My first Feild Report: By ULTRA

[ULTRA]

Field Report
By: ULTRA

MY FIRST FIELD REPORT

Premise:
So this is my first field report so I thought I would try to be descript and helpful to others. You can read my intro in the intro section of the forum to get to know me better. So last weekend I went on my first sarging trip with a buddy of mine who is also new to the community, but neither of us are new to the game. We both have been successful with women in the past, but are both fascinated by the systematic approach of the various schools of thought (Mystery, Jefferies, Deangelo, Style). We sarged all weekend with some success, but my best sarge was my last one, late on Saturday night.
The night before I had been on a date with this chick I have been talking to for a few weeks. She is actually the girl who gave me the idea to read “The Game.” The date went really bad even though I made out with her at the end. I was just not feeling her vibe and felt that it was my fault for not approaching it the way I was now learning to approach women. Needless to say, I was in a bad mood Saturday morning and decided I would go out sarging to feel better with my buddy that night.

Analysis:
So we went to a few bars and opened a few sets with minimal success. Neither of us was really warmed up and we were at places were the music was so loud it is impossible to talk to a chick anyways. We ended up meeting a girl that he has been hooking up with for a while and her friend. I had met the girl he was banging before but not her friend. The location was an outdoor bar that was more conducive to opening sets. We found the two chicks and I sat between them not really noticing her friend as I sat down. My wing sat on the other side of his chick. She introduced me to her friend and I noticed that she was hot! She was flanked by 4 dudes all sitting on the opposite side of me trying to talk to her. I did not really even know if one of them was her boyfriend or something but I did not really care.
The first thing I did was immediately ignore her. (I have found this to be the best opener you can perform). She was my target and I new I was going to have to Neg her right away especially since she was flanked by 4 other AFC’s vying for her attention. She beat me to the punch and attempted to Neg my shirt I was wearing. It was a shit test. I had decided to peacock using a nice black button down shirt with a green camo t-shit over top of it. It was kind of bold and flashy, but it served its purpose. It got her attention. I immediately Neg’ed her by turning it around making her look like a bitch to everyone. I told her that I had just met her and now she was going to make fun of me? This worked perfectly and I was in control of the frame from then on.
I pointed out the fact that she had a camo colored hair band on and she was so surprised that she took it off and looked at it. We went back and fourth for a while and I decided to do a take-away and acted as if I left in disgust to go to the bathroom. I came back and we resumed the back and fourth. She was a tough chick. (little did I know until later the my wing’s chick (her friend), leaned over to my wing and told him that she was going to ‘eat me alive.’ Meaning that her friend would never fall for my game.) On the contrary, I was the one who was soon to be victorious.
I then decided to change the frame to a more friendly/flirty frame, but doing the classic “ok lets start over, my name is blah balh blaha.” This worked well and she loosened up. I even ran some “cold reading” tricks like “pick a number one through ten” and “guess her middle initial.” Ironically all my guesses we off by exactly one so I used this to my advantaged, as if it were planned some how. After some of that, I told her that she should go buy me a beer. She looked a me as if no guy had ever asked that of her, and was astonished that I did. This is such a great line to tell chick because it is the opposite of what they hear every night and it is a playful Neg that they won’t take to seriously. She declined to buy me one, so I did another take-away and went to get my own beer. Meanwhile my wing texted me and said “Its working!” Him and the other chick had been sitting there just watching me work her over and weren’t even talking to each other, they were analyzing my game!
When I came back from the bar (only 30 seconds later) one of the four douche bags that was hounding her before I sat down had taken my seat and was talking to her! I decided this was an advantage so I sat down next to my buddy and ignored her again. During the course of this whole sequence, I came to an overwhelming epiphany that I had never known before. Neg’s and takeaways are the key to a good sarge. Make a girl think you want her and she will beat you down like a $5 trany hooker. Make her think you do not even notice her, and she wants you more and more. It is Mystery’s “cat string theory” come to life. This is nothing new at all to the PUA community, but it was news to me.
Finally we got ready to leave and we all got up and she signaled to her friend that she wanted to talk to her. (I found out later that she was asking about me and whether she should come back to the friends place that night. This was a blatant IOI that I noticed, as did everyone else including the 4 douche bags who now knew I was the one going home with her, and not them.) So we all made it back to her place and my wing and her friend went to the friend’s room and us two were on the couch. Keep in mind I had only known this chick for about an hour and a half. I could tell she was attracted to me because she just kept talking fluffily. Over the years I have notice that if a girl wants to kiss you she will keep talking and smiling at you. I like to call this “talking in tongues” in that what she is sayings is borderline nonsense, but it is a huge IOI and it is just anticipation for a kiss, if not an invitation. This is because she is nervous about whether the guy is going to try and kiss her, and whether she wants him to. She wants to keep his attention so that he knows that she is interested in him. Rarely do girls give such blatant IOI’s as this, but it is classic.
After playing with her hair for a while and other light Kino, I slowly got closer to her face and kept talking some more. I looked at her and asked her “do you want to kiss me?” Now some guys make the mistake of saying “can I kiss you.” Never ever, say that! It’s kind of like when you were a kid and you asked the teacher “can I go to the bathroom?” and they would say “I don’t know, can you?” implying that you should have used the phrase “May I” instead of “Can I.” By saying “do you want to kiss me” you put the pressure on her to make a quick decision. This ramps up her nervous emotions even more than before. In my case, she hesitated for a few seconds and said “no.” The hesitation is what sealed it. Now normally if a girl says no she means it (contrary to popular belief). However, I knew that she really meant yes because of the long hesitation (maybe 4 or 5 seconds). Not to mention all of the IOI’s and the fluffy talk right before I said this. I said to her “your such a liar” and went in for the kill. She wanted me from there on out.
I teased her with slow kisses and she just kept trying to put her tough in my mouth but I would pull away. I was in charge of the situation and wanted her to know it. I kept teasing her with lip kisses and finally gave in and we went at it. She was grabbing my head and we made out for a while. All the time I was teasing her and doing the classic “two steps forward, one step back.” Then I made a major mistake. Her cell phone rang, and even though she acted as if she didn’t care I told her to answer it and get it over with. Dumb mistake! It was her girlfriend who had just gotten into a fight with her boyfriend and had to tell her all about it. By the time the conversation was over I had lost the emotional edge I had on her and we kissed few more times but I could tell she was just tired now, so I just quit and we both fell asleep. I had allowed the phone call destroy the emotional climax I had built her up to since the very first Neg I gave her earlier. My buddy woke me up about an hour later and we both left in the middle of the night to go sleep at his place. He had not gotten any action because of his chick’s time of the month and wanted to leave. In a way, this was the final Neg because she would wake up and I would be gone after our late night make out session.


