so basically i went back to the strip club and to see the waitress whom I consider my perfect 10. she was at the front, when I walked in . She seemed happy to see me which I took as an IOI. I ioied then ioded to try amplify her desire levels(i know stupid idea). Throughout the night I caught her glances at me which i took to be another ioi, she even came up to me and started talking. I told her I did not want a drink then somehow a faggot got her to sit with her. He might have used what I used to do and say "you look tired, why don't you take a seat" and commenced from there (just a speculation). He bought her a soda and she sat there with him. I was completely ok with this until I saw her write her number down. Then Instantly the kill switch went off in my head to AMOG or use a JPL. I was not about to lose to some faggot. So i waited until she was walking by with the other waitress so I could JPL the hell out of the situation. I hit on the other waitress in front of her, she did not look pleased. I saw the faggot go to his car and I literally wanted to challenge him. During this time, I was freaking out and anxious because I know if I did not do something quick I was about to admit defeat to some faggot which I could not accept that for myself. I blew Up BRs(sorry BR) Phone, Luke kroghs phone and Dr mike.Luke krogh told me with the little time I had there was no quick way to amog and that I had no time to recover.
Im pretty sure this dude was not a natural or PUA. His body language was terrible. I know that If I had my sense of humor back I could turn the club into house party mode(which was old style of game)
Dallas PUA
The Pickup Artist Playground
Anger and Ego plus maybe extremely miscalibrated
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by Guest » Sun Mar 27, 2011 8:41 pm
You didn't blow up my phone. One text hardly qualifies as that...
Anyway, I was, well let's just say busy. But, my advice would have been exactly the same. Walking away and not trying to revive a set that's dead or otherwise involved is not an admission of defeat, especially if she's a hired gun and you'll get another chance.
You'll see her again act as if nothing ever happened and keep working on her. Girls are hyper gamous meaning that they'll enterain multiple suitors at one time, this is especially true when she's really young.
On a side note, I've noticed that when you feel a bit of anger towards someone else you refer to them as faggots, losers, bitches, etc., etc. You might want to think about whatever anger you're carrying around and address it. A girl will fall for a guy that's a player, she'll fall for a loser, she'll fall for douchebag/asshole...but, she's not going to fall for a bitter, angry guy.
Anyway, I was, well let's just say busy. But, my advice would have been exactly the same. Walking away and not trying to revive a set that's dead or otherwise involved is not an admission of defeat, especially if she's a hired gun and you'll get another chance.
You'll see her again act as if nothing ever happened and keep working on her. Girls are hyper gamous meaning that they'll enterain multiple suitors at one time, this is especially true when she's really young.
On a side note, I've noticed that when you feel a bit of anger towards someone else you refer to them as faggots, losers, bitches, etc., etc. You might want to think about whatever anger you're carrying around and address it. A girl will fall for a guy that's a player, she'll fall for a loser, she'll fall for douchebag/asshole...but, she's not going to fall for a bitter, angry guy.
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by Guest » Sun Mar 27, 2011 9:51 pm
I think we have all been in this position. Girl at venue,your target, gives another guy the time of day and he successfully closes her. You are pissed because you either didn't have the required game to close her, or you didn't even attempt. Any other guy talking to her, no matter their actual worth, you deem to be a low life loser piece of shit.
Control over others, for the most part, we have little of. What they do is up to them and what we do is up to us. If another guy steps it up and closes your target there really isn't much you can do other than kick yourself in the shin for not making your presence strong in the beginning. Why you are so mad at that guy is the main issue at hand. I see no reason ill will should be targeted towards your adversary. I see no reason why you should even consider an AMOG attempt in this situation. IMO it would lower your value so freaking low that the girl would realize you are a jealous boy who she deems of little value, stalkerish even.
What is JPL?
Control over others, for the most part, we have little of. What they do is up to them and what we do is up to us. If another guy steps it up and closes your target there really isn't much you can do other than kick yourself in the shin for not making your presence strong in the beginning. Why you are so mad at that guy is the main issue at hand. I see no reason ill will should be targeted towards your adversary. I see no reason why you should even consider an AMOG attempt in this situation. IMO it would lower your value so freaking low that the girl would realize you are a jealous boy who she deems of little value, stalkerish even.
What is JPL?
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by Guest » Sun Mar 27, 2011 10:20 pm
haha, ok BR. For me it does. A JPL is a jealousy plot line. i think they are taught by crap systems. Honestly I don't know where it came from. Ive literally read everything on Game, after I lost mine. Ive read magic bullets(don't waste your time), the Venusian arts hand book, mystery second book not the Pick up artist, DYD(not good he constantly contradicts himself), sectrets of strip club seduction by dean cortez, adam lyons attraction explained along with the bootcamp, and the game. I have so much knowledge my brain is fried. Oh and I just baught kezia nobles 15 steps to becoming a master seducer.
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by Guest » Sun Mar 27, 2011 10:56 pm
[QUOTE=playercool;40790]I think we have all been in this position. Girl at venue,your target, gives another guy the time of day and he successfully closes her. You are pissed because you either didn't have the required game to close her, or you didn't even attempt. Any other guy talking to her, no matter their actual worth, you deem to be a low life loser piece of shit.
Control over others, for the most part, we have little of. What they do is up to them and what we do is up to us. If another guy steps it up and closes your target there really isn't much you can do other than kick yourself in the shin for not making your presence strong in the beginning. Why you are so mad at that guy is the main issue at hand. I see no reason ill will should be targeted towards your adversary. I see no reason why you should even consider an AMOG attempt in this situation. IMO it would lower your value so freaking low that the girl would realize you are a jealous boy who she deems of little value, stalkerish even.
