FR: Daygaming at CCCC

[Guest]

I saw that there was this hot girl reading a Humanities book(class that im in, but shes not in my class). So i went to the group and figured out that the teacher kicked me out. I went to talk to her and came back to the library.

I saw the other girl who got kicked out and we started walking back in. The hot girl was walking out and she knew the other girl. In my head I was like yes, now I have an in. I asked the girl in my group how she knew her and she said that they were in a class together. She also knew one of my boys. SO far so good, I have social proof because of the situation.


Then I go talk the librarian about something and come back and guess whos sitting next to the girl in my group. Its her. So the girl in my group leaves and I use the situation to open her.

M: How do you ____?
G: I'm in Humanities with her.
M: no way, im taking humanities.
G: really, whos your teacher?
M:____, it is really easy.
G: I know,

more talking a and a few jokes about my other teacher. she laughs a few times. She has to leave and even know that Ive gotten a few IOIs, I decide to not number close because I don't want to look needy which will kill the attraction. I might be able to just hang out with the 2 people who know her and hopefully Ill be able to eventually F close this one.


Learning for the day.
1. If you don't get IOis when you first see a girl, still open
2. Get the number earlier on.

[Guest]

If I know I am going to see a girl again, I'll often wait to get her number. Reason being it leaves her wondering....."why isn't this guy asking me for my number" and puts her in a position that she'll have to try a bit harder to attract you if she's interested. Plus is paints the picture that you aren't desperate.

Operating this way is another method that filters out some of the flakes.

[Guest]

I agree with you on the not looking needy part. Except theres no way to confirm that ill see her again.

[maxwellmusique]

Bro, I am glad to hear that I am not the only one at CCCC. Which campus do you go to?

[talontron]

more talking a and a few jokes about my other teacher. she laughs a few times. She has to leave and even know that Ive gotten a few IOIs, I decide to not number close because I don't want to look needy which will kill the attraction.

why would taking a girls number be needy? cuz its not at all. who cares about IOI's doesnt matter if she gives them or not. if she is talking to you that is all you need, that should be the only thing you look for when it comes to an IOI. most really hot girls wont give you IOIs. so automatically looking for them and not receiving them, would be perceived as she doesnt like you to your mind . which isnt the case everytime. so you just blew yourself out from your own mind LOL.

RULE: if she is still talking to you, she likes you! period


you just need to escalate and close.

also you had no intent here in this interaction. she was probrably thinking why is this guy talking to me? he is just telling jokes. what a weirdo.

it seems as though you were just approaching just to make yourself not look bad. you were playin to not lose. when you should be playing to win everytime. thats how you get good fast.

be polarising

oh well next time get the number and try to close.