Conclusion:
I know that this is a hell of a long field report but I really though it would be helpful to some of you and it is my first Field Report so I though I would give it my best. I even left out a bunch of stuff because I wanted to cut it down to make it readable and useful to others. Most of the techniques I used that night I have used a thousand times before on chicks. The difference is that I was not aware of what I was doing right or wrong previously. I just went by instinct and sometimes it worked and other times I crashed and burned. What I realized is that instinct is good, but only if you couple it with strategy and proven tactics. The best athletes in the world have the best instincts, but they are the best because they use both God given talent along with practice and more practice of the fundamentals. I previously had no word for “Neg” or “Takeaway” or “IOI,” but now I have a systematic and organized approach to employ all of them. It took me less than two hours to make out with this chick I had just met. She was not even drunk. It was a great feeling when it was over. I had learned so much, made a few mistakes, and lived to fight another day. And Man she was Hot! - ULTRA

[Scoundrel]

Good report. I have some thoughts and I'l post them when I have more time.

[Midnight]

if there is anything i've learning about pickup and seduction is that it takes a perfect storm of events to get the true classy HBs. one little mistake, sometimes a puny little one (as in your case allowing her to answer the phone) and all can be lost -- even if you play everything else perfect.

this makes me thing about what style mentioned about NLP and how it helped him -- our perspective is usually we kill ourselves on those small little mistakes, when we really should be appreciative for having learned something new for the next time. anything in life that is worthwhile takes sacrifice and although we stumble on the way sometimes, that is what makes it so worthwhile when we succeed.

good sarge, keep em coming.

AK