ok, so the other night I approached 3-5 sets and had my wing Dr. Mike with me. I opened this waitress. Tried to build rapport with her so that I could break it to generate attraction. I qualified her based on commonalities. The I fucked up on Negging. I said
M:"I like your attire, the other waiter is wearing the same thing."
HB waitress: Is that supposed to be a joke of something?
She looked less than pleased and I told "oh, I was just messing with you. when you have some free time why don't you come over and talk"
her response was "ok" with a smile.
This night Dr. mike was trying to get me to understand that its ok, to open with "hi, my name is maenad". I did this and it surprisingly works pretty well for me.
So then he was in set with this HB 7-8. She had a friend who we'll call horny HB. Horny HB was talking to my friend who I introduced to the community. she alos was talking to me. I hooked her but did not get mutual attraction(at least I don't think so) well what ever she gave me her phone number. Tried to bounce but that did not work because I had to take my friend home. But she decided that she wanted to go dancing with me and Dr. mikes and Dr. mikes target. Unfortunately Dr. mike informed a day later that she left with some dude. Don't really know where to go from here...