women at this table and only 3 men. You think that's a coincidence?
AMOG: Look my money makes me happy.
AFC AdamLondon: OK then, lets do it like this, you take your money and go and be happy on your table, I'll take my girls and be happy on mine. Have a great night!

Off he went.

I still reacted a bit, and kinda wish I hadn't... still I'm far from perfect. Though internally he really didn't get to me in a bad way, I didn't have that terrible feeling I had before, or the anger. Just the usual calm sense of self I normally have in those situations. So a small personal triumph!

AFC AdamLondon

[MagicBalls]

What a sad loser. "I'm kind of a big deal." wft? That's someone definitely lacking character, class, education, and upbringing. If you're basing your personal value on some flash you got with some lucky business deal, you are sad indeed.

If he really does have money, he wasn't born into it, and will probably lose it if he's putting it in people's faces like that. My experience is that people who TRULY have wealth, and I have friends who do, don't go around telling people about it or even showing it. Who knows, they may be the people in sweats behind you in line at Tom Thumb who got there in an SUV. They don't have to tell people they have money, because they have nothing to prove. Some of them don't want others to know, because they are already tired of non-profits getting their name and hitting them up for cash.

I think you did great, by the way.

[MagicBalls]

Here's an article about how relative wealth is:


http://www.nytimes.com/2007/08/05/technology/05rich.html?_r=1&hp&oref=slogin

[Welsh_Dragon]

This happens a lot more in england. It happens here but not as much.

[Hollywood00]

Well played, you know he went home and cried himself to sleep on his fancy pillow after that... lol