can you point me to the thread for closing

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i have found that i have a limited time with a woman, and now find that i don't care anymore.

i tested and found that i can get a woman looking in my eyes and laughing and even have her touching their hair....hehe. each of the 3 woman were in their early 20s and i am ........uh......ok....49....but i never know what to do next (especially now that i'm afraid i'll be creepy old guy). i didn't have my first girlfriend til 19, and each relationship since has been at least 2 years each, and 30 years of marriage between 3 women....buuuuut.....they have all fallen into my lap. they made the move.

so, 30 years of women and i've never asked a woman out for a date. the disadvantage is that they chose me and i settled for them.

so, i get a woman giggling and making fun of them in a way they enjoy......but then i say "ok" and walk away....what the f do i do next.

thank you.

[Guest]

A really good thing to do is talk about something you are interested in and actively do. It has a double value because it displays you as an active interesting person and it sets up an opportunity for you to invite her come do it with you. Even if it's something as basic the fact that you like to party.

You - My friends through this awesome NYE party every year and always have a theme like 80's. it's really crazy, bla, bla bla
Her - Wow that's sounds fun.
You - You should come with me(handing her your cell phone)

Obviously that is a very dumbed down example to illustrate the point. But you can apply this basic model to anything. It can help you lead the conversation and give you chances tell stories about the last time you did whatever and how much fun it was. Don't jump the gun and act to eager, but use anything as an excuse to number close.

From there it's just calling, text game etc.