What is JPL?[/QUOTE]
It has to do with my own ego. thats why I put ego in my title. Lets just say I live a decent life style and from what I saw the guy driving. I personally believe I have more to offer than him.....In multiple different aspects of life. To be a 100% honest here. After falling for the girl at my ex college who would play mind games amongst other evil things I don't care to mention with me and caused my bed ridden depression. I actually like this girl for various reasons, she gave me the ability to give a shit again.
Control over others, for the most part, we have little of. What they do is up to them and what we do is up to us. If another guy steps it up and closes your target there really isn't much you can do other than kick yourself in the shin for not making your presence strong in the beginning. Why you are so mad at that guy is the main issue at hand. I see no reason ill will should be targeted towards your adversary. I see no reason why you should even consider an AMOG attempt in this situation. IMO it would lower your value so freaking low that the girl would realize you are a jealous boy who she deems of little value, stalkerish even.
What is JPL?[/QUOTE]
It has to do with my own ego. thats why I put ego in my title. Lets just say I live a decent life style and from what I saw the guy driving. I personally believe I have more to offer than him.....In multiple different aspects of life. To be a 100% honest here. After falling for the girl at my ex college who would play mind games amongst other evil things I don't care to mention with me and caused my bed ridden depression. I actually like this girl for various reasons, she gave me the ability to give a shit again.
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by Guest » Sun Mar 27, 2011 11:31 pm
[QUOTE=maenad;40795]It has to do with my own ego. thats why I put ego in my title. Lets just say I live a decent life style and from what I saw the guy driving. I personally believe I have more to offer than him.....In multiple different aspects of life. To be a 100% honest here. After falling for the girl at my ex college who would play mind games amongst other evil things I don't care to mention with me and caused my bed ridden depression. I actually like this girl for various reasons, she gave me the ability to give a shit again.[/QUOTE]
Sorry bro, but having a nice car means jack-fucking-shit...especially if you didn't pay for such a hot ride (which I suspect you did not because you're still working through school...if you DID then you made a bad choice but it still has to subsidized by someone).
I have an MBA. I have a great job that pays me very well. I have more money than I know what to do with. I own real estate. I am an owner of several different companies (albeit small companies...but still positive cash flowing companies). I drive a hot car.
Yep, I have all of those things. But, you know what? It means jack-fucking-shit. Just two, short weeks ago I decided to test this concept. I rented a car. It was clean and relatively new. I think it was a Ford Focus. Then, I went and picked up my date in this piece of shit car. THEN, I drove by an apartment complex that is slightly shady, yet CLEAN and commented that that's where I live. THEN, I brought a flask with me to a bar with the excuse that I like to pour my own drinks AND I hate paying too much for booze. Then, I paid cash for everything. I wore jeans I bought from Target and a T-shirt from JC Penney. Guess what? It didn't fucking matter. She cared about who I am, what's in my mind, my personality, my sense of humor, my dreams, my passions, etc.
She blew me in the rental car...
Of course, when I rolled up with my 350 the next time I saw her she was clearly dripping wet...
Point is that that shit doesn't matter. YOU matter. The material bullshit is just a bonus...
Priorities man, priorities...
Sorry bro, but having a nice car means jack-fucking-shit...especially if you didn't pay for such a hot ride (which I suspect you did not because you're still working through school...if you DID then you made a bad choice but it still has to subsidized by someone).
I have an MBA. I have a great job that pays me very well. I have more money than I know what to do with. I own real estate. I am an owner of several different companies (albeit small companies...but still positive cash flowing companies). I drive a hot car.
Yep, I have all of those things. But, you know what? It means jack-fucking-shit. Just two, short weeks ago I decided to test this concept. I rented a car. It was clean and relatively new. I think it was a Ford Focus. Then, I went and picked up my date in this piece of shit car. THEN, I drove by an apartment complex that is slightly shady, yet CLEAN and commented that that's where I live. THEN, I brought a flask with me to a bar with the excuse that I like to pour my own drinks AND I hate paying too much for booze. Then, I paid cash for everything. I wore jeans I bought from Target and a T-shirt from JC Penney. Guess what? It didn't fucking matter. She cared about who I am, what's in my mind, my personality, my sense of humor, my dreams, my passions, etc.
She blew me in the rental car...
Of course, when I rolled up with my 350 the next time I saw her she was clearly dripping wet...
Point is that that shit doesn't matter. YOU matter. The material bullshit is just a bonus...
Priorities man, priorities...
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by Guest » Mon Mar 28, 2011 9:41 am
[QUOTE=maenad;40801]Ok, I get it. i value the wrong things. i have no value. The only value I used to have was i made things insanely fun for others. Ill work on getting that back...[/QUOTE]
You do have value. Everyone has value. You just need to change what you value and work on those things that you may be lacking. It's a pretty easy fix with some work and effort.
Making life fun is a great start. If you can create the dynamic that you're a vacation from a woman's boring life (all women think their lives are boring) then you've provided a lot of value to her and you'll be rewarded appropriately.
You do have value. Everyone has value. You just need to change what you value and work on those things that you may be lacking. It's a pretty easy fix with some work and effort.
Making life fun is a great start. If you can create the dynamic that you're a vacation from a woman's boring life (all women think their lives are boring) then you've provided a lot of value to her and you'll be rewarded appropriately.
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